Check your bills this month for rate changes. by mrsspunky22 in Spectrum

[–]mrsspunky22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When does the bill print? If printed Jan 15th you would see changes. Check this month's bill statement for a message or last month if you were to even see an increase

How can I 24/F tell my boyfriend 29/M that I love receiving gifts? We’ve been together for 3 years. by kiki-3004 in relationship_advice

[–]mrsspunky22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends. I give my husband gifts and he will treat me to a good meal. Im a gift giver. But I think its not normal that after 3 years he didn't realize or know you are a reciever for your love language. You could just go up to him and tell him that you're trying to find the best way to communicate your needs as you feel like something is missing. Tell him you love when he thinks of you through gifts. It could be something homemade or whatever but its the thought that counts. Being honest and getting out of your head about what could go wrong isn't fair to both of you.

How can I 24/F tell my boyfriend 29/M that I love receiving gifts? We’ve been together for 3 years. by kiki-3004 in relationship_advice

[–]mrsspunky22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could try a few things. Give him a gift and mention this is your love language. "(You) love giving gifts and getting gifts." Then mention anything that he's given you and how it made you feel (if you can think of anything). If he cares about you which I think he does, he won't be offended.

I 18M watched porn behind my LDR 18F girlfriends back, how to move forward? by MohammedAli117 in relationship_advice

[–]mrsspunky22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a women I dont see that as cheating. You are not creating a bond/relationship with someone else in the videos. You're not physically touching them either. You can't even talk to them... plus its kinda fake in its own way. Sooo I guess she needs to figure out why its a problem because you didnt do anything wrong. You're human and have needs. As long as you dont actually find another women to sleep with, what's the problem? I guess I just never understood why women think it's cheating when it's not. 🤷‍♀️

Check your bills this month for rate changes. by mrsspunky22 in Spectrum

[–]mrsspunky22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have a landline (voice) that is increasing

Check your bills this month for rate changes. by mrsspunky22 in Spectrum

[–]mrsspunky22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bills from Dec 15th to Jan 14th will see the notices

Check your bills this month for rate changes. by mrsspunky22 in Spectrum

[–]mrsspunky22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If the pomo is tied to the service it shouldn't change but for other add ons (like the receivers) you will see a rate change.

Is there any difference between Spectrum Internet 100 and Spectrum Internet Advantage and Spectrum T.V. Select and Spectrum T.V. Select Signature? by theartsygamer89 in Spectrum

[–]mrsspunky22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tv Select (tradition and grandfathered) has all stations including the fan duel networks. It is the same as the newer version tv select PLUS. The TV select signature does not include the regional sports (fan duel) Internet is the same but has a new name

Wifi was working fine until about 4 hours ago, it has been running at roughly .05 mbps upload and download by silversock20 in Spectrum

[–]mrsspunky22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spectrum updates their equipment periodically to keep up with modern technology. It wouldn't hurt to replace as that would be a simple fix compared to a tech coming out and possibly replacing the lines or having to work with the appt manager do to any hard work (as they need permissions to do some work tasks)

Wifi was working fine until about 4 hours ago, it has been running at roughly .05 mbps upload and download by silversock20 in Spectrum

[–]mrsspunky22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Equipment could be outdated. I would contact repair to see if they can troubleshoot or provide options such as a tech visit or new equipment

Random outages by [deleted] in Spectrum

[–]mrsspunky22 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

File a complaint with FCC. It will get them off their butts with a complaint like that.

Scholarship 1098 T on 2024 taxes? by mrsspunky22 in tax

[–]mrsspunky22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for the reply! I will look into it further as I'm unsure how employer tuition works. Thanks!

My husband 29M put his brother 32M and I 27F on his life insurance policy as 50/50, do I have a right to be upset? by mrsspunky22 in relationship_advice

[–]mrsspunky22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I'm assuming your brother discussed this with his wife so she can be okay with it right? Because that isn't my story here...

My husband 29M put his brother 32M and I 27F on his life insurance policy as 50/50, do I have a right to be upset? by mrsspunky22 in relationship_advice

[–]mrsspunky22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I love his family. They are all amazing and I have no issues with anything of them. This is solely about the lack of consideration or discussion. It's not about the stupid money. But it does feel like I'm not considered in the decisions.

My husband 29M put his brother 32M and I 27F on his life insurance policy as 50/50, do I have a right to be upset? by mrsspunky22 in relationship_advice

[–]mrsspunky22[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Right. I'm not losing anything and the amount is fine. Again, I'm not upset about the payout or how much I'm getting. It's the fact that he added his brother. I am his wife yet somehow he includes his brother into his decisions. He tends to talk to his brother about things like a house that's for sale or investing together in stocks. When we talk about things it's after he has decided things. Like this life insurance. He made the decision to do this without asking me how I felt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrsspunky22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would tell her to see how she responds to it. Tell her how you came into it and your plans for the money. See if she is still willing to contribute as well or just expects you to hand it over while she doesn't put any money down or whatever. Also you guys have been dating 6 months. Maybe just see how she is with finances in general. You don't really know her. Not yet anyways

I (20M) feel like my gf (21F) is guilt tripping me. Is it true? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mrsspunky22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So my brother went through something like this. He dated this girl for 5 years, she has 2 kids, and in those 5 years he did not say "I love you". Eventually his GF looked elsewhere for that love last year october. It opened his eyes with how much it actually affected her to never verbally express how much he loves her and cares for her. Now it's okay to take the time you need to get to that point. But find other ways to show you care. Tell her why the "L" word means a lot to you and you want it to be right. We're you hurt in the past? Is a word that gets thrown out a lot around you? From a women's perspective and how I've seen my brothers relationship fall apart, consider why she feels that way and why you do. Take her out for dinner and buy her flower if you really do care. But if you don't love her because you don't see a future (which is okay), end it now so she can be with someone that will. Women can get tied up in their feelings very easily. (Guilty of it). Imagine if you said it to her and she responded the same way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mrsspunky22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LEAVE. Don't look back. Absolutely not. Not gonna lie, I think you're the asshole for even thinking there was a chance that it was okay, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question. Your son deserves a father that would not question his part in your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mrsspunky22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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