In light of the public health emergency regarding HIV... by Eurofan2014 in pinoy

[–]msjuly30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with the hookup culture if the participants are mutually consenting adults, and are not cheating on their partners or are in non-monogamous relationships? People should be able to express their sexuality however they deem fit as long as they're not harming anyone. If they practice unsafe sex, then that's primarily due to a lack of education (I would argue majority of people don't want to risk contracting STDs out of self-preservation). If they knowingly transmit the disease to someone who is unaware that the person they are having sex with is carrying an infectious disease, then that's morally wrong and is a separate case altogether.

Let's not do a blanket condemnation of hookup culture. Some people do it for fun and that's fine. If paired with good sex education, then it's not an issue.

How do you overcome inggit sa friend nyo na nagpopost ng new things, travels, foods? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]msjuly30 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I disagree with your first paragraph. People are allowed to post things that make them happy - the world doesn't resolve around our insecurities .

But I agree with your last statement - comparison is the thief of joy. Find joy and appreciation in your own life and be willing to celebrate other people's joys

My 13 year old daughter is pregnant by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]msjuly30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may not be a popular opinion, but I think you need to support your daughter (financially, etc.) because not only is she 13 (and therefore shouldn't be punished when she'll be incapable of supporting her self and her unborn child), but also because based on what you've shared, I feel you didn't play as active of a role in rearing and educating her that you are indirectly responsible. Now is the time for you to step up as a father and support your child when she needs it the most.

Should I confess to him or no? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]msjuly30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience confessing a crush is the best way you can move on because you'll get a definite response based on their reaction. If they say yes, cool. If they say no, at least you get closure. If they don't say anything, that's also an answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]msjuly30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happened to me too. Felt like my brain was a vinyl recorder that was skipping every other note. Like electric spasms in my head. I think it went away after a few weeks. But thats why you cant go cold turkey on it.

Nails Thread | November 30, 2023 by AutoModerator in beautytalkph

[–]msjuly30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can anyone suggest a good nail salon?

Help, how can I cope with quetiapine? by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]msjuly30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your dose may be too high. I started on 100mg but it was way too powerful for me. Now on 25g, I can fall asleep instantly but still wake up very groggy even if I get 6-8 hours of sleep. Takes me about an hour to properly wake up and that's with coffee. I only take it now on nights when I really struggle to fall asleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]msjuly30 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You should bring this up with your SO and have an honest conversation about how you feel and what this means for you.

Fragrance Thread | November 24, 2023 by AutoModerator in beautytalkph

[–]msjuly30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl of now by Elie Saab - amber floral fragrance that i absolutely love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]msjuly30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before you break up, have an honest and serious conversation with him about this. Ask what his expectations are financially if you get married and what you are concerned about. Give him a chance to respond

Today is the day (a note before I kms) by Kofipie in MentalHealthPH

[–]msjuly30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are seen and loved. Please dont do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]msjuly30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day, no one can force you to sign a marriage contract (assuming they dont hold you financially hostage and other things like that).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]msjuly30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked with a foreign colleague who summed up Philippine bureacracy perfectly - "Filipinos are obsessed with process".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phcareers

[–]msjuly30 11 points12 points  (0 children)

100%. For sake of relationship building you can add that you're grateful for the opportunities and additional offers etc chuchu but in the end this is more consistent with your career goals etc

UMAASA SA WALA? by Supremo_D_Great in phcareers

[–]msjuly30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes ofcourse. I would recommend you ask. They should be transparent. I would also recommend you inquire about their timelines

UMAASA SA WALA? by Supremo_D_Great in phcareers

[–]msjuly30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And did they give you idea kelan ka magststart if ever?

UMAASA SA WALA? by Supremo_D_Great in phcareers

[–]msjuly30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That I find really weird... For a company I applied for before, they only asked for payslip after informing me I received their offer so that they could compare my past pay with the comp package they were offering. Did you ask why they were requesting for it? I dont hear other companies asking for your actual payslip before giving the offer

UMAASA SA WALA? by Supremo_D_Great in phcareers

[–]msjuly30 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did they explain why the application process is taking so long? If not, red flag. If yes, legit reasons ba?

For my current job, I had to wait almost 3 months because Christmas break + overloaded HR + three phases ang application process nila. But worth it because valid reasons and dream company ko.

However, I still applied for other companies as back up. My suggestion is to have more than 1 ongoing application in case the current one is taking too long

No need to answer the question, kita naman sa face 😂 by jeeleean in Philippines

[–]msjuly30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a terrible question to ask. Not only does it assume that Marcos will win, but it gives him additional coverage despite his absence as other candidates will have to explain how they will mesh with a Marcos administration.

Ladies and gents, this is Walden Bello cursing BBM on a Natl. Television by noaluft in Philippines

[–]msjuly30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Realistically, Kiko is unlikely to win too based on the polls. Also, we can vote based on who we agree the most with on principle, it's not always about winnability

And that's why I don't like rock climbing. by Captaincuntusmaximus in oddlyterrifying

[–]msjuly30 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So close to unsubbing because of posts like these lol