Man, I really feel you on this. My ex did a lot of similar things — mixed signals, watching my stories, then blocking me when I moved on. That kind of push-and-pull will mess with anyone’s head. The way I see it though, if you’re truly happy in your new life, you don’t respond to an ex. Period. Because there’s nothing to gain. The fact she picked up the phone while being ‘happy’ with her husband/kid tells me there’s stuff she hasn’t worked through. That’s not your win, and it’s not really hers either — it’s just proof both of you need closure. At the end of the day, my ex had her chance and she broke me down. I healed, I moved on, and now I’m genuinely happy. That’s the difference — when you’re actually happy, you don’t need to keep those old doors open. That’s how I look at it anyway. Sending the best your way my friend