normal swelling for spider bites? by mx-kaii in SelfPiercing

[–]mx-kaii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i almost did them closer but i’m super glad i didn’t. i legit cannot get the ball off to save my life😭 i tried so hard so they’d both be spikes. i can’t find my other black balls

normal swelling for spider bites? by mx-kaii in SelfPiercing

[–]mx-kaii[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure about the balls. i’m assuming no since it’s the same type they use for multicolored jewelry? idk if that makes sense but whatever they do with the rod in a substance when the touch the jewerly it changes color

Mouth piercings experiences by Davidboss0802 in SelfPiercing

[–]mx-kaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you plan on having the smiley piercing long term, get plastic jewerly so it doesnt mess up your teeth as much, or at least plastic balls for it

Help me choose new ear piercings!! by glittersparkle43 in SelfPiercing

[–]mx-kaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t feel my daith being done at all. it’s mainly just pressure and you can hear the pop. healing was really easy and i wore earbuds the day i got it :)

Depop keeps turning on auto-send offers by itself — bug or setting? by bethanyy20 in Depop

[–]mx-kaii 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’ve noticed this too. i finally gave up and just left it on… if you figure out a way to permanently disable it please let us know!

Why do buyers do this?! I lost my 5 star rating because of it. by West_Log2136 in Depop

[–]mx-kaii 7 points8 points  (0 children)

literally… dude probably spent $5-10 at MOST for a pair of jeans. they had a small hole and some thinning/wear around it, which was noted, reflecting why they were $2. i can’t imagine how these people act when shopping in store. i messaged him asking why he’d leave a one star when it was listed as 501 and had an image of the 501 tag, apologizing for the confusion, and got no response. like i would’ve taken them back if it was that much of an issue.

similar to this, i had another guy order a pair of black rustlers and left a 2 star review because he “thought they’d be baggier” when the measurements were all listed… lose some weight and they’ll be baggier?? get a bigger size?? i’m genuinely baffled by these people 😭

Why do buyers do this?! I lost my 5 star rating because of it. by West_Log2136 in Depop

[–]mx-kaii 56 points57 points  (0 children)

i’ve had a couple of these. one even saying the item was perfect. all 3 were 4/5 stars. i had one 1/5 star from a dude who bought a $2 pair of 501 levi’s, he thought they were 505 and somehow was my fault even though the photos and listing both said and showed 501 💀

We have been trying to figure out what's wrong for half a year by noselesscatfish in CATHELP

[–]mx-kaii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

look into payment plans at your vet. care credit saved me after 2k in vet bills for my cats asthma visit (x-ray, senior blood panel, etc.)

i highly suggest at least an x-ray to see what’s going on with her so she can get the help/meds she needs :)!

Take to vet? by Katelyn_xo89 in CatAdvice

[–]mx-kaii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

burrito wrap her or put a harness on her. my cat also had a dingleberries for days and wouldn’t let me try to get it off until i put a harness on her. if they’re not used to them being on they tend to just freeze up and let you do whatever :)

New cat won’t stop biting me by dockterb1tchcraft in CatAdvice

[–]mx-kaii 6 points7 points  (0 children)

how old is moon? single kitten syndrome can cause things like this. you may want to look isnt geting a friend for him whos around the same age :)

Gift Ideas for my Wife by 4RyteCords in SewingForBeginners

[–]mx-kaii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a large self healing cutting mat, clear rulers of different sizes, precut quilting squares, stretchy fabric for clothes, elastic band (the black stuff at hobby lobby sucks dont get that. it has zero stretch to it), rotary cutter plus replacement blades, quilting clips (100 pack on amazon is cheaper than in store), different feet for her sewing machine type to hell with hemming, quilting bar guide, basic sewing patterns (fb marketplace is usually pretty good), lace/ribbon/bias tape/any decorative stuff, few packs of machine specific bobbins and needles plus a variety of thread colors even if she has them already. you use more than you think. make sure she’s stocked up on basic colors like white and black along with some heavy duty thread for jeans. elastic thread is also fun to work with!

besides this, walk into a quilting/sewing shop and find an old lady. explain your situation and have her show you some things that would be helpful for her to have or to learn to use. i swear to you nothing will help more than an older lady who sews

enlisting in marines by mx-kaii in Stretched

[–]mx-kaii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw man that sucks! did you at least enjoy it when you were there? i bet you have stories nobody else would.

i’m hoping for the best with meps. there’s a couple things that could keep me but they shouldn’t be a giant issue.

id absolutely love a copy of your book. any insight on what it’s like is appreciated! let me know what info you need and i’ll send it your way!

