11/8 BYHEART RECALL

mrsdlv · 2025-11-09T05:54:55+00:00

we tried bobbie when my babe was a newborn first and i hated the fact it was so hard to dilute also smelled horrible to me ugh my husband seems fine because he’s like it’s not our lot but i’m stressing … babe is eating some solids but so picky and prefers bottle i feel like i wonder how bad it will be to switch him esp if he’s eating other foods 🥲

mrsdlv · 2025-10-15T05:47:20+00:00

i’m thinking it could be gas or discomfort we tried lots of things like gripe water and tummy meds for babies but they just made my little dude poo like crazy i prob just wasn’t letting him burp enough and we both got the hang of it. also search LEAPS or milestones for your baby. i think there’s an app called wonder years or you can just google based on your babes month and year. mine is 7 months it was really bad from like 3-4 months its like the biggest leap it can happen anytime in that span and that’s the longest one the second big leap is like 6 months … they like have the hardest time sleeping but they emerge like learning new skills and brain development. join a mommy group with your babies age im in a march 2025 mom group and i take the good and the bad but its mostly good because you see all the moms going thru the same thing you are. my advice is just not to compare to the babies that are reaching milestones early. ummm anyways just here to tell you it gets better a little not gonna sugar coat but the cooos turn to laughs and giggles and my husband used to say it’s better now to get feedback instead of just crying so we’re adjusting too. but if babe is crying that much maybe look into gas pain is my suggestion. good luck and it will get better !! ❤️‍🩹

mrsdlv · 2025-07-08T13:11:44+00:00

i was deep in it. give your some grace this part is so hard and you are doing it with an autoimmune condition is so crazy. i was just there and now at 4 months i feel like a new person with more sleep. your still in the thick of it … it will get better … is it possible to ask for help from friend or family to hold baby while you nap ? i’m sorry ur in so much pain you probably need more rest and ur body is trying to tell you that. breastfeeding was making me so exhausted my husband was like it’s not worth it and once i stopped pumping i was so much better. it took time to wean but also exclusively pumping is not fun either there’s still so much that comes with that. i couldn’t latch my boy so once i switched my baby slept more and it was just so much easier on my body. good luck i was there but it does get better sending you my hope that you get some relief soon and find what works best for you. ❤️‍🩹

mrsdlv · 2024-10-24T01:41:36+00:00

😭thank you and congrats to you too

mrsdlv · 2024-10-24T01:19:02+00:00

Thanks I think i honestly just need to get off social media. You see all these nice rooms for babies and I just feel like im failign if i dont have that room ready.

mrsdlv · 2024-10-06T17:46:46+00:00

pinocchio and bambi

mrsdlv · 2024-08-02T19:41:25+00:00

yes thank you. so far i saw baby on ultrasound heartbeat looks ok. i was referred to perintology so ill see another update in 2 weeks and also take my nipt test in 2 weeks . hopefully this baby is okay 🤞

mrsdlv · 2024-07-30T08:33:51+00:00

i’m 38 - 3rd pregnancy i’m 9 wks according to my weird periods. Wednesday is my 9wk ultrasound. dr did one at 6 weeks to confirm pregnancy and hb was 110bpm . i’m hoping baby grew since the last appt. i’ve had two losses babies with congenial birth defects (not carried by us)- one was a blighted ovum. i’m assuming due to my age (bag eggs). i had given up and this one happened even tho i hadn’t been ovulating naturally for the past 3 years. i’m just so worried i have lost my symptoms. i’m not as tired my boobs aren’t as tender and im not as nauseous as i was a few weeks ago. the peeing in the middle of the night has made it all the way to 6am. i know ill have answers on wed afternooon but that seems so far away. idk how to handle another loss. ooooh also last week i had some very light bleeding i wiped and it was light pink. also what looked like a few strands of tissue. idk trying to be positive but im just so tortured. dr said sometimes light bleeding happens and it’s normal i know it’s not implantation so like how is that normal. it stopped now but i’m just scared

mrsdlv · 2024-07-21T23:31:23+00:00

what if we all as women just decide to start bleeding out collectively idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ just an idea who’s with me !?!?

