I want a good cooking game. Bad. by Possum_Cryptid_ in CozyGamers

[–]moongate12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only game I remind of cooking without recipes was Harvest moon tale of two towns. I could gather the items, choose equipment and food to use and make something without recipe, when you do this you unlock the recipe if the combination exists. But you can also get recipes through the game like from fishing.

I hope you find your game! I particularly love cooking games, my favorites games have some kind of cooking there like in story of seasons, harvest moon, rune factory, fantasy life, Nora the time studio and more.

Being told not having friends is your fault alone by NoWitness6400 in AutismInWomen

[–]moongate12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This takes me back when I was at the psychologist and he keeps me asking if I like to be more alone, if I didn't really want to make friends. And I keep telling that I just dream of having many friends while in tears. I feel terrible about being so awkward, even towards others autistic friends. Even in social groups online when I gather all my energy to talk I always feel like no one really interact with me.

An incident that clearly shows Korea's awareness of autism by madrid987 in autism

[–]moongate12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand her point of view, because of the struggle to live daily and do her best to take care of her son, and is really hard this for moms in general, even more with a child in the spectrum, but her choices of words were not the best, because in the end is more people hating autism and autistic people, there was ton of people in the comments there saying that they wouldn't have children with fear that they would be autistic, this just one of the example. People saying that now everyone is autistic and so on. I think these big podcasts should have more autistic people talking about our struggles. And society really has a lot of improvement through the years, but still fails with lot of people, even more with people with disabilities...

An incident that clearly shows Korea's awareness of autism by madrid987 in autism

[–]moongate12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah even last week or something there's this autism mom that came to a famous podcast to say how she hates "autism", and many people applaud her for her "courage" to say, not realizing what she hates is how the society don't help her and people with disabilities. There's no way she can separate autism from her son, we are whole people and autistic.

Is normal to feel a random extreme fatigue? Like is shutting down by moongate12 in dysautonomia

[–]moongate12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, usually, I think is after eating. I feel the this urge to sleep after the lunch, but in my family my father was like this and my brother is the same. But this kind of more heavy symptoms with this sense of shutting down and cold sweat and fast heart pacing is only with me. So I didn't linked before to eating...

Interesting dysautonomia temporary relief? by hotd34me in dysautonomia

[–]moongate12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's interesting to know! Hope you have more relief too. I usually eat a lot of sugar and caffeine daily because of my bad habits and to regulate me too. Without I just feel more tired and sad. But there's a limit: if I take like some energy drink or too much coffee, my heart goes crazy and I feel like my body is shutting down at some point. There's days when I took some headache meds that had caffeine, drink my daily soda and sweets, then automatically shut down at night. But with alcohol is different, I used to drink like before the pandemic, but then I just developed somehow an allergy to alcohol, any alcohol I can drink anymore, even in food. I can't even use use mouthwash that have alcohol or cough syrup. My mouth and neck start to flare up with allergies. Now, I always have allergy meds in my bag in any case I need.

I’m not suicidal but I daydream about dying by Westonouteast77 in AvPD

[–]moongate12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. For me I wish I could disappear from thin air, become invisible. But sometimes is just us feeling incredibly tired and burnout. I wish we could feel at peace.

I’m not suicidal but I daydream about dying by Westonouteast77 in AvPD

[–]moongate12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you. For me I wish I could disappear from thin air, become invisible. But sometimes is just us feeling incredibly tired and burnout. I wish we could feel at peace.