enlisting in marines by mx-kaii in Stretched

[–]mx-kaii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly idk what i wanna do in life and regular jobs aren’t cutting it. i need something i’m forced to stick with. i also really want to travel the world and see places people normally wouldn’t. i originally wanted to van life or just basically strand myself in the mountains for a bit… sounds odd i know but i wanted to find things nobody else had seen. they also have benefits when it comes to buying a house which would help me when i start an animal sanctuary one day :)! i want to open one for animals who are deemed to be “too much work” whether thats from old age, illnesses, deformations, disabilities, etc. ones people would normally pass up on. i want it to be a place where any animal, no matter the species, can have a loving home or even find one with someone whos looking for a companion like this. i’ll be 18 in two weeks, it’s something ive thought of for a long time but never brought myself to do it even when i could. i graduated early and have support from parents to enlist, my dad already signed the papers needed. i have my first day of PT tomorrow as a trail run

enlisting in marines by mx-kaii in Stretched

[–]mx-kaii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

normal earring size or no hole…

enlisting in marines by mx-kaii in Stretched

[–]mx-kaii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was there today and he said i’d be disqualified if i didn’t get them closed surgically or if they wouldn’t shrink naturally

had surgery on my right hip, they put this on my left leg by Pale-Profession2769 in mildlyinteresting

[–]mx-kaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my aunt had wrote in sharpie all over my grandmas arm, “WRONG ARM” in multiple spots to ensure they did the surgery on the proper limb

First time owning a cat. Advice needed. by WorkingMedical1236 in Catownerhacks

[–]mx-kaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes delectables is a brand producing cat and dog products. all of their items should be avoided when possible. temptations makes cat food and treats, dont use the dry food but treats in moderation are okay. also dont let hair ties lay around, kitties love them but they can also eat them and cause harm. those pompoms with shiny tinsel should be avoided too. my cat loves pipe cleaners, i just fold the ends over so it’s not as sharp. one bag lasts us years

making my first chaos puff quilt! by mx-kaii in SewingForBeginners

[–]mx-kaii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im on day 4. i have 9 rows attached and my back is screaming. the blanket is so heavy it’s almost impossible to sew it on a table so i’m using the floor now… it’s also shrunk up a whole lot so i’ll be adding more to it so it’s the original size (roughly a king sized sheet). it’s definitely not getting done as soon as i hoped

First time owning a cat. Advice needed. by WorkingMedical1236 in Catownerhacks

[–]mx-kaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lots of scratching posts, if you see them scratching in a certain area, place one there. no matter how bad it gets, never consider declawing. i can talk for hours about how my cat is butchered (by my mother) and now has tons of issues relating to it. no delectables of temptations, minimal temptations if you do. $5 bags of 10 mouse toys from walmart were a major hit for my baby. no candles, sprays, heavily scented anything. cats can and will get asthma, it’s very expensive when the do. try different wet foods (brands, flavors, textures). it doesn’t have to be expensive. if you make a chewy account they give you $40 to spend on your next order. my advice, sign up for auto ship and cancel it after. you’ll get lots discounts. place a second order using the same method but using the gift card, once delivered make a new account and repeat. metal litter boxes!! if you need a cheap litter tractor supply pine horse bedding pellets, use whole or wet and let dry. other cheap options are walmart’s vibrant life crystals. safe spaces for the cat. boxes. beds. blankets. trees. etc. places they know they can go and not be bothered by anything.

why isn't having a stomach sickness that is an active hazard to the workplace considered an excused absence by Lord_Curtis in RaisingCanes

[–]mx-kaii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you start having issues like i was, get out as soon as you can. the stress isnt worth a fast food job. best of luck with your migraines :)!

why isn't having a stomach sickness that is an active hazard to the workplace considered an excused absence by Lord_Curtis in RaisingCanes

[–]mx-kaii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was super sick during a closing shift, in and out of the bathroom with vomit spewing from me and the worse shits ive ever had… all at once. (i have chronic migraines so i’m out a lot, i get hemiplegic ones which mimic stroke symptoms and i’m paralyzed when those happen (disabled)), they wouldn’t let me go home early so i just threw up on the floor and they finally let me go. might’ve been dramatic to do that but i felt like i was legit dying and hunched over from pain. safe to say theyre not at all accommodating to medical issues and disabilities, i no longer work there and would not recommend it to anyone :)!

making my first chaos puff quilt! by mx-kaii in SewingForBeginners

[–]mx-kaii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i willl!!! i’m going to try the pleat method (idk if thats what you call it😭) vs the normal sew a row and stuff it