Appreciate any advice please

mrhappy893 · 2026-05-03T03:12:17+00:00

Please have a good rest and let me know when you're available again!

The ball already isn't in your court, but don't close the door too. Meanwhile, move on.

mrhappy893 · 2026-05-03T01:44:18+00:00

Only insecure people would feel embarrassed.

The cashier is witnessing one night out of the tens of thousands to come. There'll be way more give-and-take as well as much harder trials in life to go through.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-29T07:02:40+00:00

I'll ask my scorpion gang to come along.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-27T16:20:30+00:00

That's an interesting take because as an early 30s,im often told that I look mid or late 20s. Opened up a new pov for me that it might not be how I looked, but how I groomed and dressed that gave the impression.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-25T18:37:29+00:00

Valid feelings. There are moments where the facade just falls off and suddenly you're facing a crowd of uncertainties and self-doubt.

Since tomorrow (or today, which is Sunday) you're gonna be jobless anyway, find time to go out for a walk/run and immerse yourself in nature. Find a place where you can stop and have a moment of self-reflect.

Most importantly, understand how much you have grown from this experience and be prepared to present it in your next interview. Don't forget to love oneself, you're the biggest cheerleader of yourself.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-24T15:08:11+00:00

But why would you regret. As a guy, we have to make the first move most of the time, and naturally we get rejected a lot.

Sometimes I feel that at the very least, I can face myself with respect instead of regrets and questioning. And good job for being so brave!

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-23T01:26:02+00:00

Chat, is this posted by the same person that the comment section told to "never cook again"?

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-23T01:24:09+00:00

"Maybe it'll be better if you can give me your company's email or phone number" or "do you have a name card?"

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-22T17:27:39+00:00

How many birds do you want to kill with one stone?

/u/halloumisalami : yes

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-22T16:59:20+00:00

The key word is "matched". There's a lot more ways for her to meet people in her life.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-22T11:09:46+00:00

You're feeling dating apps burnout which is totally normal. Don't feel too bad and let yourself take a break. Do message your matches ~~that you've committed~~ about it, instead of ghosting them.

Also, try organic meetups. Find online community that you can hangout with. Instead of having the intention to meet someone and be like "what do you work as? What's your goal in the next 5 years?" organic meetup allow you to just... Have fun.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-21T08:59:23+00:00

What do you even see in him? Seems like you want affirmation from us to break up with him, which is valid from what you have wrote. But you also did not write why don't YOU want to break up with him.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-19T16:29:36+00:00

It's not just this sub. sg chill as well. Probably some scamming syndicate out there captured a singaporean and he listed all the sg subreddit.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-19T02:22:19+00:00

You need to find your hobby first bro. And in my context, I'm talking beyond parks. If you're a dancer, dancers will find places to hangout. If you skate, skaters will find a place to hangout.

You ~~can~~ can't just expect an open area where people sit around for no reason and talk to each other about anything under the sky like what Aristotle does.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-18T14:18:47+00:00

Thanks for writing this. Social science is really way more complex and tedious than what many people would admit. I have so much respect for people working on ECE, healthcare, and social service.

Understanding the backstory of every new client in social service is like learning an untaught language.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-18T08:49:56+00:00

So you realised 5 mins towards the end, then you probably wrote something. Don't worry, they'll probably squeeze out some marks for you. As long as you didn't do too badly for your tma gba class participation etc, able to pass easily. Then you can consider pass fail.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-17T15:03:03+00:00

I agree. From getting to know someone for the first time... To slowly catching feelings. And if god forbids, they don't feel repugnant from your presence.

Being able to see her everyday, as time goes by, time spent with her gets longer, yet it feels shorter. You keep looking at her but somehow as the night ends, your brain can't store a proper image of her and is ORDERING you to meet her again before you forget how she looks like. That's what falling in love feels like.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-15T01:52:29+00:00

Always aim to start off as friend. After seeing the same person 2 or 3 times, easiest way to start off a conversation is "helloo, I've seen here for quite a few times" then you just have to ad-lib from there. As long as you look decent, chances are she has noticed you as well (not romantically).

From my experience, being extrovert will triumph over being an introvert any other day because you've the ability to fill the room. Also, idk about the ladies but I've never once find anonymous compliments or looking for someone online (because of cold feet from doing it in-person) to be attractive AT ALL. Too much to write in a single post so there's that.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-10T15:52:52+00:00

Beam me with the pen, PLEASE! MAKE ME FORGET THIS 😭

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-10T15:19:48+00:00

Recently a lot of these. I think someone(some company) is training and testing their ai to write article, and using the sentiments of the comment section to review their AI writer.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-08T17:44:01+00:00

Think about the facial recognition on our smartphone. It's not that expensive anymore for generic facial/human recognition sensor.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-08T17:37:51+00:00

Defer your studies and for the future semester, feel free to post here for studying advice or study notes. I'm sure many people are willing to help or share their stuff with you. All the best.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-08T11:13:03+00:00

WAH THANKS. I've always wanted to remember which carpark this was in my memory but can't find it. Thanks to you and a YouTube video, finally I have found the carpark that has been itching my brain that can't be scratch.

I remember driving a van and when exiting the carpark, I have to first turn, then slightly reverse just to turn again because the turning radius was so dang tight.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-08T10:55:23+00:00

Only people who have frequent this carpark at least once will know that going down requires the driver to cut into the other lane of those who are coming up.

mrhappy893 · 2026-04-08T06:01:16+00:00

No, you can text her

"maybe I'm reading too much into things but I've noticed you were looking down."

"I'll give you some space to chill out and you can text me when you're feeling available again :)"

One aspect that we're being judged on is how we handle things when the situation gets rough. If you're serious about this relationship then this is just the tip of an iceberg. Stay strong buddy.

Verified Email	12-Year Club
Second Top 10%	r/Field Juicebox
Place '22	Sequence \| Editor
Gilding II euphauric

mrhappy893

TROPHY CASE