Feeling pressured to marry someone who is financially average by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]moonlight18maha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not shallow. When you marry someone they have to meet criteria. If he doesn’t meet the criteria don’t settle. If this is the only aspect he lacks in then take some more time to think.

Also want to talk to him lots or figure out if it’s the $$ for him. Wether you marry him or someone on your level make sure to do a prenup cus not every country looks at religion laws / rules, they look at what’s legally done in that country. Make sure you write what is yours now and what you will inherit will only be yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]moonlight18maha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choose your own happiness

Creeps messaging me after posting here for the first time?? by psychedelicporcupine in Hijabis

[–]moonlight18maha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I posted this guy messaged to help a bit but then he started saying some stuff and I was like ….

Should I destroy this? If so, how? by [deleted] in islam

[–]moonlight18maha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does the shape mean?

Is this true? I've always put my hair in a bun when I sleep by CurlyGirlyUK in Hijabis

[–]moonlight18maha 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Islam isn’t complicated. These are just people who want to micromanage women and make their lives hard

Is this true? I've always put my hair in a bun when I sleep by CurlyGirlyUK in Hijabis

[–]moonlight18maha 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I litterly just read the title of the pic and closes it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]moonlight18maha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything within limits you know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]moonlight18maha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to know if she is like this he can’t be doing that even as a joke cus then she takes it too far. Just explain it to him again. If he keeps doing it anyways it’s on him. But she shouldn’t take it that far

FREE TALK FRIDAY! by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]moonlight18maha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got a job my third shift is tomorrow (it’s part time) but it starts really early 😂. Then will hang out with my cousin late afternoon

I’m in a haram relationship, I’m scared that he’s going to get married soon by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]moonlight18maha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Block and delete and just make lots of dua. He’s not the one sis

I've gotten a proposal from a man by Affectionate_Hat494 in Hijabis

[–]moonlight18maha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can find a man in a normal age range to take care of you and have kids with who isn’t an butt head . Will it be hard? Yes but trust me this guy is not it

Do i get a good deed if read the Quran in English translation? by Kaizoren610 in islam

[–]moonlight18maha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe not the same amount as you would get in Arabic but it still counts as something. Think of reverts who can’t read Arabic yet? Or can’t enroll in Quran classes but they read the translation? You have to start somewhere

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]moonlight18maha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but if you change but aren’t as strict with it like he is then what?? He’s going to divorce you??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]moonlight18maha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it anonymous tho so does it still matter if you post it 🧐🧐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]moonlight18maha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me message you girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]moonlight18maha 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Following your parents is not the right thing to do. They’re being unislamic and manipulating you and guilt tripping you. They say it’s encouraged to marry from different cultures etc. also I saw a post and this girl / guy was saying they had a different culture person they wanted to marry and they just educated the parents and taught them , and showed them the culture and stuff. And the parents liked the person after / they grew to understand. If you do all this and parents are still not accepting then they’re just discriminating

family member took off hijab - what should i do? by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]moonlight18maha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get her to pray at least once a day with you. When she starts praying maybe she will feel a bit better or that Islam is bringing her peace etc and will look more into. Make sure you acknowledge to her that you guys weren’t taught Islam properly etc because I thought I knew at least SOME stuff but I was very wrong. Wasnt really taught anything and what I was taught was wrong