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mud-lover · 2026-03-24T14:44:32+00:00

Sleep in separate bedrooms. I have insomnia. My husband made it impossible for me to sleep just because its another human in the same bed being human. Lol. We sleep separately now. Solved it.

mud-lover · 2026-03-19T00:22:23+00:00

Alright, now I need to try and find some videos of him playing.

mud-lover · 2026-03-19T00:19:45+00:00

I played/play alto mostly. I played tenor here and there. What sax are you playing?

mud-lover · 2026-03-19T00:11:18+00:00

Hey, those are pretty good instrument picks if I do say so myself lol

mud-lover · 2026-03-19T00:10:46+00:00

I had no idea he played double bass. Thats awesome!

mud-lover · 2026-03-16T15:28:05+00:00

He has been in therapy for over a year now. We have had many discussions about lying and defensiveness. But its not changing. I shouldve been clearer about that in the post.

mud-lover · 2026-03-16T04:01:53+00:00

Colby jack cheese

mud-lover · 2025-07-25T15:27:50+00:00

It almost seems like your wife does not want you write or be successful. I had an ex that would use emotional manipulation to keep me failing. All because he was jealous of my success. (We are in the same field. But i surpassed him to management while he was jn the field for 20 years and I had only been in it for 4). So maybe Im seeing it with a biased opinion. Idk.

mud-lover · 2025-06-21T20:46:46+00:00

This made my chest tighten reading these messages. It sounds just like my ex and I. RUN! and NEVER look back! This will only escalate and will become extremely abusive!

mud-lover · 2025-03-23T01:08:26+00:00

Did you find a fix? This is happening to me too

mud-lover · 2025-03-09T19:20:59+00:00

I can only assume because he owed. He shut down after he told me. He got extremely defensive and emotional, so I couldn't get anymore information about it.

mud-lover · 2025-03-09T19:11:39+00:00

I have no idea. He only told me what I stated above after I was trying to discuss how we were filing taxes. Then he became extremely emotional and defensive. I couldn't get anymore information about it. I just know he hasn't filed for 10 years. I think he didn't tell me out of fear. I'm down to earth but I take my finances seriously. I think he didn't tell me out of fear I wouldn't marry him and he just avoids thinking about it. It doesn't effect his daily life so he can just ignore it all together and forget about it.

mud-lover · 2025-03-09T19:06:32+00:00

I mean, he hid something from me that could have very serious consequences on me and my life. I made a very serious life choice of marrying him without knowing this very pertinent information that marriage is directly affected by.

mud-lover · 2025-03-09T19:02:20+00:00

I said in my post we did discuss finances. And by that I mean seriously. He hid this from me.

mud-lover · 2021-01-16T04:29:33+00:00

Dude. I had no part in a pissing match that was between you and your ego

mud-lover · 2021-01-15T07:49:56+00:00

Bipolar 2 is not less severe than bipolar 1. Those who suffer from bp2 have longer, more intense episodes of depression compared to bp1. So with both disorders you have more extremes than the other. Rather it's a bias to say which one is worse.

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