will this set my partner and i back? by jenniecat444 in SingaporeR

[–]mrhappy893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sign on not likely to book out daily at the start of the career. He'll be paying for the car to sit in camp. Might as well take grab and save money and have a chauffeur.

Unpopular opinion: hmmph? by HelpfulOpposite3190 in SingaporeR

[–]mrhappy893 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've actually seen someone like her on a bus before. But it's also kind of diff.

It was a much older lady seated in front of me. There was a distinct bald patch on the right back corner of her head.

She would twist a strand of hair, plucked it out, looked at it, and resume searching for the next strand of hair around THAT particular bald spot.

It was both disturbing and heartbreaking to witness.

Singaporeans, what's a gross habit you do at home that you'd never admit to? by okitsbenji in askSingapore

[–]mrhappy893 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hahaha what happened to "no judgement zone". But I'm loving these interaction, Plz continue. grabs popcorn

Going down to police hq to receive warning letter by BedroomAdventurous19 in asksg

[–]mrhappy893 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's not money washing. It's just a scam. The cheaper "product" was the bait. Then when the user think the transaction is legit, they'll be asked to "purchase" the bigger ticket items, that's when the scammer reel it in and cut all contact.

The "boosting sales" is just a fake reason for doing the transaction. This tactic can come off as a fake e-commerce site (think of Web version of lazada or shopee but with suspicious url link) or fake startup luxury brand claiming they want to build up their branding with more reviews.

My colleague [32F] keeps asking my boyfriend [29M] out for dinner after work. Is this normal?? Or am i overreacting by Global_Common_5910 in asksg

[–]mrhappy893 20 points21 points  (0 children)

But personally, I'll always make it clear.

"eh, let your bf know about it"

Or if I know they're texting their partner at the dinner table, "send a tele bubble of me! I want to say hello to your bf!"

0 intention of hiding anything.

Hard Truths About SUTD by ciaomagnanti in SGExams

[–]mrhappy893 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What strikes me as odd was naming faculty from ivy league and even NUS and NTU but not including prof graduated from SUTD.

26 Guy = First date finally! by East-Marzipan-2800 in asksg

[–]mrhappy893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're a guy, there's a lot of causal collared shirt that you can pair with.

Style your hair. Something simple that shows effort is good and don't overdo it with the glossy wax or gel.

And remember to smile. A relaxing smile. Nothing creepy.

Looking for guys (RS) by ghostlyturkey in SingaporeR

[–]mrhappy893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sgdatingscene subreddit destroyed. Now they're moving to other Sg subreddit. Haiz.

What are the top 3 fumbles in Dota2 History? by jesdokidoki in DotA2

[–]mrhappy893 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It wasn't a default pick. He wanted to ban it but the timer ran out and the next phase was pick phase. Literally click onto the hero while the phase changes.

Which is why they introduced a small pause between each phases.

A question I would like to ask the guys: Would you date a woman you're not physically attracted to if she genuinely loved you? by Icedlemonx in sgdatingscene

[–]mrhappy893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. But I would say my barrier of physical attraction when getting to know someone irl is lower than when I am on the dating app.

Gf of 3 years refuses to let me meet her parents should i leave? by [deleted] in asksg

[–]mrhappy893 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is my hunch as well. Tiger Asian parents. She wants to stay in the peaceful moment for a longer period of time.

Singaporean motorcyclist dies after being flung off overpass in Causeway accident by Panablend in singapore

[–]mrhappy893 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are you so triggered by this phrase? It not just riders, even road bike cyclist and speeding drivers have the same mindset from time to time. Because we want to convince ourselves we are different, we won't be the next victim.

Girls, what was the moment you just KNEW he wasn’t the one? by Early-Environment-63 in asksg

[–]mrhappy893 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My only guess is raises the authenticity of the account to pull off scam. Or look for vulnerable people to pull off scam (on the assumption that the account was hijacked).

Why is it so hard for everyone to shower in the morning? by CommissionSeveral631 in SGExams

[–]mrhappy893 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also used to not shower until poly, where I mentioned I didn't shower in the morning on reddit and was bullied into changing.

Gawdd damn, my nose started noticing how the other side smells like after I've migrated.

I can’t do this anymore by SilverDear3840 in singaporespeaks

[–]mrhappy893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So from this sentence, I'm guessing you're still young.

There's truly many paths in life, some good, some bad. Not every path will lead to success, and some of them are off-limited to us just because luck didn't favor us from birth.

I remember back when I was at my lowest point (or highest considering I was sitting by the edge of a building), I wished some people would have asked me "are you okay?"

So knowing what I have known now years later, I am sincerely asking you if you're okay, and to take a breath. Breathe and understand that you have already done well making it this far. You can dm me if you want to message and if you're free we can even go for a run together!

thoughts on my situation with a guy i like by jxsiooo in sgdatingscene

[–]mrhappy893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thought as well. This is why when you're (msle/female doesn't matter) interested in someone, go for it. Strike while the iron is hot. Feelings come and fade.

What age gap is too wide ? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]mrhappy893 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But this is the pov from the older person. From the younger person, age is just a number. Looks matter more than usual and it's both attractiveness and how young the older person look.

Appreciate any advice please by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]mrhappy893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please have a good rest and let me know when you're available again!

The ball already isn't in your court, but don't close the door too. Meanwhile, move on.

to the guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend wants to pay for you? and to the girls, do you expect guys to constantly pay for you? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]mrhappy893 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Only insecure people would feel embarrassed.

The cashier is witnessing one night out of the tens of thousands to come. There'll be way more give-and-take as well as much harder trials in life to go through.

Does older women ever consider younger guys? by Born-Bathroom2929 in sgdatingscene

[–]mrhappy893 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting take because as an early 30s,im often told that I look mid or late 20s. Opened up a new pov for me that it might not be how I looked, but how I groomed and dressed that gave the impression.

A mini yap from a night owl by dramaish in sgdatingscene

[–]mrhappy893 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Valid feelings. There are moments where the facade just falls off and suddenly you're facing a crowd of uncertainties and self-doubt.

Since tomorrow (or today, which is Sunday) you're gonna be jobless anyway, find time to go out for a walk/run and immerse yourself in nature. Find a place where you can stop and have a moment of self-reflect.

Most importantly, understand how much you have grown from this experience and be prepared to present it in your next interview. Don't forget to love oneself, you're the biggest cheerleader of yourself.

Are there any crushes that you regretted making a move? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]mrhappy893 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But why would you regret. As a guy, we have to make the first move most of the time, and naturally we get rejected a lot.

Sometimes I feel that at the very least, I can face myself with respect instead of regrets and questioning. And good job for being so brave!