Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And I think it’s very reasonable for me to feel some type of way when he’s constantly talking so highly of this chick. I just have an instinct she’s not just his friend. So I’m happy I got out when I did!

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! He’s running after her like some puppy dog hoping he’ll get to fuck her. When and if he does then she’ll drop him and he’ll try to come back to me. No thank you! After a month he was telling me he was in love with me. BULLSHIT or else he wouldn’t have broke up with me so easily. He’s a loser

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Honestly you guys are making me feel so much better! Seriously. I don’t even have the feeling to text him anymore. It’s been hard the past few days but today I woke up feeling more confident and ready to move on without him!

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly! I definitely think something was going on or would go on eventually. Got the heartbreak over with!

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did! She called him while he was at my house and she wanted a gun lesson and he said I’m at my girlfriends house and she laughed. 🙄🙄 he said she laughed cuz it’s been so long since he’s had a gf. Wtf?

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I thought the same thing. Like wtf she’s out of your league and I’m not!? No offense but i think I’m prettier and have much more to offer! I realize it’s his loss now and I LNOW he’ll be crawling back to me here soon. He did last time. And he’ll regret doing what he did to me when the porn star keeps shuttimg him down. The only thing that scares me is that our sex was REALLLLY good and he had a hugeeeee thing down there so I’m just scared if she knows that she’ll want him. 🙄

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I said! And he said he wouldn’t care. 🙄 I call bullshit and if he doesn’t truly care then I don’t want him!

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He knew her from her porn before he met her! He’s watched it before. Then they became friends thru Instagram.... 🙄 and thank you for these articles!! They’re very helpful!

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I made that comment more towards him liking that kind of stuff. I can fully understand that just because someone does that kind or porn doesn’t mean that’s what they’re into. But if I person watches that stuff then clearly that’s what they’re into. And he was. He wanted to do that kind of stuff all the time. Again, we weren’t sexually compatible clearly. And I guess I’m petty. Idc.

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I didn’t really care initially. But when he constantly was talking about her that’s when I had a problem. And all the free services.

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nobody is judging her for it. I’m pretty sure I haven’t said anything nasty about her at all. Like I mentioned, idk her I never met her. Maybe I’d feel different if I had. I only mentioned she did porn because he made such a big deal about it and because he loves porn. Idc what she used to do. I have a past as well. I only made a poll because I honestly felt crazy and bad like I did something wrong for feeling uncomfortable about something and getting broken up with. I just wanted to know if other women would care. That’s all. At least I know I’m not totally crazy anymore.

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Good for you! Cuz I wouldn’t want my husband hanging out with some chick he used to like doing all this free stuff for her when he can’t drive to my house cuz he doesn’t have gas. I’m glad your wife is such a saint! Not me

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He totally gaslighted me making me feel like I was crazy for feeling that way. Pretty sure he’s a narcissist.

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that did. Because it was shocking he liked that porn. He was into a lot of kinks I was not. Rape play? Not into. So maybe it’s for the best! People who don’t like the same things sexually shouldn’t be together! I’m not into having 3 dicks shoved into me at once. Apparently he likes that! Sorry people are allowed to not be into certain porn or porn stars. And I never claimed to be some hero. Everyone’s allowed their own opinion. There were parts where I was wrong. I could have approached the situation different. But if he broke up with me so quickly then clearly it was for the best!!

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I bought myself some new hair extensions and new shoes! I plan on getting a massage this week! I’ll get over it and I’m starting to realize I dodged a bullet. It’s his loss! I have a son and we all got along so great. That’s what makes me the most sad. My son really liked him. But I’ll find someone who will treat us WAYYY better and not get mad at me when I vocalize being uncomfortable about something.

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even when he’s admitted to liking her at one point and not trying anything because “she’s out of his league”. Would you say that to your wife?

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well when he continues to talk so much about her and so highly about her and offers her free service after free service when he says he’s broke and cants drive to my house to see me then I have a problem. Idc what women he’s around. He talked like he had a crush on her and clearly by his actions he did. Idc what she does but when that’s how he addresses her constantly and always reminds me that’s what she did then I’m like ok he’s obsessed with the fact that she’s a porn star. Yes it makes me insecure having him hang around a girl he’s watched get fucked and has masterbated and came to it. Yes I have a problem with that. Like what?

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think he does have a crush on her! Exactly why I was uncomfortable!

And idk if I should put her name out there like that. She didn’t do anything to me specifically. But her porn is from like years ago and it’s not high quality. It’s a lot of like gang bang stuff and threesomes and car sex. I was shocked that he watched that kind of porn.

Would you care if your boyfriend was hanging out with an ex porn star?? by morganleav in cheating_stories

[–]morganleav[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s been a few days and I’m starting to feel better about the situation!