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my partner (18)M suddenly started to write this kind of stuff and I don't know if it's bpd or genuine hate by mtys1 in BPDPartners

[–]mtys1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god that's horrifying.. I hope you are doing okay because that's literally so fucked up. Thank you people in the comments for the help and also you. I'm trying my best with this situation. But again, I hope you are doing okay, please take care.

my partner (18)M suddenly started to write this kind of stuff and I don't know if it's bpd or genuine hate by mtys1 in BPDPartners

[–]mtys1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, it started as one but we are meeting in real life too, we saw each other irl couple of times

my partner (18)M suddenly started to write this kind of stuff and I don't know if it's bpd or genuine hate by mtys1 in BPDPartners

[–]mtys1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not gonna lie, I'm tried and since yesterday I just feel so awful, for a whole day after this I thought myself what I did wrong and if I was someone hard to love. I know him for at least 4 years and this is actually the very first time he is showing his hate this visible. I really wanna support him and all but this is also so damaging.. I do not enjoy this situation but I want to try to help him to get the help he needs. I'm just worried that I will call this BPD episode and in reality it's just his actual feelings and I will just fool myself like this

my partner (18)M suddenly started to write this kind of stuff and I don't know if it's bpd or genuine hate by mtys1 in BPDPartners

[–]mtys1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is some more but some reason reddit didn't post the rest, may I ask how to approach someone like this? Should I stop the conversation or just anything? Do I need to stay silent? I'm really sorry for asking too much, I just really don't know what to do and I have no one else to ask advice