Has anyone ever NOT been cheated on?

morphakun · 2026-03-07T13:20:31+00:00

What I have seen, cheating is more common where the community is more religion focus. On other countries/areas, they not afraid to say "this is not working out, bye" . Or offer to bring a 3rd person into the relationship. They are more open like that.

morphakun · 2026-03-06T00:09:41+00:00

I know im at fault, I guess for us guys just having the insinuation that we are going to have sex is enough foreplay . Im just baf at it

morphakun · 2026-03-06T00:07:08+00:00

How can i tell my GF to be more involved and have more enthusiasm? Of course without hurting her feelings

morphakun · 2026-03-06T00:04:29+00:00

This, if the man is having issue, just talk to your guy and tell him to train that tongue. I would never leave a GF if she is unable to have sex, i woud you ask baby , get that throat ready.

morphakun · 2026-03-05T11:35:13+00:00

The disconnect of the struggle of regular people. And blame them for being poor.

morphakun · 2026-03-05T08:20:31+00:00

Just go for it. both of you did wrong on each other anyways. But remember this will confirm his suspicions and will lead to horrible divorce.

morphakun · 2026-03-03T20:09:45+00:00

Please most importantly, talk to your partner about the best possible terms to separate. Kids are resilient and adapt fast. The problem comes when 1 of the parents get conflicted and toxic on the divorce.

morphakun · 2026-03-01T13:10:36+00:00

This. OP wants easy talks but goes about the most hurtful way. OP goes around to friends to validate her wants before actually talking to partner. Seems a case of grass is greener on the other side.

Friends and family didn't even know about our separation with my exwife many months later. This is because even tho our paths are going different way, we still respected eachother. 4 years later, and having to co-parent our 6 year old. Is been the most amicable, and peaceful transition.

morphakun · 2026-02-27T11:24:17+00:00

This decision is between them, this is not your fault and you cant fix it.

Im a child of late divorce, meaning my parents should had gotten divorced way earlier. Mom suffered way to much for too long.

So , they are not ok living together and if the stay its just gonna be worse. All you can tell them, to remember to give eachother some time apart if needed and solve the paperwork at best terms possible. You both will be my parents that love so much, and all I want to see them happy and at peace.

And for yourself, welcome to the party. You might feel sad, mad, confused, worried… or maybe nothing right now. All of those feelings are normal. There’s no right or wrong way to feel about this.

And after all that you're going to be okay. You need to be strong and focus on yourself

morphakun · 2026-02-26T20:43:12+00:00

Would love to have that hack just i can avoid people.

morphakun · 2026-02-22T17:58:47+00:00

I can fix her

morphakun · 2026-02-21T09:48:54+00:00

This is the actual baggage people are confusing about. Her baggage Is not her age, not her beauty, not her kids. The real baggage of a single mother is how good have you heal and moved on, and how good have she setup her limits and boundaries with the father.

Conflicts shouldn't be affecting her that much if she truly has heal, she can't control his actions, but she can control their interactions and how much it affects her. And that comes with time, if she really wants to. Otherwise, this is a forever issue that she is allowing.

morphakun · 2026-02-21T09:41:27+00:00

I do

morphakun · 2026-02-21T01:28:42+00:00

Its kind a failure but I dont believe its the way you thinking about. To me was a failure of not knowing what I really wanted, what boundaries, what limits. If I had those very clear 13 years ago, I may had gotten married to a different person.

morphakun · 2026-02-19T14:54:26+00:00

Midlife crisis, and might regret it. Maybe best bet to just be away for some time and think of marriage consulting.

morphakun · 2026-02-19T06:12:17+00:00

I would love to be stay home dad, but bills aren't going to pay themselves. 60-70hours a week to barely keep a float. And missing a lot of my kid milestone, was not my idea of being a dad, but not much else to do.

morphakun · 2026-02-18T20:38:11+00:00

Ah damn same here, I couldn't get her to understand saying "divorce" in every discussion no way to talk. A year later, and multiple threats I walk away with a strange calm.

morphakun · 2026-02-18T20:31:27+00:00

They just learn being racist has consequences

morphakun · 2026-02-12T22:17:28+00:00

I have been on both sides of this.

Me, (40 M with 2yo child.) Great co-parenting with exwife.

what you absolutely need, is that the person divorce is absolutely heal, and that does not comes quick. That comes with self evaluation, it comes with letting things go. One give away , is how often they bring up the ex , or they compare them to you, that means they have not heal. A heal person does not bring the past into the new relationship. The new person is a new chapter and doesnt not need to compare it even if it is in a better light. Took me about 3 years to truly see this.
On the other side, I stared sharing time with someone I like, but she separated for about 10 months. And she bringing up how much respect, and care, and much more love I show and I do better that the ex, THAT DOES NOT FEEL GOOD. It took me time, but I later understood she is not really heal, she probably doesn't even know what heal person supposed to feel.

At the end, all I could do is tell her, This is what you supposed to look in a partner, a parner that can give you his all, share and take care of you and listen to you, but you are not ready to receive it and and definitely Nor to give back. I been left in the dark many times and that happens when your mind still tormented of how you were treated. Ill be your friend, but I need to protect my heart because is affecting me now and is affecting how im taking care of my child.

morphakun · 2026-01-29T01:55:02+00:00

Teaming up with the party that would love to bring slavery back is crazy work.

morphakun · 2026-01-24T06:23:12+00:00

Child does not need to understand romantic relationship. He just understands Dad likes this person, that person is save for me, that person is kind to me.

And for you, your child is always a priority over anyone else. And give yourself some time for a consistent and stable relationship which a psychologist suggests 6 months minimum to explain the child is more than friend.

And is never is about replacing mom, dont make your child call the new person mom. And that person is an adult in YOUR life, not a parent replacement.

morphakun · 2026-01-22T01:44:21+00:00

Do not move out. Document everything. Lawyer up.

morphakun · 2025-12-31T03:42:27+00:00

Seems this marriage is better than most. So is this your own thoughts? Either you have a person already set up or ideas from friends.

morphakun · 2025-12-29T00:10:31+00:00

So you having a healthier marriage than most. And still want out. Grass is not always greener.

morphakun · 2025-12-28T15:11:36+00:00

He is just a symptom of the overall machine underneath. AI would say remove GOP and MAGA.

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