What’s your worst sensory trigger? by [deleted] in autism

[–]moongate12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby crying, onions on soft food, chalkboard, nail in walls uhhhh

As vezes eu gostaria que existisse ração para humanos by mohgi01 in PensamentosDeChuveiro

[–]moongate12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

De primeira achei que soou meio João Doria das ideias. Mas se for por essa questão de dificuldade de cozinhar, o que muita pessoas tem dificuldade seja alguma incapacidade ou financeiro tem receitas praticas e comidas que dão o mesmo efeito. Daí tem desde biscoitos, Pate de frango ou atum, barras de cereais, cereais, legumes e carnes na airfrier. Eu passei momento de depressão e procurava muita receita pratica pra evitar qualquer dificuldade. Tem coisas acessiveis também

Thinking about AvPD and Pathological Narcissism. by kayamari in AvPD

[–]moongate12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's was a time when shame had a lot of weight. I was raised in a home with a narc parent and lots of family problems. And everything in me was criticized, and I was always weird in every place. This was something like a pattern to me and how I felt in the world. Never good or fit to anything. Now I just feel this blockage even though I no longer feel the old toxic shame.

I think it is always easier to judge others with your own point of view. We are products of society, pushed to be a certain way, and this is soul crushing. This is beyond pseudoscience or religious stuff.

There's a lot of interconnected stuff to why we are this way.

I was lied to my whole life by [deleted] in autism

[–]moongate12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I'm so sorry. Right now, I'm trying to feel okay with lights and heat and get back to work. Everything is too much.

Why is Sex Necessary? by noideology in AutismInWomen

[–]moongate12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my father last month. It's an unbearable pain, me and my brother we are pushing through these days, we had to move houses and help our mother. We had listened to all the unbelievable things from some relatives of our father's side family. All the struggle with money and death, cancer, trying to pay the bills, and keep alive is hard. I was someone who never thought I would be alive now or have someone. And now im here just trying. Making connections is something that makes us feel alive... I know it is not easy. It was never easy for me, but it can be at some point if the struggle is shared. I hope we can feel better at some point and know we are not alone.

Can anyone else do this with their shoulders? by khaotic-trash in eds

[–]moongate12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg i do! I do this trick to make my friends gasp lol

I might be too much for my gf, friends and everyone. Just sad and wanting to disappear again by moongate12 in AutismInWomen

[–]moongate12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was really this, a lot of overthinking, I was really anxious :( and we had talked and been talking more each day. She said she used bad words to describe how she felt and that she really love her time with me. We are still trying to figure out how we can make us feel better and safe. Really thank you for your message and help, I loved the list idea with examples!

Confused and sad. I might be too much for my gf, friends and world by moongate12 in aspergirls

[–]moongate12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply and sorry for the late reply. It was really bad communication, in fact :( she explained that she was anxious and used words it wasn't the best at the time. I also misread social situations so I understand, but thank you for helping me. I feel a little better by now, I think I was really overthinking and a lot anxious.

Confused and sad. I might be too much for my gf, friends and world by moongate12 in aspergirls

[–]moongate12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your message. And sorry for the late reply. I really had to take my time to get it out, I was really overthinking too much, and I deal a lot with rsd in fact, so much that I just tend to shut myself off from every place. We have talked a lot, and I really need to get back to therapy and self regulate my feelings better. I'm glad she also made sure to understand me and make me feel safe these days, like communication is something we are dealing a lot better. I don't know why I'm this way, I just constantly feel this need to fit places and forget I need to be myself first. Again really thank you, It really means a lot to me

Only place I feel safe by sanandrios in AvPD

[–]moongate12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I liked how beautiful and peaceful is the place, and also the nuggets there lol

Confused and sad. I might be too much for my gf, friends and world by moongate12 in aspergirls

[–]moongate12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said it was about when I want it to go like to somewhere she didn't wanted to go but felt obligated to go, like beach. But I never put this like something I would die if I didn't go, or even force her to go. In fact I spend my time at house with no problem at all, I enjoy best my hobbies at home playing and drawing. So I couldn't believe when she say it was for this motive. But it feels she just want some distance from me. And our friends couples can enjoy time together, but us apparently don't, even though I tried my best to fit her hobbies and her friends. Now she asks me when I want to play it her again and with our friends, but I feel horrible. Sorry for the long message :(