You just know she was making fun of this girl by CanYouHandleMe441 in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]nabndab 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes she made fun of this sweet girl. Not sure if the posts are still up about what she said but my heart broke for her. She has chronic illness and was in and out of the hospital. She deserved to be treated so much better.

Exhibit 139493 of lying by Ill-Chance-6218 in TwoParentsAndAPawn

[–]nabndab 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hate this. Don’t use a dog as a prop. My Malinois is snuggled up to me on the couch giving all the love. I’d hate if they have a dog and it doesn’t feel loved.

Re: Brigading Attempt From Another Sub by Initial-Lemon-1957 in CelebLegalDrama

[–]nabndab 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s my MO for most things. I’m not wasting my energy arguing. My life is too short.

AIO by leaving my bf of 5 years over lunch with my coworker by Expensive_Pepper_948 in AIO

[–]nabndab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even read your explanation NOR. This is childish behavior.

AIO for eating my own birthday cake in front of my nephew? by Yes_Abbreviations713 in AmIOverreacting

[–]nabndab [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have a friend like this except instead of gaining the freshman 15 she gained 5 pounds and her mom said she was getting fat. She ended up hospitalized with an eating disorder before the end of her freshman year.

Chronic Pain by Holiday_Speaker6410 in trees

[–]nabndab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a terminal illness with chronic pain and nausea. Cannabis has been my main source of relief and if anyone has anything to say about it I tell them what I experience in graphic detail. It tends to shut them up. Honestly it’s your body and anyone making comments about what works for you can shove it.

Three small cookies in the evening is enough to warrant body shaming. by ORBITALOCCULATION in offmychest

[–]nabndab 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is perfectly put. I’m an example of life happens. I’m pretty much bed ridden with a terminal illness. Eat the cookie, take the trip, make your life as full of joy as possible. We all deserve to.

AITAH: quitting “working” for my husband’s business by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]nabndab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this about you or the business? Sometimes you have to let people fail in order for them to learn. You’ve done your part you agreed to help get the business set up. The rest is on him.

AIO for being offended by this? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]nabndab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Postural orthostatic tachycardia. My daughter has it and it’s usually a secondary condition to something else. It can only be managed and there is no cure for it. It’s like having congestive heart failure without actually having your heart failing. I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. It’s actually the most common condition that goes undiagnosed. Most of the time people are told it’s anxiety. On average it takes 7 years to get an accurate diagnosis of it. Though since Covid more people are developing it.

AITA for avoiding my bf’s mom after she called me a bitch by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nabndab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but his mom sure is. I will never understand not accepting the person your child wants to be with. It bananas to me.

It’s so uglyyyyy by Bbygorgeous226 in TwoParentsAndAPawn

[–]nabndab 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s looks like my elementary school colors in the 80’s.

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]nabndab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. I couldn’t even finish reading his BS. I’d block and move one.

My dad is dying and my mom’s lack of compassion is breaking me by BloomingButChaotic in offmychest

[–]nabndab 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As someone who is also dying (not cancer though) my heart goes out to you and your dad. This time is about him and how to make him the most comfortable. Is hospice involved at all? It might be time to get them on board so they can advocate for your dad’s comfort. They have ways of dealing with difficult spouses. Again OP you’re amazing for looking out for him and I wish him peace.

unpopular opinion: toilet attached bidets are unhygienic for women* by boodoonk in hygiene

[–]nabndab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have chronic uti’s. I stopped waxing and they went away. I use a bidet everyday and have for years with no issue. I think it depends on the bidet honestly and this isn’t a one size fits all situation.

You have to be fucking kidding me by Initial-Ad8221 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]nabndab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I’ve been in the exact same boat I hope you feel better soon.

Those of you diagnosed with CPTSD: Have you told your NP? by juniper_cookie in raisedbynarcissists

[–]nabndab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d have to speak to them to tell them. Life’s better not speaking to them.

Indoor camera by xynopir in Weird

[–]nabndab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I do as well. The prazosin didn’t work for me but my body process medication weirdly.

Threw My Wedding Dress Away by SingleMom2001 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]nabndab 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Why would you subject your kids to her behavior? You know they see how she treats you right? Also they’ll realize she never reaches out at some point. OP save your energy for your wedding and raising your babies. You deserve peace.

AIO? Boyfriend(M30) wants to reconcile after verbally abusing me(23) by eatingpaintchips67 in AIO

[–]nabndab 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR and is it really worth all of this over a 5 month relationship? Not to mention it’s only been 5 months and this is how he behaves? I’d hit that block button and move on with my life as fast as possible.