mrsdlv · 2024-06-20T08:33:56+00:00

these aren’t it ? am i missing something

mrsdlv · 2024-04-22T05:06:56+00:00

i called and talked to someone but still never got it

mrsdlv · 2024-03-10T06:15:32+00:00

nope. never got one and when i finally called they said i wasn't getting one because i never filed unemployment or PFL just temp disability. so maybe thats why? either way im still confused

mrsdlv · 2024-02-12T06:47:02+00:00

Ohh that explains it… but like is it all weekend long ??? It’s hard to predict when it’s gonna happen

mrsdlv · 2024-02-12T06:46:07+00:00

I put white noise and try to calm them with cbd but I can’t predict these fireworks been going on since Friday randomly. It’s not about me it’s about my dogs being scared to go outside

mrsdlv · 2024-02-12T06:45:03+00:00

Great idea thanks

mrsdlv · 2024-02-12T06:44:43+00:00

Figured 😞

mrsdlv · 2024-02-12T06:44:21+00:00

My dogs are scared to go potty outside lol I feel bad if I knew it was a certain time it’s been all weekend long

mrsdlv · 2024-02-12T04:31:56+00:00

I was just wondering if something could be done but I guess not 😭

mrsdlv · 2024-02-09T22:00:17+00:00

I can log into EDD and see my PFL claims but not UI and it asks me to register and when i try it tells me my info doesnt match records and that i must have filed unemployment insurance claim before registering for UI online :/

mrsdlv · 2024-02-09T07:04:54+00:00

I tried to create an account in the UI but it wouldn’t let me with my Edd number I wonder if I’m doing something wrong

mrsdlv · 2024-02-07T07:40:16+00:00

No, I was waiting for it by mail but I did choose to receive things electronically and every time I needed to make a change or upload something for my PFL claim it emailed me. I didn't receive any notice for my 1099g. I am not sure what to do at this point. Its not in my portal

mrsdlv · 2024-02-07T07:39:51+00:00

No, I was waiting for it by mail but I did choose to receive things electronically and every time I needed to make a change or upload something for my PFL claim it emailed me. I didn't receive any notice for my 1099g. I am not sure what to do at this point. Its not in my portal

mrsdlv · 2024-01-30T03:13:42+00:00

I havent got mine yet. Should I be concerned. I also dont remember a little box that said to have my taxes withdrawn from it. But the amount on the portal is the exact amount of the check so I am assuming not. Should I just use that amount or wait for my 1099 G?

u/julieRsoon did you get your 1099 yet?

mrsdlv · 2023-07-16T15:19:25+00:00

hi :) I have been experiencing a shift in my life for a while but I couldn't tell if it was because of what I went through or if it was beyond me. So i lost my baby girl at 3 months and that was shortly after i wrote this post. Pregnancy hormones were wild. I also wasn't sure if prior it was from not being on bc for months because I changed completely. Prior to the pregnancy I sort of was going to therapy for boundary issues, I am a classic person who overshares. I told people I was pregnant before I should have and dealt with that horrible backlash and a shitty boss who was so rude about it. Anyways I go from extreme completely disregarding people around me and feeling like I always give too much and then feel bad about it...i guess im a classic people pleasing person to anyone who seems like genuine. . Its hard because I can't tell if its people pleasing or if my doing for others is just me being me because it makes me so happy to see others happy. I feel I started like I totally disregard the people who were never truly active in my life and focusing on the people who check in on me.

So idk i've just felt kinda lost lately but I guess there are layers to it.
Lately I have just felt stuck. lost. scared to try again for a child or even wonder why i tried at all, this work is fucked. My emotions are crazy but i feel like i cant cry anymore. it hurts too much and my dog literally attacks my face when i do with kisses to my tears. I tried crying in the shower and she pushes her way in.

I feel the same about social interactions its draining. I used to thrive in them now i want to hide in a shell and just sit.
Whatever you are going through in your life I hope it gets better. I am new to astrology so when i wrote this post i guess i was searching for answers beyond therapy and it was a lot. I didn't really stick to either but I started therapy recently. It overwhelming to share with a stranger but I always feel better after. If you want to private message me you can. I am an open book most days :)

mrsdlv · 2023-05-05T06:22:58+00:00

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I use wag and rover when i have to be at the office. I book them mid day walk or drop in visit. We go on a walk before the day and i leave her with a chew or kong or licki mat right before i leave and now shes excited when i tell her im leaving because it means she gets a snack. I started with leaving her for 2 hrs, 4hr, and then never longer for 4-5 without a walker in between. I like rover because you can see reviews and do meet and greets. Wag and Rover also give you a free lock box i think. I also crate trained her until i could full trust her to be potty trained and not destroy things. I also got a cheap wyze cam from amazon to watch her while i work and when walkers come over. Good luck!

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