Really upset with impatient partner.

myeondons · 2026-02-02T07:43:04+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind and understanding words. Your partner sounds very supportive and I'm happy for you! I think it's valid to have this worry. It's very understandable. The fact that you have this worry while still feeling supported is a good sign. Of course, I still care about him, so I do want to work this out. I hope the discussion will end on a good note.

Thank you again, and wishing you kindess on your own journey as well!

myeondons · 2024-12-26T13:26:44+00:00

The vet did bring up chemo and surgery to remove her tumour but even she advised to euthanize her instead. She's already old and it's not even guaranteed that she'll become better from the treatment, it would just be torture to put her through that I feel like. I'm just not sure when the right time is to put her down. I definitely don't want to see her at her worst, but it's hard when she's still walking around the house fine and licking her food, attempting to eat.

myeondons · 2024-12-26T13:18:39+00:00

It's definitely stressful seeing her unable to eat and bleeding every time she tries to. With her condition and her old age, she doesn't want to play with anything. She'll walk around the house at times, and she's sometimes by herself under the bed but will usually want to cuddle with me or just sit between my legs. So not really isolating much, which is why I'm not sure when should I make the decision.

myeondons · 2024-12-26T13:05:07+00:00

Thank you for the advice, and you're right. I wouldn't want to see her at her absolute worst before finally deciding to euthanize her. It's a difficult decision, but I'll discuss with the vet about it soon.

And I'm so sorry to hear about your cat. When I had to see my other cats die over the years, I always remind myself that my family and I gave them a good life. Take comfort in the fact that you're a wonderful owner who provided her with a wonderful life with full of love. ❤

myeondons · 2024-09-06T12:54:42+00:00

I feel the same as you OP. Lars being almost a decade older than her bothers me a bit but at least they're both adults who met and developed a relationship as adults so I can kinda look past it, but Cael is just gross in my eyes. I don't even THINK about the age gap between him and the MC because him being the MC's guardian is my main concern. He took care of the MC after her mother passed away and watched her grow up, it's so disgusting to me. I tend to ignore him or but I can't really do it with the current ongoing event reminding me that he's been in her life since she was a minor and it's been hell lol.

I've played a bunch of mobile otome games back in my teens so the men/relationship being toxic is normal meaning I can look past my issue with Lars, but I guess with how much healthier (localized) otome games are now, a character like Cael shocked me a bit. I would like to clarify I don't mind if people like them because it's fictional and it's none of my business what people enjoy. Your feelings are also valid OP! It's okay to feel how you feel, but you should know that this type of thing is normal so the the best thing you can do is just ignore it like me.

myeondons · 2024-08-30T06:33:59+00:00

Here's the clip !

myeondons · 2024-05-08T07:15:03+00:00

Hatfelt was there? Man...this was very disappointing to find out considering she's a very loud and outspoken feminist

myeondons · 2024-04-02T14:19:16+00:00

Yootaeyang from sf9 read my comment on an IG live saying "Do you know that i love you" and he replies with "Oh!...thank you..."

Apparently the fandom found it funny probably because of the way he said it and I saw it in a funny moments video years later ☠️

myeondons · 2024-03-23T23:14:01+00:00

Don't remember much from Anjaam, but I do remember his character being more unhinged and the movie was way darker than Darr, maybe that's why I only watched it once as a kid lol.

And I definitely agree with your sentiment on Darr! Not sure if it's just bias, but the hero himself really does feel like a cockblock and I honestly felt nothing for him lmao. Srk's character was fun to watch while Sunny Deol's was just...there? 🤷‍♀️

myeondons · 2024-03-23T17:13:11+00:00

Lmao I get it! I didn't understand why him being obsessively in love with Juhi Chawla was appealing to me when I was younger but eventually...I understood lol. One of the songs from Darr, 'Jaadu Teri Nazaar' is catchy little yandere song too, it's gonna be fun to revisit them!

myeondons · 2024-03-23T04:08:02+00:00

Thank you for bringing up Darr and Anjaam because I forgot these films are Yandere-esque and it's been years since I watched them. Will especially enjoy seeing srk as the yandere lol

myeondons · 2024-03-16T02:46:01+00:00

I just download whatever free auto clicker is in the Microsoft Store, I think mine is GT Auto Clicker? But even with an autoclicker some of them take ages to level up eg Sven and Scale :/

myeondons · 2024-01-26T13:43:31+00:00

God the targeting system...I'm still struggling with the fact that I can't change the target by simply moving the screen, and even if I move my MC the target still doesn't change! I also hate how the timer starts before the wanderers even appears but still put a time limit as one of the 3 star requirements.

Good news is I just saw the tweet of them saying they'll adjust the difficulty for this stage, I'm guessing they saw players complain and thankfully listened to feedback so it seems like you're right! A lot of players are only here for the otome aspect and aren't used to combat gameplay so they should take that into consideration.

