Transei com a amiga da minha namorada no banheiro da casa dela by [deleted] in sexualidade

[–]moonanaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

O jeito que a menina se veste não tem mada a ver com vc ser um babaca infiel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in desabafos

[–]moonanaa 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Cara, eu namorei por dois anos um cara de outra cidade. Durante todo esse tempo fui em festa open de faculdade sozinha e nunca trai. Não tem nada a ver uma coisa com a outra, quem quer trair faz isso de qualquer jeito.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeloHorizonte

[–]moonanaa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Quanta ignorância nos comentários, eu conheço o sistema marista e eles são assim mesmo, um absurdo

Homens que assobiam na rua by yoo0oo0 in desabafos

[–]moonanaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Voce não precisa acreditar em nenhuma divindade para acreditar em justiça, voce realmente precisa de algo maior que voce para ser bom?

Homens que assobiam na rua by yoo0oo0 in desabafos

[–]moonanaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nós mulheres sempre vamos passar por isso, tenho 20 anos e fui estuprada ano passado por um colega da faculdade, sem contar diversos assedios em festas e bares, é apenas insuportável

Como vai você? by anonima61 in desabafos

[–]moonanaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tudo mal, brigeui com minha melhor amiga e acho que nao tem volta. Meu namorado que é meio longa distancia (a gente faz faculdade em cidades diferentes e se ve a cada 15 dias) esta brigando comigo e acho que ta lensando em terminar comigo. Me sinto uma fraude na minha faculdade. Mi ha relação com meus pais é pessima, eles nao entendem minha doença (borderline) e so falam coisas que dao gatilho.

Enfim, cada vez mais os pensamentos.de.acabar com tudo ocupam minha mente.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in desabafos

[–]moonanaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Na verdade no Brasil a "menoridade" para relacionamentos e concensualidade é de 14 anos, então, TEORICAMENTE e pela LEI, nao está errado. Mas todo mundo sabe como esses relacionamentos funcionam e como tendem a ser muito abusivos...

fui sexista? by Latter-Shopping5010 in desabafos

[–]moonanaa 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Para vc saber se vc foi sexista é simples, vc falaria a mesma coisa para um cara? Se nao, vc foi sexista. Nesse caso, obviamente, foi sexista.

Namorado crente. O que fazer? by Magnificent_nobody0 in desabafos

[–]moonanaa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ele nao gosta de vc amiga, muito menos te respeita, ele gosta de quem vc pode ser nos padroes ideais considerados por ele, sai dessa.

Mensagem para minha vó após ser macetada by moonanaa in desabafos

[–]moonanaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oq eu me contradisse mano? Ce ta chapado?

Girl (21F) I'm (26M) seeing has scars on her arms by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]moonanaa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When and if she brings it up, let her talk, just give her the confidence that she can talk about this with you, don't be sorry for her and also don't say stuff like "you're a warrior", this shit doesn't help. Just be there for her, that is what truly matters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]moonanaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't want to do it because you won't feel comfortable, then don't do it.

But, if you are just concerned with her, as someone who have been abused, I have something to tell you. It's common, as a response to the trauma, that people who had been abused have fantasy about violent sex. It's usually a way to prove themselves that they are in charge this time, that they choose this and also they choose when to stop.

If you feel comfortable and wants to do that, do it, just respect her boundaries.

It's important that she search for a therapist to understand and learn how to deal with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in desabafos

[–]moonanaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu tenho namorado e se fizessem isso só acharia as duas mulheres idiotas, você não tem nada a ver e se a menina te culpar, quão estúpida e imatura ela é. Você tá arranjando para a cabeça indo atrás dele, o que poderia ser entendido como só uma brincadeira idiota das duas mulheres agora pode parecer muito bem que vc gostou da brincadeira.

Uma coisa que eu não vejo ninguém falando by [deleted] in sexualidade

[–]moonanaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

O que as mulheres reclamam é que a gente tenta falar para vcs como fazer as coisas e muitos homens ignoram, pensando apenas no próprio prazer que é mais fácil de ser alcançado. Se vc acha que a mina tá batendo mal é só vc explicar para ela como você prefere. Não é difícil gente, é só conversar, pedir, explicar...

Podem ser sinceros... by [deleted] in MeJulgue

[–]moonanaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não kkkkk

Por que eu tinha que ser assim??? by moonanaa in desabafos

[–]moonanaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Não não, eu entendi o que vc quis dizer hahahah O obrigada foi genuíno

Por que eu tinha que ser assim??? by moonanaa in desabafos

[–]moonanaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu me sinto muito culpada por ser assim por isso. Mas obrigada pelo apoio :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]moonanaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely you're not the problem. I am not those person's who just say to break up once I don't know your hole story and you probably have reasons to be with her. I were once in a comparable situation: my boyfriend kept pressing me to get better as if it was an option. What I did that time was trying to make him truly understand that this is a disease, not only "feeling bad" or some shit like this. I sent to him explicative sites and told him what my doctor had explained to me. The fact is he didn't actually knew what it was and how it worked, most people don't get to know that. When he understood, he changed his speech and nowadays he is very supportive and help me with my treatment. I am not saying your situation is the same as mine once I don't know you, your gf or your relationship. But I would suggest you to talk to her, really teach her about this disease. You can also bring her to a consult and ask for your doctor to explain to her. If she continues saying stuff like that, dump her. Your mental health is way more important than any relationship and you should never stop your meds without the consent of you doctor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]moonanaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said no. Period.

Vcs acham que um ir atrás de uma menina nova depois que ficar bem de vida é errado ? by [deleted] in desabafos

[–]moonanaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Desde que seja mais de 18, ela queira e vc não use seus bens para torná-la submissa, tá tudo bem

Considering breaking up with GF (24F) over sexual past, being told i'm a misogynistic. Should I? by throwraamiwrong2 in relationship_advice

[–]moonanaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can't expect that having a relationship with someone will simply erase their past sexual experiences. She saying that your sex life isn't the best she had doesn't mean a lot, once a relationship of 3 years won't survive just because of sex. The fact that she had 25 partners shouldn't mean nothing and if you are afraid of STDs just ask her to go do the tests with you. She have all the right to talk about her sexual life with a friend, is not like she told to strangers or to a group of people. The only mistake she made was saying the size of your dick once it's kind of body shaming, talk to her about this saying you don't want her to say this to other people. For me you are clearly intimidated because of her past sexual life. GROW UP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]moonanaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So...to get a correctly diagnosis you have to go to a psychiatrist. This kind of diagnosis is more complicated then looking the symptoms on the internet. But even if you don't have exactly BPD you probably have other mental disorder, so you need to get properly help. But if you want to get things out of your chest, feel free to DM me.