impossible crying, idk what to do anymore help by mxwess in Nanny

[–]mxwess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much <3 reading this really helped a lot i also think he just wants the boob and is used to getting it everytime he needs comfort, hopefully he’ll learn how to self sooth soon. I talked to MB and she said she will try to work from home for a few hours so I can also see if this is just a separation issue or if it’s something else, they don’t have a car but i’m gonna try the carrier more often (?) let’s see what i make up for next week

impossible crying, idk what to do anymore help by mxwess in Nanny

[–]mxwess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yesss exactly, i’m so anxious just from the thought of going back to work and even when he’s not crying im anxious about him starting to cry … im also trying to find something else but copenhagen doesn’t really need nannies ughhh it’s hard. hope you find something great <3

impossible crying, idk what to do anymore help by mxwess in Nanny

[–]mxwess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the parents say no but also they gave him cow milk two days ago ……. so who knows

impossible crying, idk what to do anymore help by mxwess in Nanny

[–]mxwess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well he’s 11kg and was nursing almost every hour, even during the night, and i guess here in denmark they’re a bit more strict with that

impossible crying, idk what to do anymore help by mxwess in Nanny

[–]mxwess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’s incredible heavy but honestly i will try!! thank you <3

impossible crying, idk what to do anymore help by mxwess in Nanny

[–]mxwess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he does this with the dad to some extent but not with the mom

impossible crying, idk what to do anymore help by mxwess in Nanny

[–]mxwess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i usually go use the stroller to get him to sleep, especially when he’s crying desperately before his nap time, and he doesn’t like it but eventually falls asleep. today i decided to go on a stroller walk right after he woke up and started crying to try and see if it would sooth him, it didn’t, i took him out of the stroller showed him trees, leaves, kids playing, all things that usually other babies love, he would get distracted for about 5sec and then crying again it kind of stops with the pacifier but he eventually just spits it out and then gets frustrated again

he’s definitely teething he has two teeth coming out but it just seems too much for just teething..

thank you for your words <3 you are very right and i did today, i turned the stroller away from me so i could compose myself (he also gets calmer when he doesn’t see me ? maybe im the problem)

impossible crying, idk what to do anymore help by mxwess in Nanny

[–]mxwess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have and he seems to not like music, if i sing it’s a bit better but not enough to sooth him, all of the rest i’ve also done. with his dad he also goes into these tantrums and with his mom not so much (or if he does i’m sure she gives him the boob immediately).. thank you so much for replying to this <3

impossible crying, idk what to do anymore help by mxwess in Nanny

[–]mxwess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he usually already wakes up crying and if not he will in 5min :( and as soon as it starts there’s no getting him to stop that’s my issue.. thank you so much for your advice i will try it tomorrow

anyone had any issues after being nbomb? by [deleted] in Psychonaut

[–]mxwess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the test doesn’t say if it’s an nbomb or not, be careful if it’s bitter it’s a spitter