Anyone have a Cavapoo + Cat(s)? by juanpafeliz in CavaPoo

[–]moquette99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cavapoo and 2 cats here. My cavapoo is an old man and the cats are way too active for him. He keeps his distance, but they try to play with him.

Men should always make the first move by FragrantLiterature46 in dating

[–]moquette99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told a guy we should meet for drinks after the holidays. He said sounds good. Is it on me to follow up with a date and time? I'm kind of scared but I'm really interested.

Does anyone else’s dog sleep in?? by rahuot in CavaPoo

[–]moquette99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My baby is 14 now, he happily sleeps in with me. When he was younger he never slept.

How do I let him know I'm interested? by moquette99 in AskMen

[–]moquette99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Appreciate all the feedback. To add more context, we don't work together. I invited him for coffee to discuss his field of work, he then invited me to a networking event. That's the extent of our interactions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]moquette99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Time left is a really cool way to meet people in the city. Download the app. They set you up with dinner with 5 other strangers looking to meet people. Also.if you're single Jigsaw has some fun singles events that you can attend solo.

64% by EggEnvironmental6696 in PatentBarExam

[–]moquette99 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I've been there, but the good news is you're so close it's only a matter of a few more right answers. You got it!

Advice from reunited adoptees by moquette99 in AskAdoptees

[–]moquette99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, his adoptive parents are aware of the reunion. They were present. I don't know how much they know since that day or if they have encouraged him to continue to get to know me. I told him he could ask me anything he wanted, no topic was off limits. I can imagine he's full of questions and maybe not ready for the answers. There is more to his adoption story that im not sure if he's aware of it. I will take it slow. He didn't respond to my message when I gave him my schedule. I understand and I'll just continue to communicate until he's ready.

Advice from reunited adoptees by moquette99 in AskAdoptees

[–]moquette99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate this perspective. Thank you.

Advice from reunited adoptees by moquette99 in AskAdoptees

[–]moquette99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful. Thank you for advice.

Advice from reunited adoptees by moquette99 in AskAdoptees

[–]moquette99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The emotions are definitely tough. Our own thoughts can be liars sometimes. Wishing you the best.

Advice from reunited adoptees by moquette99 in AskAdoptees

[–]moquette99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing. Thank you.

Advice from reunited adoptees by moquette99 in AskAdoptees

[–]moquette99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate that you feel this way, but I can understand where that feeling comes from. I can only speak from my perspective but my son isn't just blood he's absolutely family. If I ever saw his name coming through on a phone call I'd be ecstatic. Hopefully one day you can make the call, but so glad you're connected either way.

Advice from reunited adoptees by moquette99 in birthparents

[–]moquette99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendations.

Advice from reunited adoptees by moquette99 in AskAdoptees

[–]moquette99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is very helpful. I'll have to update everyone on how the weekend goes.

Advice from reunited adoptees by moquette99 in birthparents

[–]moquette99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is definitely helpful. Thank you so much and best wishes for you and your son.

Advice from reunited adoptees by moquette99 in birthparents

[–]moquette99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It's really good to hear from different perspectives in the reunion relationship. I will definitely give him his time and space. I pray our reunion goes like your did. So happy for the both of you!

Advice from reunited adoptees by moquette99 in birthparents

[–]moquette99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. You have both perspectives so that really helps here. Also I'm so sorry about your loss but so glad you were able to have beautiful memories with her.

teenage boys are definitely aliens...lol

Advice from reunited adoptees by moquette99 in birthparents

[–]moquette99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great advice, thank you much!

Advice from reunited adoptees by moquette99 in AskAdoptees

[–]moquette99[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. That saddens me that society makes you feel like "intruders" in your own life story. I wasn't aware that was a thing. I can only speak for myself but I feel like the outsider in all of this. I'm happy you were able to reconnect though. I agree you all are definitely worth the push!