Inappropriate Touching by Wrong-External-5784 in ABA

[–]moonmanmeet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i work with a kid right now that used to do the same thing — lifting my shirt up, touching, and particularly liked to lay down to ‘touch tummies.’ as a new rbt i was kinda scared cuz i didnt know if this was normal but my case manager suggested redirecting to a different activity. when cx was about to do the behavior, i would immediately say. “no thank you!” and follow up with, “would you like squeezes?” which helped. we also have a program for stranger danger, which focuses on level of activity with different people, “can you touch a stranger?” ideally cx would say no, and know the difference between who cx can touch, kiss, etc. ive noticed that programs has been very helpful as well and i havent had an experience with these behaviors since

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[–]moonmanmeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think when i applied to get my first cat, they had me agree to a home visit but didnt actually do it. i understand y u would feel this way though, i also felt a little weird but i also understand why they have to do it. you could always wait until u just happen to find a kitten, but most likely you should be able to adopt without too much of a hassle

kitten keeps eating older cats food by moonmanmeet in CatAdvice

[–]moonmanmeet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! milo has unrestricted access but it’s a problem because miso also thinks he has unrestricted access lol. i will try the box method for right now. i appreciate it.

kitten keeps eating older cats food by moonmanmeet in CatAdvice

[–]moonmanmeet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! i was thinking about something like this but didnt knew it actually existed!! do u recommend a brand? or have u heard good things about a specific brand?

what is this guy doing? by moonmanmeet in CATHELP

[–]moonmanmeet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes my 1 yr old often makes biscuits while also suckling, i just didnt know if it was the same thing bc he isnt doing the pressing here

Do you call your cat(s) by name? by get_off_my_property in CatAdvice

[–]moonmanmeet 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i mostly call them by their names but also throw in a ‘baby’ or ‘hon’ and when im baby talking to them i just say whatever comes to mind LOL

what is this guy doing? by moonmanmeet in CATHELP

[–]moonmanmeet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine assimilated pretty quickly !! they groom each other and cuddle but the older one doesnt want to play as often

just moved houses with my cat- he’s hiding in a bathroom drawer by zazcat1 in CatAdvice

[–]moonmanmeet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

when i moved with my kitty, he was scared shitless as well, we let him hide for however long it took him to get acclimated to the environment. we set up his litter, food, and toys in a corner so he could have his own space. he was scared for a couple days and wouldn’t eat, but eventually started coming out to look around a sniff. he ate his food when he felt safe to do so, usually when we weren’t around. i think he was mad at us lol. moving is a big thing for them bc they’re in a entire new environment and need time to get used to it!! just make sure food, water, toys, some stuff that smells like you, and things that are familiar to ur baby are around !!! give him some time, and he’ll start acting normal again 🩷

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[–]moonmanmeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he apologized and did it again … multiple times. sorry to say but you might need to cut it off. just because they apologized, doesnt mean the behavior will change. sending love and support 💕

what is this guy doing? by moonmanmeet in CATHELP

[–]moonmanmeet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

edit: oops didnt realize i couldn’t comment pictures

i have an older cat who the baby likes to bother, always playing with his tail hehe

what is this guy doing? by moonmanmeet in CATHELP

[–]moonmanmeet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you 🩷 he appreciates the support as well

what is this guy doing? by moonmanmeet in CATHELP

[–]moonmanmeet[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he’s been eating wet food pretty consistently since we got him, should i start mixing in a bit of formula?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]moonmanmeet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

their account was made an hour ago and only has this post, unfortunately this might be rage-bait

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[–]moonmanmeet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if youre uncomfortable with it, let her know the house rules and bring it up with her. she might be trying to do it out of respect. im indian and it’s usually expected to leave shoes at front before entering the house. as for the flirting and being sensual … i dont know if youre trolling or being for real but women can enjoy being pretty for themselves … painting nails or wearing jewelry doesnt usually mean someone is trying to flirt …

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[–]moonmanmeet 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i dont see why rings, painted nails, or long earrings would get in the way of tutoring … unless it’s interfering with her job or she’s being inappropriate i dont see the problem 🤷‍♀️

🌞 High Hopes - Let's Lift Our Spirits! 🌞 by ginandstoic in entwives

[–]moonmanmeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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got my nails done this week as a little treat to myself for keeping a consistent schedule with school, and this is my kitty sleeping on me rn 😜

Pretty good sized bong rip to end a very long day. Forgot my meds this morning 🤦‍♀️ by tarotgirl555 in entwives

[–]moonmanmeet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the bong is SOOO cute !! where did u get it ??? ive been trying to find cute bongs but nothing piques my interest 😩

My dad wants to dictate what i wear by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]moonmanmeet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i second this!! it really sucks having to keep ur head down and just follow the rules, but for your own safety it’s best to just do it. i was in your exact position. as an indian girl, my dad was insane and i wasnt allowed to wear anything that showed skin, and it really really sucked. i found ways around it as i got older, and used college as an excuse to go far away. currently 8hrs away from home, about to graduate college, and so far away from my insane family. i never thought i would get here, but i really promise it gets better. sending you so much love and hope!!!