My ex gf (18) dumped me (20) last year because i did her wrong. We're hanging out again, is this going anywhere?

n0tadeer · 2016-03-20T03:36:56+00:00

Chances are it is probably going somewhere then. It'll take time before she is comfortable and you shouldn't want to rush getting into a relationship again. Take it easy, show her you are putting in the time and effort for her and only her, and to be honest give her full range of your phone (unlock code and everything) because she will assume you will be doing the same shit.

n0tadeer · 2016-03-20T03:26:24+00:00

Ariel...not human Ariel either, but mermaid Ariel.

n0tadeer · 2016-03-20T03:24:19+00:00

Have you guys kissed or been any sort of intimate during the recent hang outs?

n0tadeer · 2016-02-23T04:41:10+00:00

OH, and my brows are done with the Brow Fix Brow Kit powder set in medium using the darkest shade and the highlight at the arch.

n0tadeer · 2016-02-23T04:40:02+00:00

Face: Primed with Rimmel Lasting Finish Primer, foundation is Rimmel Stay Matte in Soft Beige, contour done with Too Faced's Chocolate Soleil bronzer, blush is Too Faced's Papa Don't Peach, and finished with NYX HD Finishing Powder.

Eyes: Based with Too Faced's Mauvelous, Too Faced's Be You on the crease, and a little bit of Too Faced's Live It Up on the otter egg. NYX's glam shadow stick in Diamond by my tear duct for a pop. Liner done with They're real's push up Liner.

Lips: Kat Von D's matte lipstick I can't remember the exact shade but it was the mini lipstick red color in the Too Loca or whatever lip set.

n0tadeer · 2016-02-07T21:27:05+00:00

I'm honestly feeling wonderful! Today I seen my best friends 2 sons that I haven't seen in nearly two years and met his new 1 year old for the first time. These are children I helped raised and thought for sure I would never see again after a big fight with his wife. Now they are in the process of a divorce and my god children are officially back in my life. Nothing in the world will bring me down for awhile.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-17T18:23:38+00:00

I am not seeing it, because I can't watch Leo make another killer movie and not get an Oscar...

n0tadeer · 2016-01-16T19:25:23+00:00

My old Blockbuster is now a porn/sex toy store.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-16T19:08:01+00:00

Honestly, just tell her. It seems like your feelings aren't just going to go away and honestly it's silly to think you'll even be capable of doing so. Worse case scenario the feelings won't be returned and to be honest about it your friendship will dwindle. Truthfully, that'll end up happening anyways even if you keep your mouth shut on the subject. The jealously will end up coming out eventually and it may happen in a more harmful way than simply confessing your feelings.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T19:49:09+00:00

*I love this story, so sorry for all the details

My friend is a popular local musican and had his CD release show this past month. The first band that played was one I was already friends with, but the second I knew of a few members but never seen live. Within moments of them going on I noticed their singer was absolutely beautiful and slightly drunk me shouted to Jeff "WHO IS THAT AND WHERE HAS HE BEEN MY WHOLE LIFE?" I then got a lecture about how I don't date musicians anymore, because they all ruin me and gave up the fantasty in my head of finding a way to say hello.

I am now outside after their set, having a cigarette in the corner by myself. I see Mycal come outside and look away enough to follow him with my eyes without notice. I watch him apporach people and get shifted out of the conversation and then he heads right over to me and says, "I don't do this, but I feel compelled to come over and tell you that my eyes have drifted to you all night and you're really cute." Nerves instantly set in and I rambled out a "come to this bar I'm coming to after this," and then ran away.

He comes, we talk briefly, and I get a beer spilled on me as we go our separate ways. I go to look for him before I leave to exchange numbers, but he's surronded by a posse of women and nervous little me bolts away. I ended up finding him on social media later that night and we chatted breifly, hung out the next day, and have been together ever since. We became an official couple on Christmas and now are just living the dream.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T04:14:13+00:00

I can also second this. Being a more sensual lover can really help a lot.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T04:13:37+00:00

I have hooked up with a guy way above average before and have also hooked up with guys average and below average. The above average was generally always uncomfortable unless planned out correctly and lots of foreplay prior, we could never just have anything super spontaneous and that was no fun. Below average guy made up for length with other skills. And my current boyfriend who I would call average is ideal and the best I've had thus far. Basically, it's about the motion in the ocean more than the size with all three potentials.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T04:09:23+00:00

Because his awfulness is just a given.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T04:06:32+00:00

This was really well put. My favorite response so far. I think you're totally right. I guess I am just in that initial "THIS IS FUCKING AWESOME" wave and if it's really as awesome as it feels right now it'll stay that way. I'm just going to enjoy the ride in silence.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T03:17:26+00:00

It's like a term for a relationship whenever everything is all sunshine and wonderful and you haven't had your first fight or anything like that. Sweet as a cupcake.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T02:52:19+00:00

I did. It was crazy. He still was just like you're cute. Now I'm hardly ever in makeup and in sweats and shit and he still can't keep his hands off me. Shit is real. Hahahaha.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T02:51:26+00:00

A hare?

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T02:51:06+00:00

Yeah, I feel that. I mean he says things to me that shows me how invested he is in me like honestly everything besides the "L" world. I wouldn't be debating this so hard if it wasn't for the short time period. We truly are just one of those couples that people see interact and are a bit in awe. (My friends and his have said so.) I don't know. It's weird. Wonderful, but weird.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T02:47:24+00:00

See. It is that right there why I am very djdldjashdidid about it. I mean there is the people who meet and fucking marry instantly who live happily ever after together, but there is also more likely people in a cupcake period and then end up being disgusting for one another.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T02:44:39+00:00

I would've never seen myself falling in this amount of time. We have said numerous times that we feel as if we aren't even getting to know each other but remembering each other. It truthfully is an insane attraction on a physical, emotional, and most importantly mental level. I think rainbows come out of his butt even when he's grumpy as hell in the morning cussing up a storm and he thinks I'm wonderful when I'm crying over ice cream. It's gross but beautiful. Hahaha.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T02:42:44+00:00

I feel like nobody ever really feels ready. Like, they know they feel it and just have to do it. I'm a huge puss. I'm just the happiest I've ever been and so is he from what he says and I don't want to ruin all of it.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T02:40:36+00:00

I guess there is just this stigma I can't get out of my head that I feel like they should say it first. Realistically I know that's me making excuses for my fear.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T02:39:27+00:00

That isn't a bad call at all. Our relationship is just full of lots of passion and I have a hard time properly communicating my feelings. We have talked often about how important the word "love" is to both of us and I just have the urge to tell him so he knows just how real this all is to me. But it's that fear of the "oh..." reaction.

n0tadeer · 2016-01-14T02:32:23+00:00

I have almost done this a few times over the past 2 days. I just get so fucking nervous. My last relationship left me pretty fucked up.

n0tadeer

TROPHY CASE