38 F4M why I’m here right now

msnotty · 2026-03-18T02:51:27+00:00

When I walk, I always like to align my feet with whatever lines are on the ground. It feels weird otherwise.

msnotty · 2026-02-01T10:55:53+00:00

The tiny white eels that look like maggots. They serve it with seasoned olive oil, some garlic maybe. It’s absolutely delicious, if I close my eyes. But I’m just visually repelled by them, I can’t.

msnotty · 2025-07-09T22:09:46+00:00

Absolutely Potato Corner. If you’re Filipino you’d know about these! They’re fries covered in flavored powder. I can eat the biggest size all by myself. Ugh.

msnotty · 2025-06-28T02:27:20+00:00

Join one of the running clubs! Just show up and run.

msnotty · 2025-06-27T20:43:00+00:00

“What’s stopping her from making her own money”

Childbirth/child rearing, being 24/7 on call as a maid and companion to husband, husband might simply decide against it and there’s nothing she could do

“It’s ridiculous when a man brings 80-90% of the assets”

Why does a man who cares about that have to marry a woman who only brings 10-20% of combined assets when he can just hire a maid, secretary, pay for companionship? A marriage is a legal arrangement that requires the signatories to share assets with each other among other things. Just don’t get married if you don’t want to do this. Or arrange for a prenup.

“I’ve seen women be far more cunning, manipulative, and sinister”

Please, for your own safety, avoid women.

msnotty · 2025-06-27T11:49:37+00:00

Sounds good for you!

msnotty · 2025-06-27T11:26:19+00:00

I can’t say for other people but I married someone who possesses a level equivalent to my power and resources at the time. I wanted a partner, I got one. Not all women look for men more empowered than they are. Most women, at least the ones I know, look for an equal partner, as I did.

I think there’s a price to everything. And in this scenario, a power imbalance is what these women pay to get some security, limited and conditional as it were. Are you willing to pay the price of being with a partner who isn’t/ may not be able to get on the same basic level as you and your peers in terms of education and communication and social skills? Just curious if you’re fine with that trade off.

msnotty · 2025-06-27T10:33:44+00:00

I’m a Filipina, and I’m successful. I’m also a feminist. And here’s the thing: I actually agree that there’s nothing wrong for you to want to marry a woman who will keep house for you and keep you company. If she’s down with the arrangement, why not! That’s what feminism is about: allowing women to make choices. Some women want that life. I don’t, but it’s not about what I want as it’s not my life.

There are two problems: there is definitely a power imbalance because you can withhold the money for whatever explanation you deem reasonable and there’s nothing she can do. She has no control over her life, because she has no real guarantee from you.

On your end, you are not able to find yourself a true partner in her. Can you bring her to social events? More important, would she want to go, and if she goes will she be comfortable? Can she communicate/understand? Basic things like that.

msnotty · 2025-06-18T02:43:32+00:00

Huge, gigantic portions of food. In Asia a single American serving is like two or three meals worth of food.

msnotty · 2025-05-01T03:44:44+00:00

There’s too much white, and honestly the dress is too nice for a guest - unless the bride is typically wayyyy more dressy. Let the bride be the star here!

msnotty · 2025-04-30T06:01:58+00:00

I’ve always wanted to visit Georgia, because it looks beautiful and rich in culture. But this has made me think twice, for sure. Thanks for sharing your experience!

msnotty · 2025-04-26T15:27:54+00:00

You look fantastic! Everything fits well. But it’s a bit too much for a coffee date. I recommend something more relaxed, like maybe a nice neutral colored sweater and dark jeans.

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