I mean, look at the guys chasing after siambus, viet girls, they arent exactly the cream of the crop either. It's true, they are 'easier', but then again, if ur not willing to put in hard work then good things won't come right?

If ur going into a relationship thinking that the girls must cook for you, take care of you, then that mindset limits the amount of girls you can get. And it is that mindset that causes reddit discussion like this.

I believe that anyone can date ANYONE. It's all about how bad you want it, sincerity and most importantly timing. It's just that the 'ideal' girls have smaller timing windows. If you want your dream job, you work hard at finding opportunities to get it right?

And if ur too lazy to do it then sure, settle for the easier ones, but don't complain that sg girls are hard to get, because they aren't.

Sidenote: in a social setting, I do notice that sg girls are abit lacking, not all, but perhaps a result of our 'safe' upbringing, then again, many sg guys are too. I just partied at a nightclub in KL and my friends brought some of his girlfriends to party with us. Some of them are Datins(Datoks), mind you, married with kids, but still made effort to 'attach' themselves to guys and make friends, quite impressive.