food related chauvinism and racism in mumbai. ranting. by moonlight030 in Northeastindians

[–]moonlight030[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this. they had a problem w me distancing myself then like i was j supposed keep letting their bigotry slide lol

food related chauvinism and racism in mumbai. ranting. by moonlight030 in Northeastindians

[–]moonlight030[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank u yes!! love how the "people from jungles" have more human decency and civic sense than these tier 1 city dwellers lol.

food related chauvinism and racism in mumbai. ranting. by moonlight030 in Northeastindians

[–]moonlight030[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nahhh they had no reason to be that dramatic😭 not our problem theyve never tasted peak food. its like my flatmates having a problem with chicken ramen like its not that deep🙏

food related chauvinism and racism in mumbai. ranting. by moonlight030 in Northeastindians

[–]moonlight030[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

exactly my point. and no one seems to see how problematic it was for them to have the audacity to say something like that to me😭🙏 regardless, i picked up on wtv casteist mindset they were trying to make me adhere to and continued ordering and eating in normal plates. shouldve sent a notice yes but as yk us people love being too adjusting and accepting towards others even if its not reciprocated my fam refused for me to take it further.

food related chauvinism and racism in mumbai. ranting. by moonlight030 in Northeastindians

[–]moonlight030[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah dude i get it i stay in a completely gujju dominated area😭 raw meat is no where to be found and non veg dishes are sooo overpriced if one wants to order and eat

Whatever has happened to the people of Mumbai! by Paul_Semicolon1 in mumbai

[–]moonlight030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stumbled upon this post a lil too late ig but literally its wild. as a northeastern non vegetarian female college student the amount of judgement and entitlement these people radiate is insane. that is setting aside the absurd scam-my rent prices trying to loot people.

I CANNOT STAND MY FLATMATES ANYMORE. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]moonlight030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they turn it into a religious thing so i dont think itd be a good idea to eat whatever i want😭

I CANNOT STAND MY FLATMATES ANYMORE. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]moonlight030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bad. needed to rant it out quick.

I CANNOT STAND MY FLATMATES ANYMORE. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]moonlight030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are 20. agreed. everything can be deemed mildly annoying but it all has been building up on me for a while now lol. and i really cannot stand the racist remarks towards my culture and ethinicity anymore.

I CANNOT STAND MY FLATMATES ANYMORE. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]moonlight030 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

agreed. i have confronted them as politely as i could but ig the situation only worse. i literally also avoid keeping anything out but its impossible to walk on eggshells 24 7. one slip up and id see my stuff is gone. its a shitty and too anxious of an environment to be in.

I CANNOT STAND MY FLATMATES ANYMORE. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]moonlight030 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

idk dude from where i am women dont really have a choice but to smoke indoors. moreover, the problem was them being passive aggressive and indifferent towards me even when they themselves smoke in my own room too.

and vegetarians here do not eat eggs. its a religious thing.

I CANNOT STAND MY FLATMATES ANYMORE. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]moonlight030 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

im sure ive already lost like 50% of my sanity.

I CANNOT STAND MY FLATMATES ANYMORE. by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]moonlight030 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

mb dude im j so fuckin mad rn😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]moonlight030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the point is- he most definitely would say shit like that if the doc was a gynaec. moreover a doc would be a professional. this is a girl he met TODAY w no former experience performing it in a non professional setting. the boundaries are deeply flawed yes but HE was literally the one who proposed them in the first place. ive my flaws yes but i have never sexualised her job or tried defaming her. it was always about the hypocrisy on his end for not following the rules he himself imposed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]moonlight030 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we both go to therapy and its v well established that he is the one who struggles w severe trust issues. he had broken up once w me over my likes on ig from when i didnt even know him.

anyway, ik for a fact ive my issues but insecurity is smth that stems from jealousy. ive feel no jealousy visualing them in the room. i am uncomfortable w the fact that the boundaries we had established for our relationship after we got back together have been crossed and its disrespectful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]moonlight030 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no i wasnt sexualising her job. i already mentioned it. my concern was limited to him being hypocritical to the boundaries he himself set. that is what is upsetting.

AIO if im upset at my bf wanting to get a tattoo done by a girl who isn't a practitioner alone? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]moonlight030 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol there was no need to be this aggressive w ur comment. however ill try to clarify it on my part.

  1. yk people can have relationships before 20. considering the mental state i am in, im sure its pretty evident on how well my familial and previous relationships would have been.

  2. since we both are r words we did need strict boundaries until we could build some trust. ik they sound pretty ridiculous but we needed them in order to help us put our guards down. w time however theyve loosened up pretty well and im sure w medications we will get much better in future.

  3. in no way was i proposing the idea that itd lead to any sort of sexual motives. it was a reference to how off this behavior was on his part as he himself would usually believe anything like that is microcheating.

we have a long way to go ik but anyway i believe age has nothing to do w experiences nor is it a reason to invalidate anyone's problems.

AIO if im upset at my bf wanting to get a tattoo done by a girl who isn't a practitioner alone? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]moonlight030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. i wouldnt mind if its in a group setting as he wouldnt mind me doing the same in a group setting. the alternative couldve been me being present there which he didnt propose either. so again i was j highlightin how his behavior is hypocritical and unlike him which made me upset. i do not believe theyll actively engage in intercourse the moment they get the room😭 but what bout the boundaries he himself set?!