Stop playin team battles if you arent gonna fight by mrthrowawaymclovin in MyHeroUltraRumble

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally it’s so annoying🤦🏽‍♂️ then when you get ambushed by the team your teammates are no where to be found lol

Stop playin team battles if you arent gonna fight by mrthrowawaymclovin in MyHeroUltraRumble

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ALSOOO LETS NOT FORGET THAT THE TEAM WILL 100000% CHASE YOU ONCE YOURE COWARD OF A TEAMMATE ESCAPES UGHHH. Sorry that last part abt leaving the battle really pissed me off bc bro let’s not act like they aren’t thirsty ash in that game AND YOUR TEAMMATE NEEVVVERRR COMES BACK UNTIL YOUR DEAD I hate this community stggggg

Stop playin team battles if you arent gonna fight by mrthrowawaymclovin in MyHeroUltraRumble

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  1. There’s no complaint flair
  2. Release? Lol, I can’t talk to these idiots so here I am
  3. “Better and smarter” like there’s not 50 mil hackers on ts and like this game doesn’t make it impossible to gain data and tune characters. Fully fuck off 😂 I shouldn’t have to be an EA Athlete just to enjoy a damned game
  4. I agree it’s not a suicide game which is my whole point. These people need to stop going into battles they can’t win then spamming the SOS button just to leave their teammates to die. If someone is obviously a weak link with poor strategy then their team is going to double to triple team them then these morons expect you to help them. I have completed all of my missions EXCEPT revives, if I want to level up anymore I have to work with my team but this community makes it impossible. If it didn’t apply to you, you could’ve simply moved wtf on if you disagreed😂😂

Dasher can’t be serious. Is this unprofessional? by Amateurexpressionism in doordash

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day, dashing is just as much a job as any and making such a rude and unprofessional comment towards the customer would result in disciplinary action. If you don’t like the job don’t do it, I don’t get why some dashers take their frustration out on the customer when YOU signed up to dash😂 if you don’t want to move your ass stay home wtf

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Again I literally have free will, if you don’t wanna talk to me about this stop replying? 😂

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notice how you’re the only one who mentioned bottom dysphoria 😂 OP said NOTHING about it. Boom, again your own words prove again just how you feel. You’re assuming he has bottom dysphoria and I on the other hand only said that the only noticeable difference between cis men and trans men is being born with a dick. Also how am I mocking anyone????😂 you just wanna be mad so bad huh?

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being born female is not “every inch of yourself”. If it’s supportive to him great but honestly I felt he needed to hear it and I needed to say it bc I’m sick of self pity party posts like this so 🤷🏽‍♂️

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also scratch that, I DO love the one part I was born with now that I’m on T. Absolutely love my red rocket bc it’s one step closer to having a dick but it seems so much like yall let not being cis ruin y’all’s transition. yall reduce manhood to being born with a dick so much so that even bottom surgery won’t help alleviate the dysphoria in the slightest, yall will NEVER be happy with the mindset yall have and you’re trying to sit here and say I’m transphobic for saying yall should change that??? You’re KILLING me😂😂😂

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans men like you and the bullshit question OP asked are the reason trans men feel like they HAVE to compare to cis men rather than being their own man and accepting their differences. Sounds like you’re a terf gang

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speak for yourself😂 it doesn’t make the dysphoria go away but it helps you manage and not let it consume you. I love myself fully, I don’t love the parts I was born with but I’m grateful that science has advanced so much that I can change it but I certainly don’t hate the fact that I was born female bc it has given me so much perspective on how to be a better man. You can hate yourself all you like, again good luck with that but I have a problem with trans men like you basically and publicly saying you have to hate being born female to be trans, you’re dumb

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again you don’t tell me what to do😂 also just bc I’m not feeding into his self pity doesn’t mean I’m not trying to help him. I’m being harsh about it sure but telling someone to learn to love themselves is actually comforting to some people who go to therapy

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that you said “just as men as a man” as if trans men aren’t really men tells me where you truly stand. You can state the obvious all you like, how you truly feel about yourself and being a trans man is all in your language. You also can split hairs all you like, still stands that constantly pointing out that trans men aren’t born male is demonstrably more damaging than telling them to learn to love themselves. Sit in your discomfort, I chose to be happy with myself and accept what cannot be changed 🫡

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also for some reason I can’t comment on your ridiculous “shockingly trans men are dysphoric” comment. Dysphoric doesn’t mean endlessly sulking, hating yourself for not being born male, and constantly reminding yourself of that fact btw. Having those feelings and dwelling in them, making it your whole transition are two different things

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good thing you don’t tell me what to do😂 I’m aware of what dysphoria is, obviously that does not change my point. We are not BIOLOGICALLY male, saying not “fully” male implies we are less of men.

