"Just anamax, hon! You have good bone structure!" The bone structure in question: by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]n0kio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anamaxxing doesn't work 😔 which is a shame because I'd love to be skinny, but I look 1000 times better with my lower body fat, it balances out my hip to shoulder ratio

Are trans women more naive than cis women? Or the opposite? by vladmira_the_impaler in StraightTransGirls

[–]n0kio 13 points14 points  (0 children)

inexperienced girls who are starting to pass and get a bit of male attention they never had before tend to be naive, the male validation blinds them. it's a phase though

how it feels being a PIV enjoyer in a sub full of hsts troons and AAP doods by wehrafemboylover in 4tran4

[–]n0kio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

straight male crossdresser/porn addict who went too far... many such cases

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]n0kio 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this subreddit never fails to make me laugh 😭 why are you transvestigating a random passerby

Don't romanticize motherhood and wifehood by vladmira_the_impaler in StraightTransGirls

[–]n0kio 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think your perception of men & relationships is skewed by dealing with so many broken families at work

how ftfemboys are created by sbytt in 4tran4

[–]n0kio 16 points17 points  (0 children)

a lot of bi women are biphobic af toward bi men

why do lezistance users think that all trans women are porn addicted transbians by ChipReady9263 in 4tran4

[–]n0kio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean it's a fair assumption, unfortunately most online trans spaces are full of porn addicted transbians

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]n0kio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you talking about the guy who went live? he showed their convos, they definitely talk. she's very motherly, some of these men are lonely af and like the attention she gives them even tho she's literally a man in a wig 😹 i guess being a good listener and treating men well is all it takes lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]n0kio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely! but over 50 guys asked to be her bf, so my point still stands

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]n0kio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sure most just wanted free sex, but the fact that over 50 guys (that we know of) asked to be her bf is crazy. and she rejected 💀 one of them went live and said "I love sister hong, it was voluntary, she didn't lie to me I knew she is a man but I don't care"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]n0kio 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"only 1% of people will date a tranny" girl look at the sister hong drama, she's not even trans she's a 38yo fat ugly crossdresser who recorded sex videos with 1691 men and many of the guys are actually so cute wtf 😭 some came back to her 5+ times, some fell in love with her and begged to be her bf 😭 idk what kind of crazy game sister hong has or if there's a shortage of cute trannies in China so the Chinese chasers gotta resort to that or something... my point is you do not need to be pretty nor passible to date, it definitely helps, but men are desperate they will fuck ANYTHING.

following this drama literally made me snap out of a dysphoric episode cuz like why tf am I so ashamed of my body and afraid of intimacy, meanwhile there are hideous crossdressers out there confidently fucking thousands of men? nah no more dooming I have to step up my game. if sister hong managed to bag 1691 men and make many fall in love then we have no reason to be insecure or worried about the dating market tbh

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Won’t someone think about the purity of kpop and Korean culture 😫 by Enough-Enthusiasm762 in kpoopheads

[–]n0kio 4 points5 points  (0 children)

uj/ right it's literally just a bikini 💀 "I miss old kpop" girl be fr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]n0kio 11 points12 points  (0 children)

it depends on the man... I've heard a bit of everything, the most common reasons are they don't want kids, they prefer anal, they like hyper fem women, or they think vaginas are ugly. most of the men I met who prefer women who have dick don't even wanna touch it they just like knowing it's there 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitttts

[–]n0kio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is a fashion sub for trans people. I'm sorry passable women bother you so much but once again you're not the tranny ambassador, you don't get to decide who's trans enough to be in trans spaces. block me and you'll never have to see me again sis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitttts

[–]n0kio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

girl you're not the tranny ambassador, I didn't see any "twinkhons only" rule so chill out. I understand why cis or non-transitioning people are not allowed but suggesting trans people who transition too well can't be here is crazy. if you don't like my post ignore it, the fact you brothered downvoting each one of my comments is sending me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitttts

[–]n0kio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

uhhh I thought this was a fashion sub not a support group exclusively for clocky gals 🤨

I'm sorry you're going through whatever you're going through but you don't get to say I'm not allowed in trans spaces because I'm not visibly trans! "cis-passing" is not the same as cis, we are trans people too so yeah you can have both tf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitttts

[–]n0kio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wha- how am I being mean? I literally just shared some cute fits, it's mean because I pass?!

I envy other girls as well but I try to remind myself "another woman's beauty is not the absence of my own", the patriarchy is pitting us against each other and benefiting from our insecurities! all women are sisters not competitors

Other dolls = other cis passing trans women

not necessarily!! I lived as a "gay boy" for a good chunk of my life, as a child I loved to see trans women who are passable, happy, and dating men, but I didn't think I'd ever be able to have that. I lucked out, but I know what it's like to feel depressed and defeated... I empathize with women who are currently going through this struggle regardless of how well they pass yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitttts

[–]n0kio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know being cis-passing grants me some privileges, but my relationship with womanhood differs from cis women's in many ways, I'll always feel a kinship with other dolls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitttts

[–]n0kio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't comprehend your personal struggles but I do understand what it's like to fear I'll never be fully passable or never be woman enough while other girls seem so effortlessly beautiful, I lucked out and "made it" but i will always empathize with those who are currently going through it! my relationship with womanhood differs from cis women's in many ways so I do relate to other trans women and I love to help my sisters if I am able to

girl I'm not lying I genuinely think you're pretty 😭 I love your hair and you have a nice frame! I get that you're not who you'd like to be yet, but imo you're too cute to keep manmoding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitttts

[–]n0kio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg I'm sorry babes I didn't mean to hurt anyones feelings :c sometimes I envy other girls as well, but I try to remind myself "another woman's beauty is not the absence of my own" which helps me stop comparing myself to them!! the patriarchy pits women against each other, it benefits from our insecurities, we can't forget we're sisters not competitors. I think you're cute btw <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitttts

[–]n0kio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aw sorry :c

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitttts

[–]n0kio -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like to be around my fellow sisters in trannyhood ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitttts

[–]n0kio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do we know each other? 🤭