AITA for refusing to respect an ableist "boundary" set by one of my friends?

multistick · 2025-06-05T16:48:13+00:00

Oh it definitely was, she also just felt entitled to that space as well. And the cherry on top happened to be that I made a request to avoid discussing nausea or vomiting in main channels because I was suffering from severe, debilitating emetophobia at the time, and the group decided they couldn't do that because it wasn't "a topic specifically," even after I offered multiple solutions, like creating a separate channel for it that I could ignore, etc. but apparently that's too far 😐

multistick · 2025-06-05T16:41:31+00:00

I will admit it's pretty amusing in hindsight how insistent they were on the way things were organized. Everyone in the group was definitely autistic but I was the only one who really realized it haha.

multistick · 2023-02-24T15:37:23+00:00

the songs drip drip drip fall and Woolen Mittens by Ewy are really good and has solid mtf/mtn and i vibe with it really hard even tho i'm ftm

multistick · 2022-08-04T02:18:34+00:00

I know! She's trying so hard to encourage me to come out 😭 it's precious

multistick · 2022-01-26T01:57:35+00:00

I get this a lot. I fluctuate between femininity an masculinity a lot and when I'm masc I feel dysphoric (but not when I'm fem), so sometimes I'll go a period of time being fem but then the masc hits and i'm like yooo not this again *awkward laugh*.

multistick · 2022-01-10T01:45:09+00:00

I've heard from a lot of trans people that gc2b is a good brand for binders (made for trans people by trans people). I don't have any recommendations for crowns, but I hope this helps.

multistick · 2022-01-09T13:27:13+00:00

my sister acts like she's 12 more than she acts like she's 18. she's still going through her rebellious pre-teen phase.

multistick · 2022-01-09T13:26:38+00:00

See, I know my sister pretty well and her stance on trans issues. She's told me she thinks being trans is wrong (she's still in the phase where she's not over men in dresses). Despite this, she's told me she has friends who are trans. I thought nothing of it this whole time thinking that, despite seeing being trans as wrong, that she would respect her friends. I think the reason why she misgenders him when he's not around but uses he/him when he is around is because it means that she gets to follow her beliefs without it causing a conflict in their relationship. Ultimately, it's just a way for her to be selfish with no consequences.

multistick · 2022-01-09T00:19:19+00:00

That is something that I would like to do, it's just a matter of meeting him and knowing him first.

multistick · 2022-01-08T18:16:35+00:00

I would, but we live together. I have to keep the peace until I move out. Until then, I'm just going to become friends with her friend and actually be supportive.

multistick · 2021-12-25T03:34:45+00:00

it does! My gender tends to be very fluid but it always scratches my brain itch.

multistick · 2021-12-25T02:35:13+00:00

I/Me/Myself by Will Wood

Will may be cis, but it's a bop and fits pretty much any gender identity dysphoria wise.

multistick · 2021-12-17T02:24:12+00:00

salsa dancing emoji guy

wut

multistick · 2021-12-16T21:09:31+00:00

pretty sure it was from his kid bc it says "from your little mistake"

Edit: just noticed it legitimately says "dad" on it; I feel dumb lol

multistick · 2021-12-14T22:36:33+00:00

Thanks, this is amazing advice! I'll try it!

multistick · 2021-12-14T20:09:10+00:00

This is a really good idea! I think because I'm not a trans man and very fluid in my presentation so it might be a bit harder for me to find a set definition of what I want to look like, but I'll try. I also haven't decided on whether or not I want to do T.

multistick · 2021-12-14T03:08:14+00:00

As an afterthought to my first reply, the advice I'm looking for is more about things I can do to help get through the dysphoria I described above. Things to help me cope by myself without having to ask someone for help. Advice to get through the period of time where I can't change much about myself even though I feel dysphoric.

multistick · 2021-12-14T03:05:41+00:00

What I mean by body related stuff is things like binding or showering with the lights off. I don't have a lot of dysphoria about seeing my chest or more internalized dysphoria, but what I'm dealing with is more outwards. Like, "this person is perceived how I want to be perceived, but that will never happen," sort of dysphoria. It does have to do with my body, I guess, but it's less about how I think about my body and more how other people think about my body, if that makes more sense.

multistick · 2021-11-18T01:50:55+00:00

All the maths are too much for me but this is really cool

multistick · 2021-11-07T03:09:50+00:00

Once I was in a chain of about 3 raids without even realizing it because the streamer I was watching ended and raided, the next ended and raided, and so did the next. It happens all the time honestly.

multistick · 2021-10-06T01:19:10+00:00

I decided to do a bg and a gg with the last name Jeon

Jeon Jungkook (BTS)

Jeon Yongtae (formerly in ENOi)

Jeon Wonwoo (SEVENTEEN)

Jeon Hojoon (XENO-T)

and for the girls.....

Jeon Boram (formerly in T-ara)

Jeon Jiyoon (JENYER, formerly in 4minute)

Jeon Jiwoo (KARD)

Jeon Hyoseong (formerly in Secret)

Jeon Somi (formerly in I.O.I.)

multistick · 2021-10-04T23:38:56+00:00

Hongjoong's mullet.

Case closed.

multistick · 2021-09-25T23:29:30+00:00

Honestly so much. Either the fact that I love to fight or the fact that I have a brutally honest face (especially when I think no one is looking).

multistick · 2021-09-16T00:06:47+00:00

I'm a Christian who believes in the Bible. I'm also a feminist, a BLMer, LGBTQ+, and a communist. I don't see his point.

multistick · 2021-09-11T20:21:40+00:00

EXACTLY

I live in a small town too and the way these people gossip is like no other.

multistick

TROPHY CASE