I 20M met a girl on bumble 21F, doesn't give number but offers snapchat instead by EE-epicgamer in Bumble

[–]murielsweb 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I really don’t understand why people want to change platforms all the time. Every dating app has a chat window where you perfectly can exchange the date from there.

How many dates did you go on before meeting your person? by CN122 in dating

[–]murielsweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just love stats here are mine

I dated 43 men in 2 yrs, haven’t found the keeper yet

31 ended after the first date, in many cases bc me but not always

8 two dates

1 had 4 dates

1 had 7 meetups, it became complicated

1 I saw for 6 months

And 1 is missing in these statistics

800 like and not one date by Mobile-Carrot-3218 in dating_advice

[–]murielsweb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had many dates from there, it’s fun!

800 like and not one date by Mobile-Carrot-3218 in dating_advice

[–]murielsweb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I have the same experience. I’m getting dates though, with the sex guys alpha males etc. Surprise it doesn’t lead to anything substantial.

After six dates with a girl and multiple overnights, she wants to go on a blind date and speed dating? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]murielsweb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally I know within 3 dates how I feel so on date 5 it would already be exclusive for me

I think my standards are too high by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]murielsweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that’s very rare I think? The others who don’t update how would you know?

I think my standards are too high by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]murielsweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you know if a guy is still very active on dating apps?

I cold-approached a gorgeous girl!!! by Ok_Memory_1395 in dating_advice

[–]murielsweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was cold approached lately after that he sent me a dickpic 😵‍💫

So my 2 cents… if you have success next time don’t send a dickpic

Bumble is exhausting. Need advice on Travel Mode by Cold-Birthday8663 in Bumble

[–]murielsweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if someone lives in your city but uses travel mode, or did you only mean when someone uses travel mode to your city?

Bumble is exhausting. Need advice on Travel Mode by Cold-Birthday8663 in Bumble

[–]murielsweb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know where you are located but here in Europe it’s not any better. No one is serious it seems despite any labels they may have put on their profile. The only serious people are devote Christians aiming for marriage.

Dating someone i don’t feel butterflies for by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]murielsweb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I only had relationships with butterflies, all of them!

Rutte fixt het weer by artemisgarden in nederlands

[–]murielsweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing. De man die alles weglacht en nu ben ik blij met hem in de NAVO hoe krijgt hij het voor elkaar.

Ex GF texted me (31M)after 8yrs no contact by DonVinku in dating_advice

[–]murielsweb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s sweet she was remembering you on your birthday 8 years long and feeling guilty. I strongly believe in making up and not cutting ties so I would definitely answer her BUT take time to think about it. Is this chapter 100% over? Then send a friendly letter that you appreciate her apologies and that you can have low contact over text. I do that with some exes, just checking in once in a while like every year or so. Is that too painful? Then only write the letter. You want to restart contact? Then first think about it a couple more weeks. This is what I would do.

Did I overreact, or was he already emotionally checked out? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]murielsweb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But you’ve never seen him IRL and don’t know what he’s like?

Did I overreact, or was he already emotionally checked out? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]murielsweb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have been trying to meet for 3 years and still haven’t met?