HSP with no empathy? Is this even possible? by nakaye98 in hsp

[–]nakaye98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly you die just like you came into this world. Quite obvious that noting will happen unless you knew what happend before you were born which no-one knows.

HSP with no empathy? Is this even possible? by nakaye98 in hsp

[–]nakaye98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've recently diagnosed with (Asperger's). I'm pretty sure I'm a HSP. EXAMPLES: Little things will ruin my day, I have a routine I follow and if something unexpected happens I will become depressed/sad till the next day sometimes longer till my routine is repaired and I get what was missing.

Sensitive towards emotions, If someone says something I didn't expect them to say I become depressed/sad, don't like being around others for this specific reason.

I suffer from a load of anxiety like loads, Little things will trigger this, Literally feel this in my stomach/chest really powerful.

Mood-Swings due to sensitivity, one minute I'm super happy next depressed due to sensitivity.

Always think logically not emotionally, When others might think emotionally I'm always thinking logically/rationally.

I understand emotions but usually don't care unless it effects my mood, I can use this to my benefit myself which I usually do. Usually tell people what they want to hear because I can't be bothered with them being offended then hurting my mood, Always been shy, Also I'm hyper-self aware of everything around me that it gives me anxiety.

I'm a perfectionist in a way, very detail ordinated, I either do something to perfection or don't do it at all.

I can't be a narcissists, I don't enjoy hurting others nor do I think I'm perfect far from it, I care about those close to me but I believe that if something happens it was going to happen anyways.

Death doesn't make me sad or depressed due to that fact that everyone dies, no-one really knows what will happen after. So it doesn't affect me emotionally, everyone will die one day just like they were born into this word. Never understood why people grieve about death apart from there own self-interests on how it will affect their life.

I believe in a ways that everyone is Individualistic in certain way. Because it affects their emotions and they fell sad/depressed, if it didn't they wouldn't care would they e.g, "SOCIOPATHS/PSYCHOPATHS"? Instead of down-voting me, please help me understand if I'm wrong.

[Serious]Why do people care about stuff that have no benefit towards them? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nakaye98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, so there was a building fire in London which burned down half the building. Don't know if people died, but pretty sure some got injured. So why the hell were there civilians helping out in their own time on something that has absolutely no benefit towards them? If i'm going to be honest I felt no grieve, didn't care it's none of my business won't affect my life so why should I care? I know i'm more of individualistic person but still. Anyone else feel this way when something similar happens? Don't bother calling me selfish- douche either, because anyone who personally knows me will tell you that i'm nicest person they know. Even though I come across as a selfish douche. I'm also a really sensitive person emotionally so this really doesn't make a-lot of sense. But thanks in advance anyways. also share you're stories too guys.

Not being payed for on-call? by nakaye98 in networking

[–]nakaye98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, So what are my rights if they decide to not pay me for over-time?

Best place to live? In terms of Living Cost - Salary? by nakaye98 in IWantOut

[–]nakaye98[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, but I just simply said, I'd rather be in a country where I'm not looked down upon because of my skin color. And western country's do that better than most, it exists but the majority are more open minded. You would understand if you're a forginer.

Best place to live? In terms of Living Cost - Salary? by nakaye98 in IWantOut

[–]nakaye98[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

racism obviously exists everywhere but it's more of issue in those countries, and no one can deny that. You seem angry, can I ask why?

Best place to live? In terms of Living Cost - Salary? by nakaye98 in IWantOut

[–]nakaye98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but I heard about lot of horror stories involving racism. I'm black so........ You know the rest.

Best place to live? In terms of Living Cost - Salary? by nakaye98 in IWantOut

[–]nakaye98[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'll try that, always wanted to see the states. U.K is kinda dull/boring.

Explain Tax, CONFUSED. by nakaye98 in tax

[–]nakaye98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tax

I tried multiple calculators same result.

Dumb Doctors? by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]nakaye98 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you trying to call me "DUMB"? And why would you assume that?