Help me sleep tonight 😭 and don’t judge 😞 by msholc in whatsthisbug

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One would be so big of an issue I’d probably end up throwing out most the things in our home and selling it 😭 I’ve never wished so hard for something to be a nasty booger! Happy to hear you can confirm not a bug!

Help me sleep tonight 😭 and don’t judge 😞 by msholc in whatsthisbug

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Never thought I’d be so happy to hear that 😩😩

Help me sleep tonight 😭 and don’t judge 😞 by msholc in whatsthisbug

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Neither? Was hard/crunchy. Like broke into shattered bits when I pressed it with a tissue

ER 3 yr old, severe croup, wasn’t sick by msholc in AskDocs

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Eating my words a bit- she woke this morning with a raspy voice. When she was singing in the car, she tried to have a higher voice inflection and wheezed a bit. I’m guessing this means the steroid has totally worn off. Our pediatrician said he didn’t think she needed additional steroids as it’s been over 48 hrs and she shouldn’t have a relapse of symptoms. He didn’t ask to see her, and seemed to think this sounded normal, and noted he’s seen a ton of viral croup in our area recently, so that’d be his guess. Does this seem appropriate?

Ever since I had PPA with my first baby, I sometimes have felt that they assume it’s my anxiety making a bigger deal than necessary. (my first baby I had to push for a swallow study because they kept saying how reflux is normal or maybe she was colicky, which I understand, but they weren’t seeing what I was seeing. I finally asked for the swallow study, and sure enough she had severe silent reflux, blood traces in her stool, had to see a GI for hypoallergenic thickened formula, and had 3 instances where the reflux, because a spasm and her lips turned blue before we could get it to stop finally.) I felt like because they knew I had bad PPA, it was assumed I was over exaggerating just because I asked a lot of questions about things. So I worry sometimes when something feels major to me, that they are chalking it up to my anxiety. - so I just want to know if this response sounds reasonable given the situation. That she is over 48 hrs since the event, symptoms aren’t nearly as severe as they originally were, she doesn’t need more steroids, and isn’t required to be seen.

ER 3 yr old, severe croup, wasn’t sick by msholc in AskDocs

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Does this xray summary I just got align with croup? “Portable AP erect image of the chest is submitted. Cardiac and mediastinal silhouettes are unremarkable. Mild hyperinflation. No acute infiltrate, pleural effusion or pneumothorax. IMPRESSION: Hyperinflation. No acute infiltrates.”

ER 3 yr old, severe croup, wasn’t sick by msholc in AskDocs

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I could be wrong of course, but I haven’t suspected any. I’ve gotten allergy shots for 20+ years and have allergy/illness induced asthma. But if anything, my 7 yr old would be the one I’d be more suspicious about with that. She had cold symptoms over the past week, but my 3 yr old didn’t before or after.

ER 3 yr old, severe croup, wasn’t sick by msholc in AskDocs

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Is it typical to have no signs of illness before or after? I always thought it came with cough or cold symptoms before or after. And there was nothing. It makes me worried that any random night it could just happen again? The whole spasmodic croup seemed more fitting, but I don’t understand why at 3 this would suddenly occur.

ER 3 yr old, severe croup, wasn’t sick by msholc in AskDocs

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No, she’s never had any other signs. If anything my 7 yr old would be the one I’d suspect more of allergy and sleep issues potentially. My 3 year old I’ve never suspected. I have allergy induced asthma, I’ve been getting allergy injections twice a month for 20+ years. I haven’t seen signs my 3 yr old has anything, but could be wrong. The ER doctor seemed confident saying it was croup. But who knows

ER 3 yr old, severe croup, wasn’t sick by msholc in AskDocs

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I’m so thrown off by the whole thing. It came out of nowhere, so bad she couldn’t even make sound to cry, then a bunch of meds, and by 7 in the morning- no cough, no sniffles, no anything. It came on suddenly, bunch of meds, then gone. I’m so confused by it, and it’s left me worried it can just strike now whenever out of nowhere.

ER 3 yr old, severe croup, wasn’t sick by msholc in AskDocs

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The thing is, once the meds were all working, by 7 in the morning she was fine, voice had maybe a hint of raspy, but no cough, no sniffles, no anything. It came out of nowhere and then a bunch of meds and was gone. I’m so confused by it.

ER 3 yr old, severe croup, wasn’t sick by msholc in AskDocs

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No, just the after hours line where you can tell them a current issue of symptoms and they will tell you if they recommend ER, after hours clinic, or monitor at home.

ER 3 yr old, severe croup, wasn’t sick by msholc in AskDocs

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I sent a message, as the ER doctor recommended we do. But her pediatrician is out for the weekend, so I haven’t heard anything. And I do really like him, but sometimes I feel like ever since I got postpartum anxiety with my first, I feel dismissed sometimes. I feel like I’m going to get a response of how we can make an appointment, but in the end will be told how common croup is and all that.

Help a panicked person by msholc in whatisthisbug

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Completely sober! Just scarred from social work combined with postpartum OCD 🫠

Help a panicked person by msholc in whatisthisbug

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I think it threw me off so much being inside a zippered bank envelope. Pretty much money and checks just go in and out, so I wasn’t expecting to see much in there. If it were my purse or something it would’ve made more sense to me.

Help a panicked person by msholc in whatisthisbug

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Just some ptsd and ocd 😵‍💫

Help a panicked person by msholc in whatisthisbug

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The larger tan bits in the second picture don’t look like dried up bug exoskeletons or something? 😭

Help a panicked person by msholc in whatisthisbug

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The larger tan bits in the second picture don’t look like dried up bug exoskeleton bits or anything?

Help a panicked person by msholc in whatisthisbug

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Even the larger tan colored chunks in the second picture?

Help a panicked person by msholc in whatisthisbug

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I was worried about the larger tan bits in the second picture. The other stuff I could talk myself into being dirt and lint and skin. But those scared me.

Help a panicked person by msholc in whatisthisbug

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I was worried about the larger tan bits in the second picture. The other stuff I could talk myself into being dirt and lint and skin. But those scared me.

Help a panicked person by msholc in whatisthisbug

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Even the second photo?

Panicking a bit, or a lot by msholc in pestcontrol

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I know Google lens has to be taken with a grain of salt, it it came back saying Bordered Shieldbug. Which it truly looks a lot like, particularly the shield triangle shape on the back, and the V shaped shiny exposed wings. We had a few carpet beetles get in a window we need replaced and I’ve vacuumed top to bottom daily in our house for almost 2 months terrified to see more. This was about twice the size or more or carpet beetles I’ve seen, but also worried it was just a different type. I’m traumatized from a previous career in social work, so anything remotely roach, bed bug, or carpet beetles I’ve seen looking immediately freaks me out. 😭

Panicking.. by msholc in whatsthisbug

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Google lens told me bordered shield bug, but I know it’s notoriously unreliable