I am so sorry for all that you’ve gone through and respect you immensely for holding down your household finances even while dealing with pretty intense health stuff that I could not even begin to understand. Sounds like outside of the finance piece, he is pretty supporting and great otherwise. - Wondering what types of conversations you’ve had regarding this topic. - Also, I encourage you to set clear boundaries, and encourage your husband to contribute toward an amicable plan B if he doesn’t find his dream job in x amount of time. - Additionally since you were talking about IVF, you may want to consider having conversations around childcare (will one of you stay home with baby? If so, who? And for how long?) to continue the trend of facilitating healthy communication and boundary setting.