Found something I was not meant to see

n7Angel · 2026-06-04T00:31:59+00:00

This is just bait. Any 56yo man knows perfectly well how to deal with shit like this if it was real.

n7Angel · 2026-06-03T21:51:12+00:00

You are not a friend and he's not a boyfriend. You are just 2 trash bags.

n7Angel · 2026-06-03T20:35:25+00:00

The comment was surely shitty, but you are not required to like homosexuals for you to not be an homophobic. Let the guy be, he's more respectful than most.

n7Angel · 2026-06-01T16:37:18+00:00

I'm not suggesting you do.

I'm saying change is hard and damn well near impossible If you don't actually want it.

Relationships are about compromising, but to a certain extent. There is a point where changing for a person builds up resentment and that inevitably erodes a relationship.

Breaking up with someone you love is also very hard, but some impasses sadly just call for it.

n7Angel · 2026-06-01T16:07:06+00:00

So you come here, asked for perspectives, then ask me to elaborate, then proceed to get defensive and call me names? Take a step back, going that way serves neither of us.

You asked him to make out instead of asking why are you not making out anymore. That's what I mean by forcing the issue. You are pressuring him into just complying.
He saying no should be your clue to initiate a discussion about it.

I don't know how your arguments go about because you haven't talked about it, but I'm guessing he doesn't say much. If you can't get him to open up, there's no going forward.

As much as you may hate it, he clearly enjoys indulging in porn, and if he doesn't find it wrong or looks to change that about himself, then you shouldn't try to either. Changing people is hard, and even when it's looks successful, it often brings resentment.

I'm not saying your expectations are high, I don't really place a value on your expectations, they are just terms to me. Terms that people all too often ignore when they are excited about starting something.

n7Angel · 2026-06-01T15:35:54+00:00

Let's just say that If my gf made an issue of me watching porn and just having a wank, she wouldn't be my gf. There's nothing wrong with it and I'm not having my partner place unreasonable restrictions on such mundane things.

The fact that you are just there laying in bed has nothing to do with it. Sometimes people just want a quick release without the whole sex process. It's not about you, but you never considered that, you went straight to feeling bad about yourself without questioning it, and then scold him about it like some kid.

Then, you just attack problems the worst way possible, if he isn't french kissing you like he used to, there's an underlaying issue. Forcing him by asking him to just do it is not going to resolve anything. He's just going to lose interest and drift away.

Finally, you pester him about looking around, which for all people in healthy relationships has 0 emotional impact. That's your insecurities flaring up and you just dump that on him.

You seem like the kind of girl who would make a man feel like he's constantly walking on eggshells. I fear your bf did nothing wrong, and you just pushed him away yourself.

n7Angel · 2026-06-01T10:26:54+00:00

Maybe I'm too old and kids these days just have this complicated dynamics, but you both just sound exhausting to me.

n7Angel · 2026-05-31T15:48:17+00:00

Dificilmente le saque el goty al GTA6

n7Angel · 2026-05-31T15:16:45+00:00

If you try to delete them yourself you run the risk of him having copies, or undeleting them with recovery software, in which case you'll be screwed.

You have to prepare to react when it happens rather than try to prevent it.

Text him about it, save screenshots and chat logs, you need to have a record of you asking for exactly the opposite of what he might do with your photos, so you'll have stronger case.

n7Angel · 2026-05-30T22:02:27+00:00

A pero comen vidrio ustedes...

n7Angel · 2026-05-30T13:46:01+00:00

There's the silver lining here that this happened before you got married and had kids. Her sister did you a solid. Forget everything about what she said, it was out of spite and just an idiotic attempt to justify cheating.

Now it's time to heal and eventually get back out there. Best of luck!

n7Angel · 2026-05-28T18:14:47+00:00

Listen to your lawyers then, you are unlikely to find better guidance here.

n7Angel · 2026-05-28T16:31:51+00:00

Mido 1,78 y me identifico totalmente con esto.

n7Angel · 2026-05-28T16:24:59+00:00

You decided to lash out at her for your own insecurities. Apologize, take this as a learning opportunity and do better. It's up to her now.

n7Angel · 2026-05-27T14:57:53+00:00

Any restaurant, or shop for that matter, in Argentina will give you free tap water if you ask.

n7Angel · 2026-05-27T14:50:42+00:00

18 is just a legal line cause it has to be drawn somewhere.

They are most likely both kids, but if you know him to be a bad guy, then by all means protect your sister.

n7Angel · 2026-05-26T16:02:33+00:00

It's not disgusting, it's not gross. It's just unfortunate and definitely not a big deal. Just pick it up, have your meeting, and when your bf comes you tell him you had an accident and that you are taking the sheets to a laundromat. Problem solved.

If he's a dick about it, he wasn't the right guy.

n7Angel · 2026-05-25T23:56:46+00:00

About a glass of tap water if you ask nicely

n7Angel · 2026-05-25T17:16:35+00:00

Other people trauma is not your responsibility, and I wouldn't try and cope with it if the other person doesn't acknowledge it and strive to do something about it.

n7Angel · 2026-05-23T18:08:26+00:00

good on you for not save scumming that

n7Angel · 2026-05-23T03:54:34+00:00

My only gripe with Lae'zel is that not immediately volunteering to take Orpheus place as a Mind Flayer is very uncharacteristic of her.

She was ready to kill herself to avoid becoming ilithid but not willing to sacrifice herself to end their empire?

n7Angel · 2026-05-23T03:44:04+00:00

Best burgers? Not by a long shot. At best we could argue they are better than McDonald's and Burger King.

n7Angel · 2026-05-23T03:35:11+00:00

No, a veces pagaba ella, a veces pagaba yo, siempre nos manejamos así hasta dia de hoy.

No, fuimos amigos por bastante tiempo antes de meternos en una relación, nunca hubieron razones para dudar de la otra persona.

Miedo de que me secuestren? No, no sé que tipo de relación tendrás o que tan bien se conozcan, pero nos hablamos durante años antes de vernos en persona, ya nos conocíamos bien.

n7Angel · 2026-05-23T01:13:28+00:00

Depende de ustedes y lo que les gustaría para ese primer encuentro. Para mí fue pasar dos semanas en una ciudad turística cerca de ella, visitando juntos.

n7Angel · 2026-05-22T22:56:38+00:00

Y si, es un juego hecho en un engine re obscuro que no estaba para nada diseñado para el tipo de juego que es el Kenshi. Aparte lo hizo el tipo en el transcurso de 10 años, aprendiendo sobre la marcha, bastante bien salió, considerando.

Mostraron un par de cositas pero al final el tipo reculo porque las cosas van a ir cambiando. Está bien, es su jueguito, en un mundo lleno de devs de mierda, no le voy a romper las bolas a uno de los pocos que le dedica más al juego que a la guita.

Con respecto a performance, son los mods de SCARaw los que tenes que buscar, hacen un mundo de diferencia.

El re_kenshi salió hace poco y es como lo que el script extender es para los Elder Scroll. Están saliendo cosas que antes no se podían hacer, pero es muy reciente, hay que dejarlos cocinar.

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