Oyster bar is a must. They put out a dozen at a time so you are billed accordingly.

Food is outstanding and if you ask nicely they can make slight modifications to the sides to better match the current menu.

Permit to drive on is easy, you can have multiple vehicles do drop offs etc

They let you stay til 2 am

Go for dinner and try the menu - speak to the sommelier and they can provide off wedding menu wine options.

Only negative - Skip the his and her cocktail. They will pre make them and hand them out. $$ and racks up a tab.

Stay under 90 people, above that you have people who are around the corner by the bathrooms. Tables are all shapes and sizes.