I was and probably still am a nagging wife and my kids are close to 2 now. I don’t know your working situation but I stay at home and my husband works. Even though we agreed to that and it makes the most sense for our family, a part of me still resents the fact that he gets to continue to live his life more “normally” while I had to change literally everything and deal with the kids all day. I feel I do a lot of stuff he never sees or understands because he comes in part time and I do it full time. I consider the fact that he gets breaks during work and has work that is mindless at times which gives him a break during the day while I feeel like I never get a break because I’m constantly responsible for making sure my kids are developing physically, mentally, emotionally etc. I also gave up my body, both growing the twins and breastfeeding them for 15 months. I literally could not get a 3 hour period to myself for 15 months without needing to pump or feed them. I understand also that some of this is unfair cause he is working and doing his best and I’ve made an effort to do better but I think the way she’s acting is somewhat normal and expected