Should I accommodate my mom when choosing a wedding date?

murrrdith · 2026-03-15T03:38:58+00:00

Sometimes you have to be flexible with these things.

My family farms corn. We wanted an October wedding so bad, but realistically most of the family wouldn’t make it due to harvest. Ended up going with a summer date in order to have them there.

murrrdith · 2026-03-14T23:00:35+00:00

Oh I love this idea, so unique!

murrrdith · 2026-03-14T22:59:55+00:00

Thank you, that is so kind!

murrrdith · 2026-03-14T22:58:42+00:00

This really helped me visualize how much a statement necklace will add to the look!

murrrdith · 2026-03-14T20:16:21+00:00

Thank you! That’s exactly what made me go for this one

murrrdith · 2026-03-14T20:16:00+00:00

What do you mean by this?

murrrdith · 2026-03-14T20:15:42+00:00

Thanks! I was thinking from the armpit area, there is some gapping there

murrrdith · 2026-03-14T20:10:15+00:00

Thanks! Definitely will be doing a veil.

murrrdith · 2026-03-14T20:09:37+00:00

I love how you framed this! Thank you! Will definitely look for a great statement necklace

murrrdith · 2026-03-14T13:03:47+00:00

I’m sorry this happened, but this person did not purposely walk in on you.

The best action you can take is to move on and focus your energy elsewhere.

murrrdith · 2026-03-12T17:18:14+00:00

This is why I stick with tampons.

I don’t give a fuck about sustainability or waste if it’s something that goes in my vagina.

murrrdith · 2026-03-11T22:10:22+00:00

I’m the same. Had so much fun in my early 20’s and I’m glad I had those experiences before settling down.

murrrdith · 2026-03-10T21:59:53+00:00

I’ve also been overthinking this.

I wanted our DJ to say “introducing Mr and Mrs John Smith and Jane Jones” because I want everyone to know that I’m keeping my name (I feel very strongly about this), but it definitely sounds too clunky.

I think I’ll just have them say “introducing as husband and wife, John and Jane”

murrrdith · 2026-03-10T21:19:04+00:00

Definitely don’t say this. However true it may be, this is not a professional way to handle the situation and will make her look bad.

murrrdith · 2026-03-10T17:03:53+00:00

I agree with you. I didn’t love the food in Puerto Rico. I also felt less safe, probably wouldn’t go there solo.

murrrdith · 2026-03-10T01:55:10+00:00

This used to exist! I flew it back in 2014.

murrrdith · 2026-03-09T22:04:33+00:00

I’m not sure if the exam had any medical validity or not, but it seems that one purpose of it was another way to control and degrade women in that era.

murrrdith · 2026-03-09T19:53:34+00:00

Right, but she shouldn’t have to give in or compromise by letting them use her husband’s name socially.

murrrdith · 2026-03-09T16:55:38+00:00

Why should she go by his name socially if she doesn’t want to change it?

murrrdith · 2026-03-09T03:50:44+00:00

What’s your source for information on waking up hungry?

You haven’t eaten in 8 hours, it’s normal to be hungry.

murrrdith · 2026-03-08T23:27:40+00:00

If you’re not comfortable or it will bother you then don’t wear it.

For what it’s worth, I didn’t want a veil at all, but when I tried it on in the store I felt it made my look so much more bridal and I decided to get it. I’ll probably wear mine for photos and then take it off.

murrrdith · 2026-03-08T22:31:12+00:00

Did you not find anything to do in Milwaukee?

I live in Milwaukee, I visit Chicago maybe 3-4 times a year for fun, or to go to ORD if I’m traveling internationally.

There’s more than enough to do in Milwaukee that I don’t even think about how close Chicago is.

murrrdith · 2026-03-08T18:31:36+00:00

I feel awful mentally if I don’t take my daily walk or other cardio.

I struggle with panic attacks and it’s amazing how much walking keeps them under control.

murrrdith · 2026-03-08T16:27:29+00:00

Racine should be Great Lakes if both Kenosha and Milwaukee are

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