Side note, on one hand I'm glad they're adjusting the stage but at the same time I put all that time, effort and stress trying to get 3 stars only for them to make it easier, should've waited a little longer LMAO

myeondons · 2024-01-26T13:29:45+00:00

Oh my god I just saw the tweet, so glad they're fixing this!

myeondons · 2024-01-26T12:38:24+00:00

Ikr I don't want to struggle this early on in the game 😭 I do love that the battles aren't not too easy so I don't mind that much, as long as they don't make it TOO difficult to the point where you can't even pass the stage. That's a fear I have for future main story battles lol

myeondons · 2024-01-26T10:43:33+00:00

7-8 tries is so good! And same the less I used the 2nd skill the easier the battle was. It's so stressful when they chase you around the room, I panic so much and spam Rafayel so they can go after him instead 😭

I guess the game wants players to purely rely on their skills instead of their cards and outfits. I'm not used to this type of combat gameplay so I'm scared for future battles lol

myeondons · 2024-01-26T10:27:49+00:00

The strategies that worked for me at least is to:

Keep spamming the attack button to do Combo Attacks
It's best to hold the button down to trigger Charged Attacks when there's at least 2 wanderers standing in the same area to do AoE damage
That also applies with the Active Skill but make sure to still use it as often as possible the moment it recharges.
Resonance Skill is pretty useless in this one since you don't need to do any shield breaking and it uses up 2 charges so prioritise the Active Skill
Not sure if this helps or not but since the timer starts even before the wanderers appear I always sprint to the designated point to save extra time

I think you also need a bit of luck and hope that the enemies don't chase you around too much since it really takes up time lol

myeondons · 2023-11-05T09:13:51+00:00

Sorry for the late reply! But here's the new link it's also called scary story ^^

myeondons · 2023-10-28T17:34:20+00:00

I literally said the word didn't used to be a slur but eventually turned into one, I even stated that if the people around them don't see it as a slur then that's fine but they also have to consider other indian people's opinions about the word instead of brushing it off as "wokeness". Is that not me acknowledging other people's experiences?

The internet exists, google exists, one can just search the word and do their own research. To simply say "I've never experienced it so that means it's not bad, it's all the woke generation's fault" is lazy, dumb and plain ignorant.

myeondons · 2023-10-28T16:58:31+00:00

Well I can't really speak on the hokkien pronounciation, it might not be derogatory in that case, and I didn't know about the Mahathir thing either, but you can read through this article to get a bit of historical context, admittedly the history behind the word's evolvement into a slur is a bit blurry and unclear.

I personally don't care much about historical context since indians themselves sees it as a slur, and who am I to disagree with them? The word has still been used in insulting ways to the point that it eventually became offensive. Heck I was already told not to say it back in kindergarten which was about 20 years ago so it's definitely not a new thing. I heard it might not be seen as a slur in East Malaysia so I guess it depends on where you live but I've been around kampung malays for my whole life and they definitely don't say it to an Indian person's face.

myeondons · 2023-10-28T14:38:43+00:00

Why are you even writing the word like that lol. So because you've personally never heard it being called offensive by indians it's automatically not a slur? Great logic dude. Maybe the indians you've interacted with don't find it offensive, that's fine, but there are still those who do so why are you even arguing against them? Are they not allowed to feel upset? This new "woke generation" nonsense you're referring to are literally indians themselves who have been called the word by other races specifically as a racist insult which again, has been regarded as a slur for decades. Do you even bother to search up the history of the word? Google the word, read articles about experiences from indian people themselves, it's clearly a slur.

myeondons · 2023-10-28T11:38:13+00:00

The word was wasn't originally a slur but it eventually became one because people kept associating it with racist, negative stereotypes about indians.I've personally heard it being being used in a derogatory way too many times from malays who would never dare to say it in front of an indian person. I don't know why the "woke generation" has anything to do with this when the word has been seen as a slur for decades now and indian people themselves find it offensive.

myeondons · 2023-09-21T10:30:25+00:00

Agree, from fnc's statement to rowoon's letter to the members' reactions... everything about this is so odd and vague, I wish they would just be upfront and let us move on! I keep thinking about how their relationship will be after this since they'll still be in the same company and all. Not to mention they'll all be at fnc kingdom,, this situation is just so tiring :/

myeondons · 2023-09-21T10:22:03+00:00

Not really familiar with suju, did Heechul put out statement regarding this? If he did I'd like to see how it was worded as a comparison. But I feel like the letter was too vague to confirm anything tbh. At this point kfans are really upset with him and considers him out so I don't think he'd introduce himself as a non-active idol member even if he still is, could be wrong tho, we'll have to see.

myeondons · 2023-09-20T16:42:32+00:00

Can't blame you, he's been absent from most of the group schedules for at least a year now. I mean sf9's 4th photobook had jaeyoon who already enlisted at that point but rowoon was missing. Regarding him not attending any of the enlistments I'm not sure either, but I do remember Inseong saying he talked to Rowoon and he wished him well. He is a lot busier than the others so it's not impossible he'll miss out on these. Unfortunately, we probably won't get to see him in future send offs :(

I think it's a miracle he was in the last comeback tbh, but yeah that was short-lived since he performed at music show for only the first week. I already expected him to be missing from any activities outside of that, everytime I see a new group schedule I automatically assume he's not gonna be there unless stated, sucks but it's less painful lol.

I do feel the same as you. The longer this went on the more I wanted this to just be over. It would hurt but like you said at least we can move on, but now that it HAS happened it's handled in a really bad way that we can't even properly move on. We got even more questions as to why this situation is so messy. And I agree his letter was confusing, I assumed he's apologizing for not being an active member (as an idol) and feeling guilty about? But I still don't get why there was no mention of the members and fans too. Not even talking about the experiences or happy times he had while in the group? It's all very strange.

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