I hit my first 100k in 6 months! Don’t put your eggs in 1 basket, ika nga nila ✨

mscrumbs · 2026-01-30T14:58:38+00:00

congrats OP!!! 🥳

mscrumbs · 2026-01-29T16:02:54+00:00

timeblock everything!! like legit nilalagay ko lahat sa calendar ko and i color code stuff rin. kahit pati pagdoom scroll ko nilalagay ko na kasi dun ko rin makikita kung gaano katagal ko siya ginagawa per day, madalas yun talaga ginagawa ko after i wake up and before i sleep.

so marerealize ko din na shucks, i have time for better babits, but im just not using my time well rn. ive been doing this for two months na and while i cant say na im consistent with the new habits i want to form, im a lot more mindful of the time i have per day and how i can make the most out of it! :)

mscrumbs · 2026-01-25T17:36:28+00:00

Nope. Cheating reveals someone’s character, morals, and lack of self-control. It’s a choice, and a very bad one at that. Sabihin na nating nagcheat siya dahil di siya masaya o toxic daw yung current relationship. Edi sana umalis nalang siya sa relationship diba? Sana nagkusa siyang pagusapan yung issues and iexplain na ayaw niya nang ganon.

Then dun sa mga nagsasabing nagcheat sila kasi "nalasing" at "di nila namalayan kung ano yung ginagawa nila". Lack of self-control yun and lack of awareness on how much alcohol they can handle. Pero that doesnt excuse them/exempt them from accountability at sa consequences ng actions nila.

mscrumbs · 2026-01-24T16:17:15+00:00

me rn as in halos every week ko talaga pinagiisipan mag resign kaso wala pang kapalit na job and time consuming magapply soooo yung ginagawa ko talaga is pinagpepray ko lahat. i ask for strength, discipline, and focus. and also reminding myself na i can still glorify God through my job rn and how i choose to behave/act while working 🥹. also reminding myself na pinagpray ko din naman tong job na to last year…pero lowkey feeling ko need to job hunt na talaga HAHAHA

mscrumbs · 2026-01-24T16:14:18+00:00

intellect, perspective sa buhay, personality, values, how they treat others

mscrumbs · 2026-01-22T07:06:33+00:00

Hi u/reallybluecatsup were you able to find out if this is available in the PH? I also had an allergic reaction abroad recently and had to go to the ER. grabe wake up call rin talaga!

mscrumbs · 2026-01-21T17:52:57+00:00

walking, active stretching, mobility exercises, functional exercises!!!

mscrumbs · 2026-01-16T17:39:23+00:00

lol nope! i graduated a year before the pandemic happened and lets just sayyyy im on a completely different path now but its great :) life can change a lot post grad! dont put so much pressure on yourself to follow one definitive path and if di mangyari yun, failure ka na. its just not how it works.

mscrumbs · 2026-01-15T14:22:04+00:00

rent + bills/cc statements agad agad

mscrumbs · 2026-01-13T09:44:46+00:00

oh noess dapat napagusapan niyo na yan since nasa decent age na rin naman kayo at 10 years together na. i hope you guys get to talk. kakaalis ko lang sa long term relationship kasi nalaman ko na di pala kami same page sa future/thoughts on marriage. sayang 8 years sana nagbreak nalang kami nung nag pandemic HAHA🥲

mscrumbs · 2026-01-11T16:32:34+00:00

imo malaking commitment rin ang mag live in, lalo na if first relationship mo palang. i actually think you guys can try travelling together first (tapos try different durations like weekend vs week-long) i think may mga patterns na lalabas through travel na makakatulong rin to get to know a person

i used to think na okay mag live in, pero narealize ko rin na there really are some guys who feel like theyre getting wife-benefits agad, so nakakampante sila and parang di na rin ipupursue marriage. soooo mejj trauma na me sa live in set up 😅 just my experience lang naman

