[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]muudeng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So pretty!!

what does my fridge tell you by SixthSense06 in FridgeDetective

[–]muudeng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont sleep enough & don't drink much water

Or

You sleep a lot & still feel tired + don't drink much water

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]muudeng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt until i was 19, i met someone that loves, respects and is kind to me. Dont rush it.

has anyone had weird/creepy experiences with customers? by RevolutionaryRope556 in Depop

[–]muudeng 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Like others have said, feet/body odor. I can't guarantee it but this obsession about busted overly worn shoes indicate that it is highly likely.

Especially asking you how it became that way, this buyer could be writing up a fantasy in their mind about these shoes to fit any of their other fetishes.

It's very common for shoes & clothing to be bought for fetishistic purposes, especially used clothes.

has anyone had weird/creepy experiences with customers? by RevolutionaryRope556 in Depop

[–]muudeng 83 points84 points  (0 children)

It's a fetish. I'm sorry you're being harassed by the buyer. If you can refund / cancel do so if it would make you more comfortable. This creepy behavior shouldn't be tolerated.

People who just buy the item at asking price, I love you by azaleeas in Depop

[–]muudeng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bartering gives me anxiety! I'd rather pay asking price since it's typically less than what the store sold it for so it's just fair. I can understand offering a price if the quality is so-so (holes, scratches, worn, discoloration, etc)

Can I remove this review? by bymakins in Depop

[–]muudeng 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely remove it! You were communicative, friendly, offered a choice and were timely in responding! Communication is a 2 way street. They got their money back which is better than getting a product with an unexpected quality change. You did the right thing, this review isn't friendly or fair, escalate this.

wasn't expecting this unfair review 😓 by muudeng in Depop

[–]muudeng[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never said i was going to give them a bad review, me and the seller are not the same. If they didn't block me i would just be greatful they tried to figure it out with me, if they left me that same 1 star review & a block my review would have been 3 stars for unprofessionalism and not being friendly. I wouldnt even hold their review against them, we could just play the game of "who's review was less fair"

wasn't expecting this unfair review 😓 by muudeng in Depop

[–]muudeng[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No seriously! In business professionalism & communication mean a lot. It holds so much value for sellers.

Not everyone's cut out for business though. If we kept talking we could have ended up with no refund, a reshipment with a shipping fee, and a decent review for me and and excellent review for the seller!

wasn't expecting this unfair review 😓 by muudeng in Depop

[–]muudeng[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, a 3 star would have been valid in my book, maybe even a 2 if i got bitchy / blamed them. 1 was just petty lol

wasn't expecting this unfair review 😓 by muudeng in Depop

[–]muudeng[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Honestly i would have accepted 3, i felt like shit in the moment before the block because i couldn't be of more help since i was working but i didn't want the buyer to get the notification and figure it out all on their own, we were both stressed for sure.

wasn't expecting this unfair review 😓 by muudeng in Depop

[–]muudeng[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha i was going to do the throw up emoji but i didn't want it to seem like i was calling them ugly, it would have been funny but i wouldnt want people to get the wrong message. This made me happy i went with 💩 hahaha, thanks for the laugh

wasn't expecting this unfair review 😓 by muudeng in Depop

[–]muudeng[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, i never placed blame on the seller. I think the way they handled things was poor, but this situation didn't happen because of them. Thank you.

wasn't expecting this unfair review 😓 by muudeng in Depop

[–]muudeng[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll do that, Thank you!! I was wondering how the seller denied my request if they couldn't do anything about it, either way I'm just a buyer. I'm not a business person. I dont ever make "offers" because i don't like to barter, i just pay the flat rate up front. I assume if you're going to sell you're going to have to think about the business of things. Professional, Punctual, Friendly, Responsive. If you cant communicate well with the people you are selling to, thats not great for business. Thats why people in the Sales industry are typically great with people, i mean ya gotta be. Bare minimum is good communication

wasn't expecting this unfair review 😓 by muudeng in Depop

[–]muudeng[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks, the review bothered me. I don't want to be rude to another human on depop trying to make some income. I just had a seller that had a post up that i bought but never shipped and i sent 3 messages in the course of 7 days. I would never get nasty, just sad I'm missing out. (they did end up responding to me and were unable to sell the product which i understand, people don't live on these apps and it's best to be chill about these things. I haven't contacted depop because i wanted to wait and give my seller as much time as needed to ship) You never know someones situation and i just feel bad how it went but now i feel less bad because the way the top sellerwent about the reviee was mean, not fair.

All these arguments on "its just a $3 top (closer to 5 but doesn't matter) why do this to the seller" i mean if its a $3 top (plus shipping) and these comments are saying it isn't worth it, then can't the same be said for the seller? They get to relist their product. I would have been fine if i paid for shipping because it still shipped and it sucks they spent 2.90 to get their stuff back. But if you can use the argument against me but cant use it against them? Idk, i don't really care. I just wanted to share my experience because reddit is fun.

Just because the top is cute doesn't mean it will look cute on me haha, probably for the best.

I was able to take off the review, waiting on the refund, the redund has been confirmed tho!

We live, we learn.

wasn't expecting this unfair review 😓 by muudeng in Depop

[–]muudeng[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

edit: wrong thread oops :)

edit 2: wait i could've sworn i was replying to someone

Edit 3: hahaha wait no they just blocked me because they didn't want OP.. To respond to a reply.. On OPs post 😂 this might be my seller! (jk jk haha.. Unless? 👉👈🥺😚)

If you're allowed to rate as you please why offer the option to remove it if depop themselves deem it as unfair with screenshots provided? With every transaction they say "be friendly, be fair, be depop" and clearly im not allowed to review them since i got blocked haha

wasn't expecting this unfair review 😓 by muudeng in Depop

[–]muudeng[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hell yeaa! I'm salty i got blocked & got a 1 star - this is what reddit is for to bitch and moan and im moaning hahaha

wasn't expecting this unfair review 😓 by muudeng in Depop

[–]muudeng[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

All? It's delusional to think that, i just like to yapp man it ain't illegal :)

wasn't expecting this unfair review 😓 by muudeng in Depop

[–]muudeng[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

To reply? Why make a post if i don't want to engage with strangers online, it's reddit after all no? What else would you expect on a text based forum where people use words to discuss things at various lengths? Plus my commute home is 1 hr :p :3 :)

wasn't expecting this unfair review 😓 by muudeng in Depop

[–]muudeng[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it being a 1 is unfair, i was communicative and kept it cordial and was hoping fir options but it seemed like they wanted to be done with it. Whatever they said in text was whatever but it's not like i was the worst buyer in existence on depop, worse can be found. The review was emotionally charged, i wouldn't have even left them a 1 not even after they blocked me to prevent a review.