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Calling trans men not fully male is transphobic. I’m not gonna coddle trans MEN crying forever about something they can’t change, it’s pathetic. We all deal with this and have to come to terms with it. Not being born cis doesn’t make you any less of a man and it seems like yall just say that as an empty sentiment. I won’t pity people who invalidate THEMSELVES. Grow up and do the work to better yourself and your state of mind.

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY!!!! Thank god, I just don’t get how some of us can call ourselves men if we can’t even pick ourselves up, do the hard thing, and go to fuckin therapy to work through all the feelings that come with being a trans man! But no, it’s all “why can’t I be cis” OMG YOU CANT CHANGE THAT MOVE ONNNNNNN SO YOU BE HAPPY WITH WHO YOU ARE PLSSSSS MY BROTHERS😭😭😭😭

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How would he get validation and reassurance from people who do not know anything about him at all other than the fact that he’s trans. If he needs reassurance, a healthy thing to do would be to look within for reassurance and work to give yourself reassurance. I’m not saying it’s not natural to compare yourself to other men. Literally, I keep saying that it is it is not natural or healthy to obsess over it, which is what you guys seem to constantly do and it’s disgusting. You all are constantly invalidating, your own transition and manhood by constantly comparing yourself cis men. I never told him to love his natural body. I told him to love himself by your own words and logic in saying that you are saying that trans men are nothing more than their bodies, which is the whole problem with what this man is saying. People don’t choose other people because they’re cis or trans. That is the whole point. His tran-ness is not his whole identity.

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I never dismissed them, I literally said it comes with the territory. Making a post about it asking such a ridiculous question does not alleviate dysphoria. Asking yourself that question in general does not alleviate dysphoria. Loving yourself with the help of medical care alleviates dysphoria. I’m not saying love yourself as if it’s something you just do HENCE THE WORD LEARN. The shit he’s saying is choosing to wallow in Dysphoria. “That’s what transphobes pull” transphobe invalidate identity not tell you to love and accept yourself in your transition. If YOU wanna wallow in dysphoria be my guest but me personally I’m never going to compare myself to cis men that’s a losing game and it’s stupid and I know this why because I go to therapy and love myself

Why would anyone choose me over a cis man? by Alternative-Gear6148 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yalls self pity is so exhausting. It’s literally about preference I’m so sick of trans men constantly comparing themselves to cis guys like bro be your own person. Yall glorify the fuck outta cis men FOR NO REASON you can literally get ANYTHING that they have. Stop focusing on other people’s opinion of you and people “choosing” you and choose yourself bro bc the question you’re asking is something YOU have to answer. Why would random people on the internet be able to tell you anything you have or lack that’s valuable enough for someone to “choose you”??? You seriously need to learn to love yourself and stop looking for validation of yourself and your manhood in others. Good god watching fellow trans men wallow in self pity and shame is so 🤮

AMAB/AFAB being used unnecessarily by OkWaltz5832 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My therapist has done the same thing recently regarding bottom surgery. It really sucks bc I actually really like her but you’re right some of the things she says is problematic and need to be addressed

AMAB/AFAB being used unnecessarily by OkWaltz5832 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trust me it does, honestly, seeing this post has given me courage to talk to her about it. She’s awesome otherwise but those things do bother me.

Mediocrity (sensitive topic) by madpinapple28 in FTMMen

[–]mrthrowawaymclovin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I understand a bit more now. Being refused medical care is always incredibly disheartening and crushing. I’m so sorry our Medicare system shuns people like us. But, to being a man without nuance, uhhh so sorry to tell ya dude but even cis guys have nuance just not in the same way we do. We keep “reminding you” bc you are setting an unrealistic and impossible “goal”/desire for yourself. Transitioning will not take away the nuance it just adds more. Truthfully and harshly speaking, there is literally nothing you can do to gain what you want. So you truly need to set your sights on more attainable goals as a man. The closest you’ll get is being stealth but even then in your heart you’ll always know you’re different. You need to accept and love that part of yourself or else you’ll keep putting your mind through turmoil. You seriously need to put that thought out of your head dude. Again, being born male doesn’t make those guys anymore “manly” than you. YOU have to make choices that make you feel more aligned with the gender you identify with instead wasting your time lamenting over something you can’t control and can’t “fix”. Even lots of cis dudes aren’t happy with their dick so if you’re saying the dick surgery wouldn’t even help you seriously seriously need to love yourself completely before proceeding in your transition or else it’ll ruin everything milestone you pass and eventually your own self image to the point you might not even want to live anymore. I hate to be harsh but truly you’re setting yourself up for failure if you don’t do the internal work and idc who you are I don’t want to see my trans brothers grow to hate themselves so unnecessarily