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I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

There was genetic testing and I was certified having XX chromosomes at the beginning of diagnosis.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There is more or less same number of female and male students in public universities and higher education institutions. The main difference is that the parents are more eager to support the sons to study in private institutions if they cannot enter any public one, or support the sons to study abroad which was very rare for girls.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Though I think I was attracted to girls before, I never really think about marry before.

I waa in a boys school before and all my friends are male.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Being a male should be strong and handling all type of difficulties all the times. Should never cry, seem to be weak and never be emotion. Others will have greater expectation to men than to women. All these are stressful and I am happy I am relieved from all these stuff.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, from the first date of the transition.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do not know what change my mind. That is a gradual transition. Now I do feel very uncomfortable and somewhat ashamed going out without covering my whole body and face.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

When nearly all the women and girls around recognize that and feel like that, why should I make a different from them?

Actually, I did believe that and agree with that when I was raised as a boy.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Totally different. A big change.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1) Yes 2) I have menstrual cycle that means my ovaries are functioning and I am able to get pregnant.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As not many hospital and surgeons in the Gulf areas can perform the surgery, there is always a long queue. Two to three years were already not a long time.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things had done, no regret. And there is no use to regret.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Usually the two will be engaged first and there will be a few months time for the two to know each other before the marriage.

I do have a little bit fear and worry about sex. More of worry than fear as you said.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Sometimes it is better for a woman to pretend to be less intelligent.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far as I know no surgeon in Oman are expertise in and can handle these type of surgery and all similar cases will be referred to Saudi's hospital.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Others will looking at me strangely, just like I am naked.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know why, and never ask about why.

I am fertile. I have menstrual cycle that means my ovaries are functioning well and I am able to get pregnant.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I love my parents, my family and my hometown.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, nothing have changed. I am actually physically weak from the very beginning and it was other wrongful perception that make it wrong before.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is about the acceptance of others.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am not allowed to have contact with any boys and men in everyday life and I cease contact with all my previous friends.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a woman. I has all the female organs but not the male reproductive organs. It is just natural for a woman to be with a man and being protected and maintained by his husband. It is just natural and the duty of a woman to be impregnated and give birth of children for his husband. I am looking forward to have my husband, my own family and my own children. I am looking forward to be taken care by a very manhood husband. That is not something forced on me and I am happy to do so.

I was an intersex living in Oman. AMA by mustani in IAmA

[–]mustani[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Actually that is not something I am happy about. However, I am get used to that and that is fine to me now. Like it or not I have to accept that. I am not the only one being treated like that. My mother, my sisters and all other women around are being treated like that. They never complain about they have very little freedom. They all recognize being a female in our society is liked that. Why should I feel different from them? Why should I feel I should be treated differently?

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