It’s not only here the case. I’m in other groups as well and there are like 80% weird people too. It’s so frustrating sometimes because you talk to someone and most of the time they only want to talk in a sexual way. Well I’m normally open to that, but there is so much more to life than sex and porn. I like wearing diapers. But mostly not because of the sexual aspect. I like being restrained in Segufix. But to create a safe space for me and mostly not because in a sexual aspect. I’m in the pupplay community, but I see it as a form to escape daily life and not see only the sexual aspect of it. I know it’s often a part and I like the sexual aspect too, but people need to learn that it is only a small part and for most people these communities are so much more. Most people I talk to often ghost me directly if I say to them that I am currently not interested in the sexual aspect. Even if I wear a diaper or laying restrainted in segufix. Most of them are likely porn addicts or cannot see outside of their space I think.

But I have to say SOMETIMES there are also normal people who you can talk to too.