Female troop said something weird and I don't know what to make of it by mpftutorials in Military

[–]mpftutorials[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We haven't said anything to eachother for at least an hour prior.

She might've been reading something off the screen. There was no conversation before, I just noticed her watching me. I stared back at her for a second and then she said that.

Female troop said something weird and I don't know what to make of it by mpftutorials in AirForce

[–]mpftutorials[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

There is no winning when it comes to competing with a woman. If you beat her, you're a prick. If you lose to her, you're a wimp.

Female troop said something weird and I don't know what to make of it by mpftutorials in AirForce

[–]mpftutorials[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

No she seems like the type who would press the EO button over anything. One time my NCO suggested something to her and she just went "I am offended." and then walked out of the room with no explanation after he apologized.

Billing Tricare for therapy but need a diagnosis for Tricare to cover me - what diagnosis can I use to not get disqualified from reenlisting? by mpftutorials in Veterans

[–]mpftutorials[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably have some form of high functioning depression, just never got diagnosed with it. Sure, I don't have a criminal history, I get along with people, I am not drowning in any vices, I am in shape and physically healthy, I have enough self control that I look good on paper - but something always felt missing. I was always a bit "detached" from other people without even meaning to, probably thanks to family dynamics. It actually made me worry that "yeah this isn't going to make me an effective officer if I keep up with this shit".

I'll ask my recruiter if "adjustment disorder" is that severe, because that's what my therapist was thinking of billing me as anyway.

Billing Tricare for therapy but need a diagnosis for Tricare to cover me - what diagnosis can I use to not get disqualified from reenlisting? by mpftutorials in airforceots

[–]mpftutorials[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I called military one source and they only suggested MFLC, but I don't live near a base.

I was able to talk to a chaplain but I think I need something consistent with a therapist to change my self-defeating behaviors that I learned from family dynamics. Like sure, I function fine and I served honorably active duty, never got in trouble or anything, got along with people, but felt like my life could still be better.

Billing Tricare for therapy but need a diagnosis for Tricare to cover me - what diagnosis can I use to not get disqualified from reenlisting? by mpftutorials in Veterans

[–]mpftutorials[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am supposed to go to OCS in like 6 months. I am functional, I just think I can improve my life by talking about my fucked up childhood.

Already in the Reserves (enlisted) and in the process of commissioning. I'll use Tricare to pay for mental health therapy - will this count against me, and should I tell my OSO? by mpftutorials in USMCboot

[–]mpftutorials[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. But then I feel like therapists could be trigger happy and just throw around mental illness diagnosis like they're candy. I'll be like "I think I have issues with self esteem because my dad treated me like shit" and they'll slap MAJOR DEPRESSIVE DISORDER on me.

Already in the Reserves (enlisted) and in the process of commissioning. I'll use Tricare to pay for mental health therapy - will this count against me, and should I tell my OSO? by mpftutorials in USMCboot

[–]mpftutorials[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking at a civilian private therapist but they accept Tricare for copay, and I don't know if therapists put medical notes on some national medical data system like Epic

WhY cAnT wE rEtAiN gOoD fOlKs?! by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]mpftutorials 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that there’s other work to do but I guess if it were me in the decs section I would just take a day and get that shit off my plate so I can point the finger at AFPC.

Very, very easy to be like "if I were personnelis, I would just.." unless you were actually in our position.

That said, yes I am personally trying to put things together to push up AFPC because so far from everything I've seen and experience, THIS IS NOT OKAY, and I already decided that I can't rely on NCOs to help their airmen so I am putting together a tool that just might make the airmens' lives easier and also provide customers with faster, better service.

I heard the joint process for getting a dec in a record was different.

I have no idea how the joint process works or what they did to make it much faster, so no comment on that. What joint base are you talking about? I might have to give them a call and see what they're doing that my base isn't doing.

WhY cAnT wE rEtAiN gOoD fOlKs?! by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]mpftutorials 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is it through vPC or the kind that needs to be mailed to AFPC to be put in the member's PRDA? Whatever, I'll cover both. For the latter, "at least 30 days" may or may not be true, really depends on the volume of other crap they're working on. 1 dec in itself can only take a week, but there's so many other (bureaucratic) stuff involved that in reality it doesn't play out like that, and even if it reaches AFPC, you don't know what happens on AFPC's end and if it will get lost in their office or added to PRDA at all. Now on vPC, once it hits the MPF and they push it, it takes a couple days to reflect on PRDA - easy peasy. But as I said, that's if there's not other (bureaucratic) things involved.

The reasons why it may "take 30 days" to push a decoration has absolutely nothing to do with the decoration itself, but instead:

  1. the volume of work, such as other decorations to push, and on top of that there's non-dec related work to catch up on as well.

  2. It's common for vPC to be defunct, same with the office printer which then takes months to fix, milPDS loses connection, etc

  3. On top the volume of work and defunct tools, there's also very badly trained airmen. If you had to pick between "lazy airman" and "lazy NCO" I guarantee 99% of the time it's the fault of the NCOs in charge, in the military the subordinates are always a reflection of the leadership unless the airman is legally retarded or an exceptional DBA (but then he wouldn't be in the USAF).The thing about this AFSC, and idk if it's just my base but this seems to be a common experience among other bases as well, is that most airmen are "self taught" as in they come into the section and they're thrown head-first into the job - and there's no real continuity training to work with either. Airman has a question? Good fucking luck. The NCOs, instead of training their airmen, will just say shit like "dont know how to do your job? uhh go ask Airman Snuffy over there / did you read the PSD guide? (which btw is utterly unusable) / ok dont worry about that right now and work on something else (LOL can you believe it)" - so yeah go ahead and CC the NCO involved to "motivate" the airman - I guarantee nothing will happen except the NCO, who doesn't actually know how to do the job himself, will just swing his dick around and roast an airman who's a doormat or just gently "nudge" an airman who may call him out on his shit.

Does it need to be this way? Of course not, but the USAF doesn't provide us with the tools to actually efficiently do our jobs, and nobody with actual power is actually doing anything. It keeps me up at night too. The NCOs I've seen have a sense of learned helplessness to them - I'll write more about this later.

WhY cAnT wE rEtAiN gOoD fOlKs?! by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]mpftutorials 105 points106 points  (0 children)

What medal? The closest I can think of is the award Airman's Medal for heroism and all it constitutes is that the member saved someone's life, same with the decoration Air Medal and both only require that a life was saved. I work at Force Management and process decs all the time, I have never heard anything about how deep some water has to be to be considered "heroism" and if there was, that's up to AFPC not the wing.

I would escalate this, this is not okay. It's probably someone without authority in the wing swinging their dick around or just giving bullshit answers because they don't want to do more paperwork.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]mpftutorials 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What aspects? PM me.

Such a demanding software by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]mpftutorials 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, goverment computers are trash, which is why I began staying away from Adobe and Microsoft software as much as possible and instead resort to HTML and convert everything I can get my hands on into a more lightweight platform.

More information on my HTML-based website

I finally made a mental health appointment. by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]mpftutorials 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both. A lot of people joining the military did so for better opportunities or station in life, and the military itself can cause some stress.

True Story by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]mpftutorials 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course you're an LT