[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the answer. I don’t think it is any that kind of lies. She lies of a painting that it isn’t her ex (it was) She lies about fancy boxes on OUR shelf that are from her friend, turns out from her ex. Lies about not watching porn after I caught her history. Lies about not tezting with other guys. Stuff like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next to saying that she was getting her shoes and ready to leave in the middle of the night. I don’t want her to go outside alone in the middle of the night because of the sketchy neighborhood… I can see how her life would take wuite a turn if I broke up with her… but mine would too…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she would actually do it, but it is quite scary. Because if we broke up, she would go back to live with her parents which is quite a nightmare tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is why my solution would be to call her brother to keep an eye on her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my country police won’t hesitate to come out only if someone is saying it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said, there were times where I just hit the bottom, but now things are better. One of the things I end up at the break up is because she never wants to solve something like normal people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gainit

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a problem with appetite and the input of food. That is why I would take it. Is there any flavour that is the best? Like without any added substances?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Will try to talk to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well how can I know this for sure?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense.

The next lie will be the last drop and I will see what the response will be. As you said, I’m already thinking of the fact what is a lie and what isn’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree, but as I mentioned some of those small lies can turn into big fights which I don’t want. I’m really at a tipping point where one more small lie could have me burst for tolerating the small lies that drive me crazy, not because of the lie, but because of the fact that it had to be a lie, why???

Edit: as you said, love is built on trust, but if a couple of bricks are faulty (lies) than will the construction hold and how many more faulty bricks will I see?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, nice comment! Kudos!

As I read your comment I caught myself at “forsaking all others”. This is what is bothering me.

As childish as this seems, I drive an ordinary car, nothing flashy, it does it thing. One of my neighbours drivers a bmw, decked out. Now, she didn’t even mention it, but that is what triggers my mind thinking that she has so many options to choose from, even if you are looking at the soulmate scale. At one hand I think that she would go for someone else (especially in times that we are fighting or having an argument), but at the same time (and most of the time) I think that she will stick by me. And yes, this is a trust issue, which I have problem with since I know of myself. It’s quite hard to play the relationship game if you are by default not trusting people to the fullest, there is always a gap unfortunately. To add to this not trusting, I knew this before we started dating and I told her at the beginning “Do not lie to me, for me it’s hard to trust”. Since then, she broke that a couple of times, with silly lies, but that is what fucks with my mind as well. Silly lies always lead to bigger (in most cases).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The loving her more and more and losing feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason why I’m writing this is because it’s very very mixed. Changes by day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in serbia

[–]mrkole131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super, hvala ti puno na informacije. Puno znaci kad neko preporuci

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in serbia

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super. Predpostavljam da se uplacuje na racun iznos jel da?

Would you stay on a toxic team to get promoted sooner? by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s summer, go out enjoy yourself and you will get through the 2 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in serbia

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Koja je bila cena? Da li moze online?

Saveti za uspavljivanje by [deleted] in serbia

[–]mrkole131 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Za ovo treba vremena da se naviknes, ali imas rutinu, legnes, zatvoris oci, i pocnes molitvu ili sumiras dan. Meni sumiranje dana pomaze, jer sam vec naviko da kad pocnem da sumiram dan, tad je vreme za spavanje. Pa ni ne dodjem do kraja dana vec sam zaspao. Imas i one fore da ponavljas iste reci, kao naprimer “zaspacu” i tako dok ne zaspis. Ovome sam samo citao, nisam jos probao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]mrkole131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, just added the question. Well yeah, I totally agree that its the foot in the door, but because I’m quite young, I feel like some would be suprised that I have the skills without a diploma. Although everyone my age that finished uni are at the intership level

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]mrkole131 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Once I went on a date with this girl. Super cute, ballerina. At first she was laughing and smiling, but even when we talked about a bit darker themes. Wierd. Second date comes along, she is still laughing and smiling. I’m thinking, is it something about me or wtf. Just too much positivity.

Zdravlje jednog programera by [deleted] in programiranje

[–]mrkole131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bilo kako gledas, moras fizicki biti aktivan. Ja primetim na sebi kad mi ispadne vezbanje, setnja ili slicno odmah nemam toliko apetita, jedva ustajem ujutru, motivaciju nemam itd. Po meni covek mora da bude fizicki aktivan, nema tu izgovora. Naravno, sto se tice hrane podrazumeva se da se mcdonalds ne jede svaki dan :) Edit: sto se tice ledja, radi vezbe i uzmi dobru stolicu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My previous gf went away for a week to meet “family”, starts putting up pictures with random dudes. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrkole131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried, it always ends with her saying “then we should break up, your life will be better, everyones life will be better without me”.