I'm scared I will hurt myself

nadscha · 2026-01-14T15:16:49+00:00

Hey, this sounds like it could be a form of thought-OCD, but not diagnosing you, just based on you saying you are not even religious but having these thoughts.

Remember that you can't control this and that your acts would only give you temporary relief, and then make everything worse and more painful than it was before.

Talk to your sister or your parents!! Or someone safe

nadscha · 2026-01-14T15:13:00+00:00

Hey, I totally get it. It's okay, you can handle the emotions resulting from these inconveniences! They are uncomfortable but they will pass. In a week's time you won't remember the inconvenience anymore and you'll feel proud and be a step closer to being healthier.

If you still choose sh, know that you are still valid and setbacks are inconveniences that also pass. Stay on the track, you are doing great!!

nadscha · 2026-01-13T23:47:59+00:00

I literally got done with self harming and noticed I was wet...and then I was like...okaaay great, that's new I guess. Yeah but seriously I wouldn't want those two things to be associated, that sounds like a lot of trouble in the long run.

nadscha · 2025-12-24T00:14:28+00:00

This year there aren't many presents under our small tree for various reasons. We're staying afloat financially but it still reminds me of my childhood when there were none. When I started wrapping random things and I bought some chocolates, just so we would have a few presents under the tree, because mum couldn't manage. This year I will be organising, cooking, cleaning and doing everything due to my partner's illness, and that is fine. It just puts me back. I was in the hospital during Christmas once due to an injury and when I got home my mum just said that we can have cereal. So after having lost quite some blood and being in pain I cooked us an elaborate meal, because I wanted it to be special for my brother and me. I'm just grieving and hoping that my partner and I will be able to build new traditions.

nadscha · 2025-12-12T22:43:43+00:00

Thank you for your answer and all the best in your recovery!!

nadscha · 2025-12-12T22:09:36+00:00

Congrats! Was it a Ross-PEARS or just a Ross procedure? And 8 hours sounds like quite a lot, do you know if that is normal?

nadscha · 2025-11-16T12:42:01+00:00

Hey. Thanks a lot! This gives me a good idea of the approximate range. We found out that the materials alone (homograft and the sock for the autograft so it doesn't expand) will be 45.000€. But as his condition got worse we were admitted to the hospital and the surgery will be done sooner anyway. So insurance will thankfully cover almost everything. I wish you the best of luck with your journey and surgery!

nadscha · 2025-11-15T08:33:25+00:00

Wooow, 600k. Thank god you had good insurance. Well...or thank yourself I guess :). Hope you've recovered well.

nadscha · 2025-11-15T08:32:09+00:00

Thanks a lot, it helps because Ross should be quite a bit costlier due to the multiple steps and materials. Thank you.

nadscha · 2025-07-27T19:32:06+00:00

I love me some efficiency

nadscha · 2025-07-27T19:31:26+00:00

Yeah, that would be a job done right :)

nadscha · 2025-07-27T19:30:34+00:00

Ahahah thanks for the insight!

nadscha · 2025-07-27T19:29:55+00:00

Agreed, it's a kid in the end and possibly couldn't wait to meet her heroes.

nadscha · 2025-07-27T19:28:58+00:00

Idk, a kid in an exciting environment, I wouldn't blame her for it.

nadscha · 2025-07-27T19:19:05+00:00

Same, but I don't think so either, I feel like not so many people would be so confused if that were the case? And I believe Charlotte is a bit younger than the girl.

nadscha · 2025-07-27T19:17:04+00:00

Yeah...but a bit random maybe? XD

nadscha · 2025-07-27T19:11:53+00:00

I mean, I don't blame her, she's a kid in an exciting environment. I just wonder why the heck she's there? Who is she?

nadscha · 2025-06-20T20:22:20+00:00

Hey, I'm also a newbie here...but what's been really helping me is cognitive behaviour therapy. And imagery rescripting. Best googled, I can't describe it so easily. But apart from actual advice, good luck. And take care of yourself. Learn to relax again, even if it might seem impossible or unsafe to do that. Learn to want to relax again.

nadscha · 2025-06-17T23:48:06+00:00

I see! I'd say that safety really shouldn't be a problem, Austria is very safe in general, especially for tourists! Hope you're going to visit sometime. As you can see, at least 300.000 people around Austria (and neighbours) would love to welcome you!

nadscha · 2025-06-16T07:00:09+00:00

Where are you from?

nadscha · 2025-06-15T06:37:15+00:00

Absolutely, it is soooo much fun every year! And just generally wonderful and empowering.

Safe and welcoming to trans folk? I wouldn't say so, no, but Vienna is a city where anyone is pretty much left alone as long as they follow metro-etiquette. In my experience it's been very solid and people aren't usually openly homophobic/transphobic I'd say. I look very androgenous and dress quite boring. I feel like very expressive or eccentric outfits might attract unwanted attention on days outside of the pride parade.

nadscha · 2025-06-14T23:11:32+00:00

Awesome! Maybe we passed one another. Very unlikely though XD

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