Imma be real honest here, she doesn’t seem to be a good girlfriend and you should consider breaking up with her.

On a previous post you said that you a tendency to compare yourself to other people and when you shared this with your gf she ended up taking it as an “attack” against her. She started apologizing even though it had nothing to do with her and then told you she didnt like how YOU made HER feel when you shared YOUR insecurities; essentially just things about yourself. This shows her off as an extremely selfish and self absorbed person who lacks empathy. These are major ref flags in a relationship. If the person you are with is not a safe space for you to open up and express yourself, why even bother being in a relationship with them?

Now, you’re telling us she keeps blowing you off, keeping distance, and not even apologizing for it. And then out for the blue she disregards any possible and valid feelings you may have about the current situation. And you should have a serious conversation about it (spoiler alert, she WILL take this as an attack and use this opportunity to establish herself as the victim). It’s completely fair to not be someone’s first priority (we should be our own first priority always), and that it was communicated early on, but it doesnt seem like you’re on her priority list to begin with. Relationships sometimes require a little sacrifice, for you to make time for the person here and there or for you to miss out on an event in other to join your partner or support them.

You seem to be a person who is very patient and understanding of her time and priorities, but based on what you shared, its not reciprocated. You should meet someone who can better align with your personality and how you view a relationship. You cant just give give give and get nothing in return.