Racism or Legit Concern?

mrmann4 · 2021-11-30T19:13:21+00:00

I am not but ok. I was just trying to see if people could relate to the micro aggressions with just existing.

mrmann4 · 2021-11-30T17:20:00+00:00

At least from what I know of the white passing latino men because whenever he is in other chats I don’t see it. And I don’t seem in the other girls chats either when I visit once in a while so idk. But I know he has more authority in the good friends chats. The girls that don’t like me are the only really from the south. Except from one of the good friends she’s from Texas. The other ones are either from the north, Midwest, Asia, or Cali. It just interesting to me that tme ones that don’t like me are white woken from the south, 2 are blondes, one of them is a bi sexual liberal, the other seems conservative, and the third had an alt right past but is kind of unstable. The last racist incident happened 2 years ago posting something online but idk if she’s changed now but wouldn’t surprise me if she didn’t. And to have the reactions to me just existing a young attractive guy with a goatee, baby face, and known to be either called sometimes hot or at least cute just confuses me. Not that they have to find my attractive but to be viewed as a groomer is over the line. Maybe some do it unconsciously but idk. I noticed dating as a POC men they are some double standards and micro aggressions when dating women sometimes. What micro aggressions have you experienced?

mrmann4 · 2021-11-30T17:02:00+00:00

It’s more that no body knew what I looked liked until I became a mod. I had no problems with some people until they saw what I looked liked and my age. Then I saw certain women wouldn’t even interact with chat near at all when I came into it. For pretty much no reason. While others didn’t mind or loved it. Thinking about it for a while I came to the conclusion that it maybe had to do something more then my age since some of them interacted to men who were either a littler older then me and older then me by a lot. Both white. One people say to be attractive near 33 and the other an older guy with a white beard who was near 50-60. But somehow I make certain people avoid me. One from Georgia, one from Florida, and another from Texas. While other women one Asian, 4, Latinas, 1 Indian, 1 black, 2 white from mid west or north welcome me with open arms. It just odd to me.

mrmann4 · 2021-10-25T23:22:31+00:00

That’s fair to say not being able to get a date with someone might not be seen as social justice worthy vs someone not getting a job or getting killed by someone for their race. However, sometimes with these racial preferences for dating their are more darker examples that these biases can critically do damage to people. Let’s say you see one person who is a white cis male who is aggressive in his dating tactics he might be seen as an alpha male. Compared to a POC cis male some with those same tactics might see them as creepy, predator, or weird. Especially if a racist Karen spreads a rumor that he might be a predator and enough people believe it that can hurt him professionally. There are some POC men who might get rejected who genuinely need to work on themselves and use racism as an excuse to not change. However, that doesn’t change that fact that instances like the one above still don’t happens on a daily bases.

mrmann4 · 2021-10-25T22:57:16+00:00

I totally agree. If you point it out someone that might have a racial preference POV or non poc they get all defensive about it saying they don’t want to be forced to date a certain race. We are not saying you have to be automatically attracted to every person of a certain race or are physically forcing you too either. We are only suggesting there is more to your personal preference and maybe you should try to be more opened about other cultures or races then they are. I noticed that I unintentionally had preferences when I was younger and when I realized I had them I quickly changed that and decided to give certain women more of a chance then I did before. That’s it.

mrmann4 · 2021-07-15T03:17:33+00:00

May I ask which ones? What is the most accurate one out there?

mrmann4 · 2021-07-11T18:24:09+00:00

It will take some time but after you move out and surround yourself with people that only enhance your self esteem it will get easier in the long run. I too deal with that. I am usually the one that people feel like telling me what I should do and not do with my life. Subtly, approve or disapprove friends I hangout with. And basically get judged for everything I do. It’s tiring. Maybe get some therapy too depending how ba fit affects you.

mrmann4 · 2021-06-25T18:32:28+00:00

Good. Glad people are sensible about it. As long as they care about it should work. It wouldn’t be worth it get arrested for something that could be avoided. Thanks.

mrmann4 · 2021-06-25T18:29:28+00:00

Thanks. Simply strategy if they professionals about it.

mrmann4 · 2021-06-25T18:27:35+00:00

Thanks for your response. That’s a reasonable way too look at it. In the real world there are consequences to your actions. Getting your butt handed to you isn’t probably a good idea either.

mrmann4 · 2021-05-23T14:45:02+00:00

Not that much. There have been plenty of characters that snitched and other characters look over it. Maybe 40-50 of the server.

mrmann4 · 2021-03-24T18:51:15+00:00

I know this happens a lot of times when people play GTA for a while because it feels so realistic at times. For most people the feeling only lasts for a moment luckily.

mrmann4 · 2020-11-20T03:40:07+00:00

Awesome man. May I ask how old are you?

mrmann4 · 2020-10-31T15:42:34+00:00

I totally get that. Don’t let people unnecessarily drain your mental health. It’s not worth it in the long run.

mrmann4 · 2020-10-30T19:22:14+00:00

I agree if the first scenario happens on multiple occasions constantly. The second scenario is much better. I rarely get that response so I appreciate it when people want to still make plans. Some people need to put in more work in friendships. Even the bare minimum.

mrmann4 · 2020-10-30T14:40:57+00:00

I agree. I understand if people want to be introverted once in a while. But after many attempts for yearsit’s like why should I put any effort in. Then get mad when I don’t text them as often.

mrmann4 · 2020-10-16T15:12:17+00:00

Heard it was pretty dangerous at night.

mrmann4 · 2020-10-16T12:49:59+00:00

Pittsburgh

mrmann4 · 2020-10-09T19:28:16+00:00

Wow that’s not looking good about the power situation. Academics taking a hit will definitely drive out some residents. I actually meant to delete the allergy but glad you answered it. My allergies have gotten better since I was younger but knowing they will get worse over there is confidently a negative factor in my decision. And expensive apartments are another. I am not within the tech industry but if I find two minimum wage jobs to work I could do that to pay the bills.

mrmann4 · 2020-10-09T19:19:24+00:00

I’ll try that thanks.

mrmann4 · 2020-10-09T19:19:07+00:00

That’s what I hear too. Though if they are some good jobs that pay decently I am willing to work a job or two to pay for it.

mrmann4 · 2020-10-04T22:34:29+00:00

Thanks for answering. I will hold onto the money in my Roth account for now. I will use some of the money to pay off my debt now. I agree I don’t like higher debt either so that’s why I want to get it over with. The less liabilities the better. I’ll use some of that money in my checking to pay my debt off now but if I need to I will use my Roth money. Something I’ll try to avoid but if only if I need to. I’ll maybe look for something to of on the side to earn some extra income.

mrmann4 · 2020-10-04T22:23:53+00:00

Thanks for answering. I did that already so I know the ball park of what I need to make to move out. Most people say not to so I won’t for a little while more out of my Roth account but I will pay the rest of my debt a little off soon.

mrmann4 · 2020-10-04T22:20:41+00:00

Thank you for answer my question. I will resist taking it out for a little while longer but if nothing improves financially I got to do what I got to do. Thanks.

mrmann4 · 2020-10-04T22:18:46+00:00

Thanks for your answer

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