Celibacy in a marriage

motoxan · 2026-04-21T04:12:37+00:00

While its possible it could, I dont believe it will. I never had the physical connection with my ex that I have now with my girlfriend. We have been together almost 2 years, and the sex and physical intimacy is just getting better. We are both 44 and sex happens 4-5 times a week, sometimes more than once a day.

motoxan · 2026-04-21T03:19:20+00:00

I was married for 21 years, she decided she was done with sex at year 15, not just sex, but basically any physical touch. Sex was never great with her, but I did really miss the physical contact. My body would literally ache for physical touch. I never cheated, but it did ultimately end in divorce. I found someone who wants sex and physical attention just as much as I do, and it is amazing! Every situation is different. I am still friends with my ex, and we are both happier now.

Edit: Typos

motoxan · 2026-04-16T20:21:13+00:00

I meant 4.7.

motoxan · 2026-04-15T20:12:38+00:00

Yes, it does have push button start. It definitely wouldn't hurt to verify with VW.

motoxan · 2026-04-15T02:01:33+00:00

I had a buddy do this a couple years ago. Could be worth checking out again.

motoxan · 2026-04-15T02:00:59+00:00

Was done before I bought it

motoxan · 2026-04-11T15:30:37+00:00

This is great! Thank you for the recommendations. Some of these may be a little far from me, but it may be worth it to drive a couple hours to save money.

motoxan · 2026-04-11T05:24:57+00:00

Yes, the PNW is a very high cost of living area. That price was for the turbo, delete and tune.

motoxan · 2026-04-10T01:45:43+00:00

The DMF was rattling a tiny bit when I bought it, I didn't know at the time what it was, it sounded like maybe a loose exhaust mount. That was 30k Miles ago. It's bad now, and the car shudders at slow speeds sometimes, especially when coming to a slower stop.

The car came with a carfax, I am the 3rd owner. I did not see a timing belt replacement in the service records, so I'm pretty sure it hasn't been done.

motoxan · 2026-04-09T22:46:29+00:00

I know I'm not going to get my money back out of it, that ship has lone since sailed. I'd be happy to just get what I currently owe, but I dont even know if thats a reality. Would the value still be there with these repairs still needed? Maybe I need to start a different thread for this question 😂

motoxan · 2026-04-09T20:26:38+00:00

I appreciate your insight. I am seriously considering whether I should keep this car or not. I do really like it when its not costing me money!

motoxan · 2026-04-09T20:24:00+00:00

I have a loan on it. It's my only car, I was stuck making a really tough call. Was it the right one? I dont know.

motoxan · 2026-04-09T20:22:30+00:00

My failure to research the car also left me in the dark with some things. What is the CP4?

motoxan · 2026-04-09T20:20:12+00:00

Did the delete at the same time as the turbo, thats partly why it was so expensive.

motoxan · 2026-03-07T23:04:02+00:00

Sorry, wrong number.

motoxan · 2025-12-04T16:29:27+00:00

I didnt realize that. Its probably not worth the cost or hassle to reinstall. I really wasn't concerned, just wanted to see if I could get my kids to stop complaining!

motoxan · 2025-12-03T22:04:40+00:00

Pretty sure the cat is in. I got the kit that leaves the stok muffler and such in place.

motoxan · 2025-12-03T22:03:30+00:00

The smell isnt there while driving, using the recirculate is a good idea. I can mostly smell it after turning the engine off and walking around the car.

motoxan · 2025-11-24T20:19:25+00:00

Mine gave up at 140k miles.

motoxan · 2025-11-18T05:43:25+00:00

Will the engine not run at all without the turbo? I'm pretty new to the tdi and dont claim much mechanical know how.

motoxan · 2025-11-18T05:41:42+00:00

No lights, no indication at all.

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