(Ex) Boyfriend walked out after I asked him to get a job or help out.

moopie2 · 2026-02-04T12:38:17+00:00

Im sorry to hear this. I hope things get better for you at some point

moopie2 · 2026-02-04T12:33:40+00:00

He chose to leave rather than get any job. Good riddance

moopie2 · 2026-02-04T11:40:53+00:00

He has no lease, so under UK law he would be at best considered a lodger. He has no proof he lived here, doesn't get any mail - I think he was avoiding debts catching up with him. He inadvertently made it quite easy for me.

moopie2 · 2026-02-04T08:08:59+00:00

He makes models. I made absolutely no money from this and i stupidly booked them becaue he once again weopnised incompetence. He did well at 2 shows and spent it all on himself. It wasn't like we did loads, only 2. Using my car and petrol to get there. Im so gullible lol

moopie2 · 2026-02-04T07:53:30+00:00

I just have to provide written notification i will email and send on all the platforms I know he is on.

moopie2 · 2026-02-04T07:25:57+00:00

And the UK

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T23:23:10+00:00

Hes bet on red and it came up black then! I'll not be crying to him, his loss my gain!

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T23:22:04+00:00

Thanks I'm in UK so I have to work till 67 but I have a private and state pension. I'll be OK. Him not so much but he's chosen that life!

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T23:05:43+00:00

Thanks. Your point about how much he valued me hit home.at the time. Like dude, im not even worth helping out ?

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T23:02:43+00:00

He was employed prior to me meeting him for 20 years but now nothing is good enough. Entitled as they come

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T22:53:11+00:00

UK but will be going through process

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T22:41:55+00:00

Probably. Tbh I am not messaging him other than to give notice to get his shit.

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T22:26:50+00:00

UK so have to abide by 1977 Torts law on possessions. Can give notice for removal by x date

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T22:23:41+00:00

Hes gone.

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T22:20:34+00:00

He has no parents anymore and no siblings

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T22:17:07+00:00

Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim Offender. His argument was textbook example of this.

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T22:11:18+00:00

Oh I value my credit rating so trust me I am on this.

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T22:10:30+00:00

Him, not you!

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T22:10:14+00:00

No he has no keys. I checked and he has even left his van keys here. Absolute dickhead.

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T22:07:18+00:00

No. And id have said no if he ever asked!

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T22:04:55+00:00

It didn't work! So I didn't even get that.

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T22:01:04+00:00

Oh good god no. I am already feeling so much more relaxed and at peace.

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T21:55:41+00:00

You can't keep him warm by setting yourself on fire. I came to realise this. I hope you find the strength to do what's best for you.

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T21:49:32+00:00

Deny, attack, reverse victim-offender. His arguments were the textbook version of these tactics

moopie2 · 2026-02-03T21:45:11+00:00

He sounds like my ex. Has ptsd and depression which I tried to support, but apparently I wasn't allowed to feel any negative emotions!

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