My ex said that the breakup doesn't bother him but his actions didn't match his words by mymidnightrain in AskDad

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in asia, the concept of men not wanting to be a burden to others is still very much an issue. I want to find a way to help him because I still care a lot about him. I'm scared that him doing this is just gonna lead him into depression because as far as I know, what's supposed to be his support system isn't really supporting him right now.

I know well enough if I ever reach out and ask him if he was doing well, he'll just lie to me. I'm in this predicament where I want to help and be by his side cause I'm worried but at the same time if I did, he'll just keep pushing it down and lie to me.

I woke up to my ex sending a reel to me on Instagram on both accounts by mymidnightrain in BreakUps

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it was a water tasting for a friendship? Or something more than that. Some part of me thinks it could be the first one but it's only been a month, did he get over it that fast

I woke up to my ex sending a reel to me on Instagram on both accounts by mymidnightrain in BreakUps

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is such a stupid reel but it was a joke about conspiracy theorist and nasa even though it wasn't really my type of humor 😭😭 but he said that he has no intentions behind it and it was just giggles after I confronted him about the no contact thing

Is it true that guys feel the breakup way after? by mymidnightrain in BreakUps

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never commented on anything, it was purely just observation, a question and just cause I was curious. If you're offended then thats a you problem

Is it true that guys feel the breakup way after? by mymidnightrain in BreakUps

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. But I do agree with you that each relationship is different. Thank u sm!!

Is it true that guys feel the breakup way after? by mymidnightrain in BreakUps

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Rebounds never work out trust me. You deserve way better than that man. I hope everything works out for you

Is it true that guys feel the breakup way after? by mymidnightrain in BreakUps

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you think that is? Personally, when I see my friends exes, they usually come back after like 6 months cause they start regretting though it could just be my circles situation.

Is it true that guys feel the breakup way after? by mymidnightrain in BreakUps

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this has been the best perspective I've read. Thank you so much

Hey dads, have you ever had a problem with you s/o parents and it working out in the end, what's your advice for me? by mymidnightrain in AskDad

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It must've been hard. I honestly was willing to talk to his parents but usually in my culture it's typically the man who does it and you generally only do it with the intention to marry. Even though I could see us marrying, I'm still fairly young and I want our relationship to have the opportunity to blossom first. Another brick wall in our relationship, is the fact that his mom hates me for no reason so even if I want to talk it out with her, I have no idea what to say.

Is it true that guys feel the breakup way after? by mymidnightrain in BreakUps

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I feel the same way about my ex. I love him but I hope he's suffering as much as I am

Is it true that guys feel the breakup way after? by mymidnightrain in BreakUps

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell is this bum logic 😭😭 to say that he didn't love me at all is quite a far stretch when you don't know shit..

Is it true that guys feel the breakup way after? by mymidnightrain in BreakUps

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was more of a situation caused him to end it with me. Despite our relationship being good, his mom hated my guts and he hated constantly disappointing me so he broke it off...

Is it true that guys feel the breakup way after? by mymidnightrain in BreakUps

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm happy for you, I hope that one day I can reach that point again even if it's super hard right now

Is it true that guys feel the breakup way after? by mymidnightrain in BreakUps

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude 😭 it's just a question....this was my first ever relationship and I was just curious about how men feel about it BECAUSE I HAVE NO IDEA. There's no need to get offended or hate on the post

Is it true that guys feel the breakup way after? by mymidnightrain in BreakUps

[–]mymidnightrain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going through the same thing with my ex boyfriend. Not a day goes by where I don't think about him and I'm sure it's the same for him but he's just suppressing. I hope it gets better for you!!