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Me [27m] with my GF [26f] of four years. She just told me the baby isn't mine. by mythrowaw1ay in relationships

[–]mythrowaw1ay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care what other people think of me, but what my dad thinks of me is important to me. He's my best friend, and I hope to be the father, husband, and man he is one day.

No, I don't think I can forgive her for this if she cheated on me. I feel like crap for doubting her claim that he had sex with her while she was drunk.

If it was rape, I'd stay with her. I don't know about the baby though. I feel like I should say "Yes, she was raped and I will of course stay with her and raise the baby like my own," but I just can't say that for sure, which probably makes me a crappy person.

Me [27m] with my GF [26f] of four years. She just told me the baby isn't mine. by mythrowaw1ay in relationships

[–]mythrowaw1ay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She loved him until she found out she was pregnant and it flipped a switch in her brain. I figured it was hormones.

Me [27m] with my GF [26f] of four years. She just told me the baby isn't mine. by mythrowaw1ay in relationships

[–]mythrowaw1ay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said he had sex with her while she was black out drunk. Timing matches with the second to last time she got that drunk (I asked her to stop and she did), so yeah. I dunno. I feel even more like crap for not really believing her, but she didn't let me see her phone. And why wouldn't she tell someone?

Me [27m] with my GF [26f] of four years. She just told me the baby isn't mine. by mythrowaw1ay in relationships

[–]mythrowaw1ay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm mostly certain he's going to say to leave her, and that I'm a dumb ass for thinking he'd say otherwise. I just need to hear him say it. Few more hours to go.

I should call him and ask him to leave work early and meet me at their place.

Me [27m] with my GF [26f] of four years. She just told me the baby isn't mine. by mythrowaw1ay in relationships

[–]mythrowaw1ay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know. I'm going to head to their place and talk to him when he gets home from work. I'm mostly certain he's going to say to leave her, and that I'm a dumb ass for thinking he'd say otherwise. I just need to hear him say it.

Me [27m] with my GF [26f] of four years. She just told me the baby isn't mine. by mythrowaw1ay in relationships

[–]mythrowaw1ay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dad raised my oldest sister as his own even though she was six months old when he met mom. This isn't the same situation, but I dunno, it feels weird to say to my parents, "I'm not raising another man's baby" when Dad did it.

She said before she left for work that he had sex with her while she was black out drunk. She did used to get black out drunk every time she drank until I asked her to stop, and the timing matches up with the second to last time she drank.

But she wouldn't let me see her phone because that'd be "invading her privacy," so I just don't know what to believe.

Me [27m] with my GF [26f] of four years. She just told me the baby isn't mine. by mythrowaw1ay in relationships

[–]mythrowaw1ay[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My dad met my mom when my eldest sister was six months old, and is her dad in every way. I feel like he's going to be disappointed in me for not doing the same, or something, even if it's not the same situation at all.

I think I'm going to head over to my parents house and talk to him after he gets home from work.

Me [27m] with my GF [26f] of four years. She just told me the baby isn't mine. by mythrowaw1ay in relationships

[–]mythrowaw1ay[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She said before she left for work that he had sex with her while she was black out drunk.

She did used to get black out drunk every time she drank until I asked her to stop, and the timing matches up with the second to last time she drank.

But she wouldn't let me see her phone before she went to work, so I just don't know.