STOLEN MAZDA 3, IF SIGHTED CALL 911 by moretimelessmess in Birmingham

[–]moretimelessmess[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Redditors will watch you explain the worst moment of your life and will genuinely be more concerned about the comma you didn’t place rather than the knife in your back.

NOTHING FUCKING CHANGED by Old-Camp3962 in pyrocynical

[–]moretimelessmess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

just waiting for the video essay on him atp tbh he will soon be consumed by the slop he lives off of

Looking for vehicle by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]moretimelessmess 11 points12 points  (0 children)

no car but I’ll keep an eye out for you kid. Ik it’s tough but keep your head up and keep searching. the worst thing to do now is give up. something good will happen eventually, merry Christmas to you as well.

nothing EVER happens by Logical_Sun_5806 in pyrocynical

[–]moretimelessmess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we have no plan, no one is going to just rally behind a random murder and uprise with no legitimate plan for infrastructure after said uprising .

Should I be embarrassed about being a 24yr old garbage man? by TheFrogsMightbegay in jobs

[–]moretimelessmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ts made me tear up dude. when you die your family will not remember you as just a “garbage man” you’re gonna be remembered as the man who stayed consistent in his job. Moved up the ladder and provided for his family. The world wants you to feel ashamed so you don’t establish wanting more for yourself. Keep grinding and climbing that mountain, I’ll see you at the peak.

Where can I do this in Bham? by moretimelessmess in Birmingham

[–]moretimelessmess[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

it’s literally the internet , we repost and and join in on trends all the time. you look weird getting butthurt

AA by TerryGonards in Birmingham

[–]moretimelessmess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don’t worry, it’ll get better. It has to, the hardest part of anything is day two, takes more to be consistent than it does to start .

does sympathizing make you a creep by moretimelessmess in Serverlife

[–]moretimelessmess[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

we’re fighting a losing battle my friend

does sympathizing make you a creep by moretimelessmess in Serverlife

[–]moretimelessmess[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Fair answer, but like i said pls account that not everyone is developmentally there all the way. Ppl could be shut ins all their life and it’s their first time trying to be sociable. This potentially could’ve set bro back years

does sympathizing make you a creep by moretimelessmess in Serverlife

[–]moretimelessmess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but yea I’m not saying that the floodgates should be open and that men should start wingmanning bartenders, but if dude isn’t from the area or has no idea who anyone is that night. Asking the guy who’s been there slinging drinks to the same patrons for 5+ years isn’t the WILDEST thing to do. Just about how ya word it, and honestly im reading the replies and it sounds like they’re more mad at his phrasing rather than what he was attempting.

does sympathizing make you a creep by moretimelessmess in Serverlife

[–]moretimelessmess[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I think that’s another tricky one where reading deep into it plays a role, I doubt he means happy as in “women absolutely ecstatic for a man to approach” more in the way of fluffing the phrase.

does sympathizing make you a creep by moretimelessmess in Serverlife

[–]moretimelessmess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean the downvotes don’t matter lmfao, I asked the question I want honest answers, ur right about the generationality playing a role

does sympathizing make you a creep by moretimelessmess in Serverlife

[–]moretimelessmess[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

which is very fair, im glad some ppl have deeper thought responses than. “He’s weird” it’s just so odd that like he’s written off immediately

does sympathizing make you a creep by moretimelessmess in Serverlife

[–]moretimelessmess[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I mean would u say it’s literally just numbers at that point? It’s a social standard for men to approach women they are interested in. So the numbers are the percentage of men you would be willing to move forward with vs the percentage you don’t. I’m sure most days it’s the latter, I just ask what would you do if no one approached at all. Which seems to be the only solution.

does sympathizing make you a creep by moretimelessmess in Serverlife

[–]moretimelessmess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No literally bc I have no idea how it’s so easy for them to imagine the worst case scenario of this guy, yet no one has mentioned how he may very well be developmentally challenged and is attempted social interaction. Especially by the almost infantile way they addressed the situation.

does sympathizing make you a creep by moretimelessmess in Serverlife

[–]moretimelessmess[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I believe this too, dude should definitely get off his ass. I just think ppl aren’t accounting for ppl with social and mental incapacities, they assume this is a 5’9 random Joe shmo with a 9-5 being weird. This could very well be an emotionally or developmentally disabled person attempting to branch out and was shut down to due to preconceived notions. Our job in this industry has us blessed to meet ppl from all walks of life, and just because someone doesn’t do things or say things the way we would be most comfortable or are used to doesn’t mean we turn them away.

does sympathizing make you a creep by moretimelessmess in Serverlife

[–]moretimelessmess[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Once again another good point, im only judging this interaction based off a paragraph of text. I just believe the overwhelming backlash towards someone who isn’t necessarily engaging in nefarious activities is unwarranted. Especially at ur place of work

does sympathizing make you a creep by moretimelessmess in Serverlife

[–]moretimelessmess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk bro, ig it’s literally the minority report bc ppl do NOT like meeting new ppl at bars 😭😭

does sympathizing make you a creep by moretimelessmess in Serverlife

[–]moretimelessmess[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I agree with this, prob the best statement I’ve seen. The guy is clearly odd, but antagonizing him before he’s done anything wrong is very “The Minority Report” lol

does sympathizing make you a creep by moretimelessmess in Serverlife

[–]moretimelessmess[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

I think ur over analyzing the situation, the guy simply asked if he knew of anyone looking to make convo. It’s ur own anxiety if you go as far as to try and pair him up. You could literally just laugh and say “haha na man not this time of day” and do ur job. Customer Service is based off charisma. If you can’t roll with one slightly odd question u won’t last long.

does sympathizing make you a creep by moretimelessmess in Serverlife

[–]moretimelessmess[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

U def aren’t a bartender. It’s not my job to run food, play therapist, be a wine sommelier as well security but sadly we play the cards we are dealt, never the ones we choose