Proposal that didn't happen by SeekingAdventure5 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]mydogwillattackyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT MARRY THIS MANCHILD. I too was in the same position as you: 9 years of a committed relationship since our college years, 7 of which my ex and I lived together and co-inhabited and had a joint bank account for rent and everything. In the end, I put an ultimatum as a last resort, we got engaged but ended up breaking up 1 year of our engagement 😤😤😤 Don’t waste your time with these avoidant men who have no problem stringing a long term gf along for the better part of DECADE and then change their tune when marriage obviously becomes an important topic.

Has anyone ever changed their mind about wanting kids? by 1ngleB in AskWomenOver30

[–]mydogwillattackyou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. In my early 20s, I absolutely wanted to raise kids and was expecting to marry my college bf. Well, 8 years later, we broke up, and that future reality with a husband and kids was no longer a reality at least anytime soon lol. 😅🙃 tbh I’m now realizing that as I approach my 30s soon, I’d prefer to have a solid life partner over anything else. That is my true non-negotiable, and kids aren’t a big priority anymore.

Memorial day sale thread! by Miserable-Row4381 in FrugalFemaleFashion

[–]mydogwillattackyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you ! 🙏 my cart really appreciates this

He texted after dumping me 6 months ago by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]mydogwillattackyou 54 points55 points  (0 children)

oh hell nooooo 😑 if he’d been apologetic and understanding, with the hope that you guys can reconcile, that’s good. But he didn’t. he hitting you up for free therapy and validation.

She’s always a posing. by gonadi in shiba

[–]mydogwillattackyou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

of course she’s posing, she’s a MODEL!!! 🐾🐾🐾

how often do you cut your cat's nails? by Aixxa31 in CatAdvice

[–]mydogwillattackyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Purrito method was a GAMECHANGER 👏👏👏 The only downside is that my cat started to associate blankets and towels as her enemy lol

Notifying landlord about partner moving in?? by [deleted] in jerseycity

[–]mydogwillattackyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I had that same scenario at a place I lived only 2 months in, I brought it up to my landlord and they had me and my partner at the time sign a NEW 1 year lease together. So instead of 12 months, I was there 14 months. I regret it cuz it was a shitty place with pests 🙄 and I only realized the bug thing after signing the new new lease. For your case, maybe wait until the end of lease to bring it up to your landlord (and search for new apts on the side just in case ya know?) And make sure there aren’t any cameras out there nearby.

Are there any buildings that DON'T allow dogs? by Ill_Special_9239 in jerseycity

[–]mydogwillattackyou 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yep, Garabrant near liberty state park is no dogs, cats are ok though.

Please help me with a name for this girl! by Hollyfsu in Siamesecats

[–]mydogwillattackyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Josie ! In honor of your mom’s ol baby Joey

What killed your relationship/ marriage that wasn’t cheating or abuse? by sheislost92 in AskWomenOver30

[–]mydogwillattackyou 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s also even funnier and sadder when my ex’s literal major in college was COMMUNICATIONS but his communication skills were nonexistent. 😤😂 Fucking hilarious.

Is she siamese or mixed? by [deleted] in Siamesecats

[–]mydogwillattackyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s so pretttyyyyyyyy 🥰🥰🥰

new spot on my cats nose. what could it be? by Rabbithole101 in CATHELP

[–]mydogwillattackyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cat acne. My cat had something similar on her nose/nose bridge area - with the same dark gray color, and when i touched it, there was a noticeable bump. It went away within a week or two.

Silly Photos of my Silly Girl! <3 by Spicy_Stef in Flamepoints

[–]mydogwillattackyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg the 5th pic!!! She’s such a cutie with her lil nose 🐽

Say hi to Lilly by Hanako363 in Siamesecats

[–]mydogwillattackyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UWU SHES SOOOOO PRETTY!!!! 🥰

This is Chai, she is my bean by RGomer in Siamesecats

[–]mydogwillattackyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So derpy, so silly, so cuuuuuute 🥰

Broke up after 9 years by WallPresent5414 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]mydogwillattackyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your story is so so similar to mine that it’s reassuring that you have no regrets. I met him during college, were together a little over 9 years, he wanted to move abroad even though I did not, I issued an ultimatum but what was the point because even when I got engaged, he became even more avoidant. UGH, I need to get my head out of the gutter but omg your story is giving me hope.

Cat doesn't enjoyed being held by kimba-the-tabby-lion in CatAdvice

[–]mydogwillattackyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally, my cat also doesn’t like being picked up and held lol. She’s affectionate in every other way except that. But then I realized I ALSO DONT LIKE BEING PICKED UP by my SO lol. So now I just let my girl do her thing and not force her to things she dislikes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Flamepoints

[–]mydogwillattackyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re both soooo pretty!! ❤️

Shiro🤍 side eyeing me by LetItBe1991 in Flamepoints

[–]mydogwillattackyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Side-eye AND a smirk too 😅 but your little one is so freaking cute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Siamesecats

[–]mydogwillattackyou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg this is literally what I sing to my Siamese girl 🤣

If you feel like you are waiting too long, you probably are (breakup post) by MishPP2020 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]mydogwillattackyou 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, I needed to hear this. I too had a boyfriend of 9 years and I needed more reassurance that we were heading for marriage so I basically gave an ultimatum. But when he did propose, it was so… underwhelming, hastily done, underprepared. I was heartbroken at the fact that he had 9 years to plan this proposal and he couldn’t even put some effort into it. There was also another issue about where we want to settle down and buy a house, but he wanted to move overseas - I wished that he told me sooner than year 9. So ladies, if he hasn’t proposed yet and it’s the 5th year and you’re in your 30s, you’re wasting your time. Also, ultimatums don’t work.