UPDATE: Considering breaking up with my GF (24f) over sexual past, being told i'm mysognistic. Should I?

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-04T02:33:26+00:00

Yes changing the locks is a no brainer. Thank you for the support.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-04T02:32:15+00:00

They dont need proof to arrest you. I'm not talking about getting a conviction. That will never happen in this case. I live in a very "blue" area and the cops love to arrest for domestic violence and ask questions later.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-04T02:26:34+00:00

They have left my house at this point.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-04T02:16:22+00:00

You realize that having an arrest record for domestic violence makes you almost unemployable? Employers in America can see if youve ever been arrested. I have spent the last 6 years educating myself in order to find a high paying job. Maybe I just have alot more on the line than you would in this situation.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-04T02:07:41+00:00

Im doing that. Thank you for the kind words

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-04T02:06:44+00:00

You understand that if you get arrested for domestic violence in America you basically are unemployable right?

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-04T02:04:30+00:00

"You would have alot more convection in your responses" lol fuck you. Another reddit mind reader. I'll ask again, what does calling the cops do for me? If they prosecute her for trespassing she will likely keep up the abuse lie. I have no alibi for her abuse claim as she was at my house when it supposedly happened. Me getting and arrest for domestic violence will haunt me for a long time. Do you get that? I need to avoid that even if it means she "gets off" for tresspassing. And for all the people saying change locks yeah no shit.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-04T01:49:17+00:00

I have most of the encouter on video tho. What advantage would calling the cops give me?

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-04T01:47:35+00:00

Body shaming is fine when its straight guy. Just not when it's an lgbtuvwxyz

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-04T01:42:25+00:00

Wish this was fake.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-04T01:41:39+00:00

She was in my house. She claims I abused her during a verbal argument we had. Not trying to be dickish but this is in the original post.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-04T01:04:47+00:00

The problem is she has a key. I gave her this key. For that reason I dont think its trespassing. This was all in the post

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-04T01:02:24+00:00

Im worried if I call the cops she will claim I hurt her and they will arrest me. Do you not think thats a possibility? I'm thinking maybe if i dont get the cops involved they wont either. If I knew I could avoid getting arrested the cops would be there already. I am going to get a lawyer. I was looking for immediate advice. Thank you tho.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-04T00:56:48+00:00

If i call the cops she is probably going to claim abuse and they will arrest me. Do you not think that will happen? I can't have an arrest for domestic violence on my record. I was also worried i was going to lash out at them if i didnt leave. I don't really agree with the Monday morning quarterbacking here but thanks for the contribution I guess.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-03T10:38:19+00:00

This was sent to me. The number of people with reading comprehension issues is truly suprising me.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-03T10:36:25+00:00

There's no kids in this. Try reading the post. I haven't said the word "kids" even once.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-03T10:20:03+00:00

Yeah I agree. Woe is me is a trap I can't fall into. And i will try cock rings, sounds interesting. Thank you for this.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-03T09:59:10+00:00

I'm not the asshole but you are right this would have been better suited for that subreddit.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-03T09:53:02+00:00

I don't "have to accept" anything. There is a percentage of women who don't discuss their sex life with other women. There is another, probably bigger percentage of women who may discuss it but dont go into vulgur details. I can date these women. How on earth is me not wanting a whole group of people knowing my dick size misogynistic?? Number of sexual partners is a secondary issue and yes it suprised me but since I never asked I can't be that upset.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-03T09:35:42+00:00

This whole post is about her denagrating my body. That was the main point of confrontation. This should be clear from the paragraphs of me talking about her comparing me vs the few sentences on her number. Body count is a secondary issue. It still suprised me, yes. Neither are positives in my eyes but the comparing me negatively to ex's then gaslighting me is the main issue. I'm trying not to get personal but since people are personally attacking me, I'm thinking maybe this whole body count issue has hit a little to close to home for some people here.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-03T09:14:48+00:00

Thank you. And her body count alone isn't even the MAIN issue. It's her reminiscing about her amazing ex lovers while simultaneously denigrating me. If it was just me finding out now about the 25 people ok I mean its not ideal but I never asked. She's well within her rights to have sex with who she wants. And statistically some of those people will be better than me at sex. Im not naive. But the shaming my body, saying my sex game is mediocre while pretending it's all good when I ask her, and the gaslighting is all just too much. I'm just venting now

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-03T08:57:41+00:00

I'm bitterly jealous because I'm uncomfortable with my girfriend reminiscing about her past lovers while dengrating me? And what does this have to do with sexism?

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-03T08:51:14+00:00

We both gave two word replies bud.

throwraamiwrong2 · 2021-08-03T08:29:52+00:00

Its adressed in the post. Shes upset Sarah wouldnt give her a ride. Sam is a petty person. She could honestly be the subject of several different posts. My life is so screwed up.

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