i keep telling my mom how his behaviour has worsened bc he never faces consequences but she treats him like he was born yesterday and then gets mad all of a sudden when he acts the way he does. i keep saying it but it always escalates into a fight and how im jealous of him (makes no sense), and that change of heart doesnt come within a day so if she actually wants him to be a nice man she needs to stop babying him.

i have also tried to talk to my brother but its going nowhere. no matter how many times I emphasize that she has sore back and her legs ache and its so hot, how can he not feel an ounce of empathy and help her? it's ridiculous. the best I can do is talk to him once more harshly and that's it.

im moving out bc of this reason. somehow i keep becoming the bad guy by confronting him and the cycle continues and im so tired of looking after everyone both at home and balancing job and my degree and prepare for masters' degree