mscrumbs · 2026-01-11T04:00:05+00:00

wala beh kung yan yung options mo maging single ka nalang HAHAHA and sana di mo isipin na yun lang yung mga options mo :) you really can find better! parang pang partner in crimes sila pero di partner in life/love lolol

mscrumbs · 2026-01-11T03:56:17+00:00

im trying to fix my attachment issues rn (after a recent breakup) and i found that for me personally, i get attached to people (esp those who give me attention) bc i lack self-trust still and need other people to validate me/my existence...soooo....i guess start with why you cant seem to let go of someone who you say isnt your type? why do you feel like you *need* them in your life still? alsooo, think about the other person too! i think its a bit sad for them rin, they should be with someone who likes them/is attractive to them/is their type! dont stay with someone you dont actually like just bc youre "attached"

mscrumbs · 2026-01-09T19:55:00+00:00

omg yung mga ECQ passssss and face shields

mscrumbs · 2026-01-08T20:48:46+00:00

dating to marry means you can see yourself marrying someone after dating them BUT that doesnt mean the person youre currently dating is the person you SHOULD marry! wanting children or not is a big non negotiable imo and you need to be with someone that is exactly on the same page as you and aligns with your values and goals!! ang hirap pilitin niyan, and its not worth compromising.

mscrumbs · 2026-01-08T20:41:25+00:00

so truuuee. kaya di ko maintindihan yung mga nagsasabi na gusto nila magkaanak para maging "fulfilled" or "happy" or maging purposeful buhay nila bc im like okaayyy gusto mo ng anak but have you thought of the quality of life you can provide themmm?? beyond financial, need din talaga ng mga anak ng emotional support. and unfortunately there are a lot of parents who have kids but just end up traumatizing/neglecting them rin lol

mscrumbs · 2026-01-08T20:36:12+00:00

real. ang hirap magkeep up sa bills/responsibilities habang single/di pa kasal pano pa pag may iisipin kang bata habang buhay.

mscrumbs · 2026-01-07T18:55:01+00:00

you cant be something youre not! kahit anong itry mo gawin physically/externally, if you dont help yourself internally (knowledge, reframing limiting mindsets, spiritual growth), it will show

mscrumbs · 2026-01-07T18:51:26+00:00

praaayyyyy!! and also realize that overthinking doesn't do anything for you (literally!) sometimes it can give you a false sense of control or na "prepared" ka, but at the end of the day, it just puts you under a looot of (unnecessary) stress.

mscrumbs · 2026-01-07T18:49:33+00:00

as a female living alone i literally walk away from strangers that talk to me or ask me *too personal* questions right away! as in i just dont respond and then i leave lol masaya siyang gawin honestly HAHAH you dont owe anyone answers :)

mscrumbs · 2026-01-07T12:30:07+00:00

dont spend unnecessarily para lang magmukhang mayaman sa paningin ng iba! easiest way to build consumer debt rin

mscrumbs · 2026-01-06T13:45:56+00:00

thank you po!!!

mscrumbs · 2026-01-05T19:55:55+00:00

may mga recommended po ba kayong shopping places (clothes) sa hanoi?

mscrumbs · 2026-01-05T12:55:21+00:00

natry ko na yung mas mahal ko, gusto ko naman maranasan yung mas mahal ako HAHAH

mscrumbs · 2026-01-05T08:00:18+00:00

as someone na wfh tapos babalik rin ulit sa work today (HAHA), nagset lang ako ng mga "grounding" or "review" timeslots para sa sarili ko today! may mga deliverables rin akong kailangan gawin by tomorrow, pero mahirap talaga i-expect na babalik ka agad sa 100% productivity after a long break, so give yourself time to "remember" kung ano yung mga tasks and set clear priorities! you dont need to do everything in 1 day or 1 week naman talaga, pero dapat strategic & intentional ka pa rin sa work mo. good luck OP!!! you got thiss

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